Ancient people's cloud: the mouth can spit roses, but also can spit out tribulus terrestris. Cultivating mouth morality is to cultivate one's own aura, and only by being righteous can one have good luck and good luck, and only with good mouth morality can one have good luck.
1. Abstain from excessive words; Sickness comes in from the mouth, and evil comes out of the mouth. Don't talk too much, and if you say too much, you will lose.
It is recorded in the Mozi that Mozi replied, "Toads and frogs, day and night, bark incessantly, and their mouths are dry and tired, but no one listens to it." This morning I saw the rooster, crying at dawn on time, and the world vibrating, (people get up early.) What's the benefit of talking more? It is only useful to speak when the timing is right. Mozi told us that there are not many words, and people who can talk always say Yidang's words at the right time.
2. Abstain from speaking lightly; Words should not be said lightly, and if the words are changed, it is better not to say; Words should not be made lightly, and if the promise is changed, it is better not to promise.
Don't speak rashly, those who speak lightly will be called to blame and humiliate. Don't make a wish easily. Make a wish easily, you will lose credibility.
3. Abstain from wild talk; Don't be ignorant and talk nonsense. Nonsense, often regret.
Mr. Shanyin Jin of the Qing Dynasty said: "Do not act rashly for others, and do not be reckless with misfortune and happiness." Rampant or humble. People show nothing more than words and deeds in front of others, and words are the most direct, so don't talk wildly. Crazy is eye-catching, crazy is hateful, and it is easy to cause trouble.
(4) Abstain from speaking out; Don't be reckless and outspoken, or it will cause trouble. Straight talk, to turn a corner to say, cold words, to heat up to say, take into account the self-esteem of others, put the self-esteem of others first.
(5) Abstain from speaking out; Speak implicitly, not without leaving room. Knowing people does not have to exhaust, leave three points of leeway for others, and leave some mouth virtue for yourself. Blame people do not have to be harsh, leave three points of leeway to others, leave some belly to themselves.
6. Refrain from omissions; Don't divulge secrets. Things are kept secret, words are leaked. For some things related to the secrets of others or organizations, do not leak, this is a matter of integrity and character, when things are not determined, do not say certain words, so as not to cause bad influence, let people feel frivolous or mean.
7. Abstain from evil words; Don't say rude and slanderous words, don't hurt people with bad words.
As the old saying goes, "Knife sores are easy to disappear, and bad words are difficult to eliminate." Bad words do far more psychological harm than physical harm.
(8) Abstain from words; To be reserved is to be arrogant and self-righteous.
Lao Tzu said, "Those who cut themselves down are useless, and those who are self-effacing do not last long." Self-boasting people offset credit, and arrogant people don't grow. Those who are reserved, either proud or ignorant, will also attract the disgust of others.
Shen Hanguang in the early Ming Dynasty said: "Self-humility is more obedient, boasting is people will be suspicious" speaking, do not be proud and complacent, self-righteous. Self-conceit and self-aggrandizement are a manifestation of insufficient cultivation.
(9) Abstain from slander; Slander is to say bad things behind your back, to stir up dissension or to maliciously slander, belittle and insult others. Those who speak falsely are villains. The Eastern Han Dynasty philosopher Wang Chong said: "Rumors hurt good flies and stain white." Don't say bad things about others behind your back. Saying bad things about people behind their backs will make the world not peaceful.
10. Abstain from angry words; Don't talk when you're angry, because what you say hurts others and hurts yourself, and the words you say are spilled with water. Words, can not be said indiscriminately, when angry to speak is not through the brain, so think twice before acting.