When we were young, our understanding of the relationship between men and women was only that ordinary friends would not be mixed with other emotions, and when we grew up, we understood that there could not only be friendship but also love between men and women, unlike family and friendship, which can be done between lovers.
It is said that there is no pure friendship between men and women, one party must be moved by the other party to always accompany each other, everyone's personality is different, the standard of liking will be different, we will all be attracted to different types of opposite sex.
What the authorities obsess over the bystanders see is the real thing, and some things they don't feel that the companionship of the confidant of the opposite sex is too long, and his existence has become a habit, and he has become a lover to a certain extent.
Confidants of the opposite sex, getting along to a certain extent, become lovers
The inner sense of security is pinned on the other party
When we grow up, we will feel more and more lonely, friends have their own things to do and can no longer be with themselves as they once were, and some things need to be solved by themselves alone.
The opposite sex confidant gets along with the inner security of the other party, which is no different from getting along with the lover, treating the other party as his own spiritual sustenance there is a happy thing to share with him, sad to confide in him that he is undecided will adopt his opinion, no matter what the first thought is that he needs each other, as long as he is around, he will feel safe and will not think wildly.
If the confidants of the opposite sex do not put their sense of security on each other, but just get along as ordinary friends, then these two people are just ordinary friends.
Therefore, the relationship between the opposite sex puts the inner security on the other party, and his every move is tied to his heart like a lover.
There are no boundaries that friends should have
There will be many people we meet in life, some are passers-by in life, some will become lifelong best friends, but there are boundaries between the best friends, especially for friends of the opposite sex, there are too many things that are inconvenient to ask.
Two confidants of the opposite sex get along without the boundaries that a friend should have, private things will also be asked about major things will also participate, and when the other party has difficulties, they will help at any cost not to try their best like friends, and the boundaries between them have crossed the boundaries of friends, like intimate lovers are not like ordinary friends.
If the two sides only treat each other as a general notice to themselves, then the boundaries between friends will not exceed the bottom line without principles.
Therefore, the opposite sex confidants get along together without the boundaries that friends should have, and excessive participation in private affairs means that the two are already lovers.
I look forward to the other person being around
Companionship is the longest confession of affection, only like a person will expect the other party to be around themselves to see all the time, everyone has their own work to be busy will not waste time on meaningless people.
Confidants of the opposite sex are looking forward to each other's side in their hearts, and in their hearts they do not treat each other as ordinary friends but are intimate lovers who will expect him, and they are eager to stay by their side and accompany themselves in their hearts, and they will be more satisfied and happy, even if they do not do anything quietly accompanied.
If the two are just ordinary friends, they will not expect him to be around but go with the flow, and when they are free to get together and play, they will not expect to only be with themselves.
Therefore, the heart is very much looking forward to the other party's confidant of the opposite sex around him, and he no longer regards the other party as an ordinary friend, but as a lover.
epilogue:
There is pure friendship between men and women, but only a small number of people, most of whom still have a good feeling for each other, will always accompany each other and work hard.
Confidants of the opposite sex get along to a certain extent and there is no difference between the lover, the inner sense of security is pinned on the other party, the sense of security is no longer given by himself but brought by the other party, will care about his thoughts, consider his feelings Once he leaves, he will think wildly.
Without the boundaries that a friend should have, the way the two get along is not like ordinary friends but like a couple in the hot love period, and some intimate things will interfere too much with intimate actions unlike ordinary friends.
The heart is very much looking forward to the other party around, I hope that the other party can always accompany him to start looking forward to him, the above three points are enough to prove that this heterosexual confidant has treated the other party as his lover lover, rather than an ordinary confidant.