Recently, the 48-year-old Wu Qili has returned to the public eye, because she often shares positive energy chicken soup texts, and netizens have called her "chicken soup master" and "emotional master".
But some netizens did not buy it, directly in the comment area of the message, asking how the xiaolongnü is doing? And Wu Qili was also unusual, no longer avoiding talking, but replying to the netizen's inquiry in detail.
In her reply, Wu did not admit that her daughter's girlfriend, Andi, claimed to have social disabilities, but directly said that Andi did not like to go to work, and her daughter was working hard to earn money to support her family.
It can be seen that Wu Qili and her daughter's girlfriend Andi are still contradictory, and two months ago, Wu Qili suddenly updated her social account, and the words hid the machine front, alluding to the fact that her daughter was used by Andi and became her "victim".
Previously, the little dragon girl Wu Zhuolin was also photographed rolling up the covers and his girlfriend Andi fell into the streets of Canada, begging for food and accommodation, and was forced to move out of Jackie Chan's name in desperation, and then publicly admitted on social platforms that his father was Jackie Chan.
Wu Zhuolin finally embarked on the old path of his mother Wu Qili when she was young, and she couldn't help but make netizens feel sympathy and couldn't help but issue a sigh.
Compare Wu Qili's ups and downs in life and the fruits she has planted: one is her, who has now been tempered by the years, but she is still alone, and the other is her daughter who has been delayed, and now she is still wandering and destitute.
We will find that Wu Qili has taken two key steps in her important life node, the first step is that she will not stop the loss in time and force Jackie Chan to divorce; the second step is her education of her daughter Wu Zhuolin.
There is a "Fastinger's Rule" in psychology, which means that only 10% of life is made up of things that happen to us, and the remaining 90% is made up of our reactions to these things.
This is why if we make a mistake, we may need to do 9 things to make up for the impact of that wrong thing, but often we will find that running after the mistake, we will go farther and farther wrong.
Wu Qili is a typical demonstration of Feistinger's law, if she had not forced Jackie Chan to divorce and let herself ascend to the throne, but chose to take her daughter Wu Zhuolin to strengthen herself independently and start her life again, there would be no series of mistakes added to the wrong things.
Born in Hong Kong in 1973, Wu Qili is the daughter of Zheng Liming, a strong woman in the real estate industry, and has been pampered since she was a child.
Her mother was even more generous to her, and when she was 22 years old, she directly gave her a mansion worth 50 million as a birthday gift.
Coupled with the fact that Wu Qili herself is young and beautiful, she won the crown of Miss Asia in 1990, which can be described as a moment of unlimited scenery, and her career began to develop in full swing.
However, the good times were not long, wu Qili, who wanted money and money and fame, but after meeting Jackie Chan, she was about to make a failed choice - to force the palace to ascend to the throne.
At that time, Jackie Chan was 45 years old, and lin fengjiao had been married for more than ten years, but it had always been a hidden marriage state, and Lin Fengjiao's identity had not been disclosed to the media, and it can be said that Wu Qili's step was the pusher of Lin Fengjiao's final recognition of Jackie Chan's "right palace" identity.
In other words, if wu Qili had not forced the palace, Lin Fengjiao would not know what year and month she would be able to gain Jackie Chan's trust and accept the blessings of the public.
It turned out that the young Wu Qili was fascinated by the fierce pursuit of kung fu superstar Jackie Chan, but never knew that Jackie Chan only regarded her as a normal dew love affair.
Jackie Chan has not lost his heart, and he has been married for many years and is still out of love, but he has never thought of being responsible.
At that time, he repeatedly stressed that he did not want to get married, and only wanted to pick the best woman.
It's just that Lin Fengjiaosheng is in the wide and generous, no matter how Jackie Chan plays outside, she has repeatedly tolerated and supported, and did not cry and make a big fuss, so that Jackie Chan could not get off the stage.
The marriage was also a helpless move made by Jackie Chan after Lin Fengjiao became pregnant, and after more than ten years, he showed himself as a hidden child.
