【Author:Ye Yue'er】
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He Lin is a well-known actress, she was born in Shanghai, has acting experience since childhood, and is a child star.
After graduating from junior high school, she was admitted to the Shanghai Children's Art Theater and was in the same class as Lu Yi.
In September 1996, He Lin was successfully admitted to the Beijing Film Academy and became classmates with Chen Kun, Zhao Wei, Huang Xiaoming and others.
Admitted to this star class, it seems that it is destined that He Lin will definitely become popular.
In her sophomore year, He Lin began to take over the role, and successively starred in "Non-Smoking Gunner" holding hands, "Year after Year", etc., and "Holding Hands" also let He Lin win the 17th Best Supporting Actress Award.
In her junior year, He Lin went out to act as soon as she was on vacation, rarely went home, and always felt that she would spend many days with her family in the future. Who knows, soon after, her father died of cirrhosis. This incident hit He Lin very hard, and she always felt that she owed a lot to the elderly, so she especially wanted to do filial piety to the elderly.
As soon as she graduated from college, He Lin signed a contract with an agency and began her acting career.
He Lin's acting skills are pure, low-key, and strong in shaping, and she is an actress that many directors like to use.
After graduating from college, she kept running in the crew, and successively starred in excellent film and television dramas such as "For the Slave's Mother", "Dream Back to Qinghe", "Spicy Mother-in-law", "Woman Without Regret", "Journey to the Tiger Mountain" and so on.
In just 10 years, she has won the Best Actress of various award ceremonies such as the Feitian Award and the International Emmy Award, and has become the most beautiful actress in the memory of the 80s and 90s.
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In her career, He Lin is successful, but emotionally, she has not landed.
It wasn't until 2013, when a friend in the circle introduced her to a man named Wu Bing, that her heart was melted little by little.
Wu Bing, 3 years older than He Lin, is an associate professor of the Production Management Department of the Beijing Film Academy, and is tall and powerful, very manly.
When the two first met, He Lin had a good feeling for Wu Bing, one because he was a teacher at his alma mater, and the other because Wu Bing was indeed very handsome.
And Wu Bing also fell in love with He Lin at first sight, although he had seen her on TV before, but after seeing the real person, he found that the other party was more elegant and beautiful than on TV, gentle and dignified.
In fact, Wu Bing's family lineage is also very good. His mother is the famous actress Lu Zhong, and his father is Wu Guiling, both famous performing artists at the Beijing People's Art Theatre.
Wu Bing also inherited his parents' career, and has served as a screenwriter for many film and television dramas such as "Too Late to Love You", "October Siege", "Fatal Pursuit", "Mountain Song Like Spring River Water" and so on.
Wu Bing is tall and handsome, and it is said that he should have had a home long ago, but he is a workaholic, and he has been dragging his feelings until he is more than 30 years old.
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The first time the two met was under the birch tree at the entrance of Nortel, Wu Bing proposed to go to the café, He Lin said: "I haven't been to the school for a long time, let's take a walk around the campus." ”
Therefore, Wu Bing took He Lin to wander around Nortel's playground, dormitory, library, etc., while strolling around and chatting about movies, dramas, musicals and so on.
Before separating, the two left contact information, Wu Bing also said solemnly: "In the future, if you are unhappy, you can call me at any time, and I will wait for you 24 hours a day." ”
This sentence made He Lin feel very warm and very valued.
Although He Lin's father died relatively early, when he was alive, he and his mother were very much in love and have always been a model for He Lin's life.
He Lin has had a clear goal since she was a child: "In the future, I must only get married once, and I must manage the marriage well, and everything is family-oriented." ”
In every woman's heart, there will be a proud princess dream, and she will want to get the favor of men, and He Lin is no exception.
In order to test Wu Bing's heart, she deliberately said to Wu Bing: "I can't cook, I can't do housework, I can only act, but I can't become a good wife and mother." ”
Who knows, Wu Bing patted his chest and said, "Rest assured, I have a good cooking stick, I can make it for you to eat." You act so well, if you can cook and do housework again, it is simply a perfect person, in this world, where are such perfect people. ”
Wu Bing's words made He Lin instantly burst with beauty.
Soon after, in order to verify his words, Wu Bing invited He Lin to his house for dinner.
In order to welcome He Lin, Wu Bing bought a lot of dishes, meat and vegetarian collocation, fish and meat complete. Under the witness of He Lin, after a while, Wu Bing made a large table of delicacies, which made He Lin stunned.
He Lin didn't expect that a big man could really cook, and couldn't help but ask him: "You are so skilled in cooking, you must often do it yourself, right?" ”
Wu Bing said without concealment at all: "Actually, I didn't do it before, it wasn't for you, I have been studying it in the past month, doing it every day, and it has become like this." ”
Wu Bing also said self-deprecatingly: "I didn't expect that I still had the talent to cook, and if I didn't do a screenwriter in the future, I could completely become a cook." ”
He Lin was touched by what Wu Bing had done, and couldn't help but say to Wu Bing: "In fact, I lied to you, I am very good at cooking, that is, I am afraid that men will take it for granted that women do housework, so they want to test you." ”
Wu Bing also hurriedly said: "It's all right, I understand you very well, whether it's true or not, I'm willing to cook for you and pay for you." My parents had never quarreled in their lives, and I wanted to meet that kind of love. To be honest, there are too many unstable feelings in our circle, and I have always had no hope for feelings, only after meeting you, I want to give you my life. ”
When He Lin listened, she did not expect that Wu Bing actually had the same marriage values as her, and she was a lot closer at once.
