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There is a line in the movie "2046": "Love is a thing, time is very critical, and it is not okay to know too early or too late." ”
Love is difficult to understand, and when it quietly comes, it will give time a special meaning, and it will also make people in it perceive a different taste.
Some people explain love from a scientific point of view, believing that it is dopamine secretion that stimulates the brain, and when hormone levels stabilize, love will disappear with it.
Of course, love cannot be judged by hormones alone, and people's seven passions and six desires and joys and sorrows are an obscure science. But if the opposite sex is emotional to you, it will definitely send a special signal.
For example, people will have many emotions in love, like sneezing can not be hidden, let people sometimes in the warmth of spring blossoms, and sometimes fall into the cold cave.
Some people say: "Missing is a disease, making people think of each other, and losing love is like a terminal illness, making people's hearts like knives." ”
In love, people can indeed feel the change of emotions, which affects the perception of the body.
George Barr, a psychologist at Yale University, believes that there is an area of the human brain called the "brain islet" that can sense people's body temperature and mood.
Finnish scientists have also studied this, if the temperature of the human body is marked with different colors, when people's mood changes, the color will indeed change with it.
From a scientific point of view, in the process of getting along, if one of the parties is emotional, the body will definitely send the most honest signal.
Generally speaking, if the opposite sex is emotional to you, it will often emit three flavors, which must not be hidden.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="13" >01: The taste of tension is the beginning of the heartbeat</h1>
In the Korean drama "Goddess Descending", Han Shujun, played by Huang Yinye, is a school bully with rich musical talent, and he unconsciously likes each other in the fight with the heroine Lin Zhoujing.
In the past, he was always careless when he got along with the heroine, and when he liked each other, he often showed a nervous strange emotion.
Once, he and the other party took a group of couples commercial photos, the photographer asked the two to be a little closer, when the heroine slowly approached the moment, he was so stiff that he did not dare to move, and his eyes involuntarily revealed nervousness and joy.
It is precisely because the other party is a special existence in their own minds that they will have a different state when they are together.
There is a question on zhihu: what will happen to a crush on someone?
Some netizens replied: "The other party can always easily affect my emotions, he obviously just sneezed, but I was nervous, and the mood will fluctuate with his every move." ”
True love for a person, not only is it easy to be nervous and flustered, but also always nervous and worried about the other party.
There is a lyric in Li Zongsheng's song "Crossing the Ocean to See You": "For this reunion, I have even practiced my breathing when I met." ”
Only people who are genuinely emotional may be nervous in the face of people they like to be even out of breath. Behind a person's nervousness, there is an incomparably precious friendship.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="23" >02: The ambiguous taste is a tacit confession</h1>
Everyone's love is unique, some people will choose to make a vigorous confession to impress each other's hearts, and some people will euphemistically express their love and let the other party feel special treatment.
In the show "Comedians", Jiang Xin and Chang Yuan staged a love sketch.
When Jiang Xin was uncomfortable during her menstrual period, Chang Yuan would intimately take out the boiled brown sugar water to the other party; Chang Yuan not only remembered Jiang Xin's birthday, but also specially prepared a birthday cake for the other party to celebrate the birthday.
The two seem to be just an ordinary table-sharing relationship, but in fact, in the flirting with each other, everyone can see that the relationship is extraordinary.
This tacit ambiguity will add a mysterious veil to love, and taste the taste of love in the hazy beauty.
In true love, ambiguity is absolutely exclusive and unique. If the other party really loves you, they will only be ambiguous about you alone, giving you special care and tenderness.
If the other party and different members of the opposite sex have ambiguous tastes, knowing how to get out of the feelings in time is the best choice for yourself.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="31" >03: The gentle taste is a natural outpouring of love in the depths</h1>
Liu Kun of the Western Jin Dynasty wrote in "Sending Farewell to Lu Chen": "He Means Hundred Steelmaking, Turning into Soft Fingers!" ”
A man as hard as iron may also become gentle as water, and if a person with a big grin is careful and gentle with you, it means that your position in his mind must be different.
Zhangye is an informal boy, and he is also very capable of doing things in life, and his friends say that he is a rough man who does not know how to romance and enjoyment.
However, he was careful and considerate in front of Liu Ying.
Every time the two go out to be happy, he will not order spicy dishes that Liu Ying does not like to eat, peel shrimp, pick fish and spines, and even remember her physiological period, and will prepare brown sugar water in advance.
Liu Ying thinks that he is a gentle and considerate gentleman, but does not know that his gentleness is only given to himself.
In love, only if you really like each other, you are willing to be gentle and give each other special care and warmth.
In the TV series "Accidentally Picked Up Love", Gu Xin'er, played by Li Muchen, has a tough personality and is a goddess that Ling Sheng has admired for a long time.
Ling Sheng would gently pick up the coriander for her at the dinner table, and was willing to wait for her to leave work willingly, even if he knew that she belonged to the eldest brother, he was willing to gently meet all her requirements as a guardian.
In interpersonal communication, if the opposite sex responds to your needs, no matter when you are gentle, it may not be the soft personality of the other party, but because you are the softness of his heart.
As a line from the movie Gone with the Wind: "For the world, you are a person; but for someone, you are his whole world." ”
It has been said that the favored are always fearless. We always have special treatment for the people we like, and with a little careful observation, we can see if the other party loves us.
Su Hei, the chief emotional healer of the Chinese-speaking world, wrote in the book "Doubly Love Yourself in the Most Painful Time": "Who can meet the fate is the result of a lot of internal and external conditions to cooperate with the favorable people of heaven and place, and it is impossible to find it." ”
The fate between people is wonderful, every true feeling is precious, may we all have the privilege of meeting our own true love, but also can understand each other's friendship.
There is a sour, sweet, bitter, spicy and salty taste in love, and only by being good at tasting the taste in it is easier to harvest your own feelings.
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