Jackie Chan also said several times that Lin Fengjiao was too good for herself, resulting in her wanting to divorce and could not find an excuse. Lin Fengjiao did not care about the prodigal son's behavior of restraining herself, so she had no motive for actual divorce.
And Wu Qili, instead of learning from Lin Fengjiao, was more like a moth to a fire, wanting to emulate Lin Fengjiao's behavior of forcing Jackie Chan to marry her when she was pregnant.
Resolutely in 1999, he took a six-month pregnancy test and directly asked Jackie Chan for a name!
This is the first step that Wu Qili took wrongly, because Jackie Chan has told her frankly many times: "Even if she is born, I will not recognize this child." ”
Wu Qili made one mistake after another, directly exposing this matter to the media who are good at catching wind and catching shadows, and suddenly pushed the kung fu superstar Jackie Chan to the cusp of morality.
She simply believes that with the pressure of widespread public opinion, Jackie Chan will definitely give himself and his children a name.
As a result, Lin Fengjiao's approach was something she never expected, and she still underestimated Lin Fengjiao's arrogance.
Compared with Wu Qili's toughness and step-by-step pressing, Lin Fengjiao's softness and thoughtfulness can capture Jackie Chan's heart.
Lin Fengjiao said: "You don't need to explain, you don't want to hurt others, and don't let people hurt us." Anytime you need me and my son, we can stand up right away."
Jackie Chan's desire for divorce was completely dispelled. In addition to the official apology, Jackie Chan also directly disclosed his married identity to the media, and changed the will to all property to be owned by Lin Fengjiao.
Wu Qili was dumbfounded: It turns out that the clown is herself?
All the reluctance, humiliation, and resentment burst out of her head, and she defined herself as a complete victim.
Her mother, Zheng Liming, couldn't stand the scandal her daughter had created and pressured her daughter by withdrawing financial support to humiliate herself.
Wu Qili tried to tell the pain of her abandonment through media footage and reports, and vowed to give birth to a daughter.
Sure enough, after a series of behaviors in which she made mistakes again and again and vowed not to give up until she reached the goal, she also tasted a taste of heartache——
Jackie Chan refused to admit it, her mother no longer funded her, her career was depressed, and she had nowhere to go after losing her financial resources.
Jackie Chan had said at the time that if she could leave Hong Kong to develop elsewhere and not make a big fuss in the media, he would promise her 30 million alimony and send her a living allowance every month.
But where is Wu Qili willing to bow her head and obey? She wanted a dignified name.
At this moment, it angered Jackie Chan even more, making Jackie Chan feel bored, thinking that she did not know good villains and was too difficult to entangle, so she was even more unable to avoid the fact of illegitimate daughters.
Wu Qili's unwillingness lasted until her daughter grew up.
She did not choose to let her daughter continue to grow up safely and happily, but took her daughter to "put on the armor" together, setting off a public opinion storm again, pulling the audience's vision back to her previous love debt with Jackie Chan.
Since being brought back to Hong Kong by Wu Qili, when her mother went around in various business activities and fanned the flames, the "Little Dragon Girl" smashed into Wu Zhuolin's young heart so humiliatingly.
It turned out that she and her mother were both women that Jackie Chan did not want, and the happiness and simplicity of the past were also consumed with the comeback of her mother, and her life began to be shrouded in a heavy shadow of public opinion.
Poor and young Wu Zhuolin was forced to accept this sudden change and blow, which was the second step that Wu Qili had taken the most wrong step, and it was this crucial step that made Wu Zhuolin an innocent victim of her wrong step and step wrong step.
We often say that a person's words and deeds always have past emotional experiences and the shadow of the original family.
Therefore, looking at Wu Qili's past love history and original family, we can understand why she is obsessed with it and completely pins her hopes for the second half of her life on a married man, and this man is still a kung fu superstar Jackie Chan.
Wu Qili's early view of feelings was more wayward, and she did not expect to meet Jackie Chan, who was more "willful" than her, and tasted the taste of being abandoned.
As a "rich second generation", Wu Qili stepped into the entertainment circle, but also held the mentality of playing, so she did not cherish the film and television resources that were easy to get.
At that time, the media often exposed her forgetting words, being late, playing big names, and disrespecting the staff.
The smooth career did not give her the sense of conquest she wanted, so she began to turn her eyes to feelings. Before meeting Jackie Chan, her two most famous relationships led to her wind ratings not being good.
One is her intervention in Tianhou Mei Yanfang and Zhao Wenzhuo.
Just as Mei Yanfang and the current Zhao Wenzhuo were preparing to talk about marriage, Wu Qili and Zhao Wenzhuo spread a scandal, which made fans who supported Tianhou and Hong Kong media angrily scold.
The other is a relationship with Ye Chongren, the second generation of the rich, when her mother did not agree, she willfully proposed to break up, without the slightest concern for Ye Chongren's feelings.
If willfulness is the appearance of Wu Qili, then the desire to conquer and possess is the essence rooted in her heart.
The more things and people you can't get, the more you can stimulate Wu Qili's desire to win and lose, and she wants to win too much. A person who wants to win too much tends to lose more easily.
We often say that character makes destiny, and this paranoid character is also destined to make a life full of hardships.
Wu Qili's original family is also the root cause of her one step wrong and one wrong step.
Her mother, Zheng Liming, is a very strong woman herself, divorced from her husband for more than ten years, she has not let her daughter Wu Qili see her father, so Wu Qili has also inherited her mother's personality.
Her mother often told her: "If you have a goal, you must achieve it, and what you have won is your own." ”
This kind of highly possessive and controlling education also had a fundamental impact on Wu Qili.
At the same time, Zheng Liming also made Wu Qili unable to achieve economic independence after the great changes in her life, resulting in a time when she needed to continue to rely on her mother's rescue to barely survive.
Wu Zhuolin's state in recent years is almost the same as her state of dependence on her mother, which shows that the pathological original family relationship is intergenerational.
Moreover, during the days when she lived in Shanghai, she and her daughter had always lived in the home of their mother Zheng Liming, but they were often humiliated by Zheng Liming.
This forced her to return to Hong Kong with her daughter again, and through Wu Zhuolin's misery and sympathy in the media, Wu Zhuolin endured what she did not have to face.
And Wu Qili's second mistake is to pass on her morbid education to Wu Zhuolin, and even her attitude towards Wu Zhuolin is more coercive, which is simply the 2.0 version of Zheng Liming.
For example, if a child lies, he will be taken by a belt, if he does not sleep after 11 o'clock, he will be punished for copying "I don't sleep" for one night, the "Ci Hai" above his head will be punished for 2 hours, and if he does not listen to his mother taking hypoallergenic drugs, he will be scolded...
All kinds of oppressive education made the young Wu Zhuolin breathless, and she could only break free from her mother's desire to control through rebellion, such as reporting warnings and running away from home.
In fact, the more rebellious she became, the more she found herself on the same road as her mother, or the wrong path of life, as if the despair of not being able to see the head at a glance, was still a state of emotional rootlessness and insecurity.
Today, Wu Qili has gradually woken up and begun to make money by making a comeback, and although she feels sorry for her daughter, the contradiction between mother and daughter is too deep, and it is difficult to save her daughter's heart through a few apologies.
In the end, Wu Qili, who is wrong and wrong step by step, can neither keep Jackie Chan nor her girlfriend, it is no wonder that netizens no longer believe the chicken soup views she shares on social media, but are more concerned about the actual problems of her daughter Wu Zhuolin.
Rather than saying that netizens are concerned about Wu Zhuolin, the deeper level can actually be said to be worried and sympathetic, everyone does not want Wu Zhuolin to embark on Wu Qili's old road again, and hopes that she can rely on her own efforts to walk out of a new road of self-reliance and self-improvement.
Wu Qili and Jackie Chan's oolong love debt is also enough to warn the majority of women that when they encounter the wrong person, they should not be bitterly entangled, and they will continue to be wrong again.
Stop loss in time and look forward in order to live a new life.