After that, the two established a romantic relationship.
In May 2014, the two married in a low-key manner in Beijing and became a formal couple.
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After marriage, Wu Bing and He Lin respected each other like guests, and the husband and wife loved each other, and soon became pregnant.
After He Lin became pregnant, Wu Bing completely became a good husband of 24 filial piety, giving all the time outside of work to his wife. Not only to make her three meals a day, but also to accompany her to exercise, ease her emotions, go out for a walk, everything is mainly He Lin.
Wu Bing's mother, Lü Zhong, also loved He Lin and often brought nutritional products to see her daughter-in-law.
The beautiful pregnancy photos of He Lin circulating on the Internet are not the photo studios they are looking for, but Wu Bing personally took pictures, retaining He Lin's most moving moments.
In March 2015, 38-year-old He Lin gave birth to a lovely daughter.
After the birth of the child, He Lin's mother rushed over and took care of her daughter for a week, but because she was not accustomed to life in Beijing, she hurried back to Shanghai.
Mother-in-law Lü Zhong is 75 years old, and her health is getting worse and worse, so Wu Bing had to invite a gold medal sister-in-law to take care of He Lin at home.
After becoming a mother, He Lin gained more than ten pounds and felt very bad about herself. In addition to taking care of the children, she began to actively exercise in preparation for her comeback.
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Here He Lin was busy with the comeback, but Wu Bing over there was full of deep concern.
Although children can ask for a nanny, even if there is a nanny, they also need a relative to follow, otherwise they are not at ease at all.
But Wu Bing's parents, Lü Zhong and Wu Guiling, are both 75 years old and have been taking care of his grandmother and grandmother, two 90-year-old people, and it is impossible to help take care of the children.
After He Lin went out to shoot a scene, who would take care of the family?
After consultation between the couple, He Lin took her mother to the house again.
After a hundred days of the child, He Lin had a suitable script in her heart and was always ready to take over the drama and make a comeback.
No one expected that at this moment, her mother-in-law Lu Zhong suddenly suffered from asthma and was admitted to the hospital. Before her mother-in-law Lü Zhong was discharged from the hospital, her father-in-law Wu Guiling fell ill with diabetes again.
The mother-in-law's condition is slightly better, and the father-in-law has diabetic complications, first the eyes are blurred, then the legs are puffy, and various bruises appear on the body, and life is difficult to take care of.
Wu Bing ran up and down, not only had to work, but also had to take care of his grandmother and grandmother at home, physically and mentally exhausted.
He Lin looked at her husband so tired, yu couldn't bear it, felt that she was particularly selfish, and in such a difficult situation at home, she actually wanted to come back.
At this time, she remembered her belief from childhood: everything is family first. He resolutely gave up his comeback and offered to share the difficulties with his husband and fulfill his responsibilities as a child.
When Wu Bing had classes, He Lin asked her mother to take care of the children, and she ran between the hospital and her grandmother.
Within a few days, the hospitalized in-laws obviously had a decrease in appetite, but they didn't say anything, He Lin knew that the in-laws must have eaten enough of the hospital's meals, so they ran home every day to cook, and then brought them back to the hospital for the elderly to eat.
Father-in-law Wu Guiling is diabetic and needs special attention in diet, but He Lin is not troublesome and has been doing her best to serve.
During that time, Lü Zhong and Wu Guiling were hospitalized, Grandma and Grandma needed to be taken care of at home, and He Lin and Wu Bing were busy and almost collapsed.
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The in-laws are also well aware of the pressure of their sons and daughters-in-law to take care of 4 elderly people, and they feel guilty in their hearts, but there is no other way.
In the depths of Lü Zhong's heart, he was full of gratitude to his daughter-in-law He Lin, after all, He Lin had not been married for a long time, and it was really a daughter-in-law who was personally kind and kind to them to be able to treat them in this way.
Many hospital patients also recognized He Lin, and often praised this filial daughter-in-law with Lü Zhong, who was also beautiful in his heart and proud to have such a daughter-in-law.
Fortunately, a month later, Lü Zhong and her husband were discharged from the hospital one after another, and He Lin and Wu Bing were relieved.
The in-laws' health is getting worse and worse, and when they go home, they have to take care of their grandmothers and grandmothers who are more than 90 years old, and they certainly can't eat, He Lin has taken over the burden of taking care of the two old people.
Half a year later, Lü Zhong's 98-year-old mother died, and it was He Lin who assisted her husband in taking care of the old man's affairs.
In February 2016, Wu Guiling's condition deteriorated and she was admitted to the hospital again, at this time, only 5 days before the Spring Festival.
Fortunately, Wu Bing was in the winter vacation, so he was admitted to the hospital again and began to take care of his old father.
On the day of Chinese New Year's Eve, Lü Zhong rushed to the hospital and asked Wu Bing and He Lin to go home for the New Year, and she and her wife were in the hospital for the New Year. But He Lin disagreed, thinking that the Family must be together for the New Year, so she hurried home, cooked a lot of dishes, and took it back to the hospital without bothering.
In this way, on the day of Chinese New Year's Eve, the family actually spent the Spring Festival in the hospital.
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A week later, Wu Guiling was discharged from the hospital and began to recuperate at home, and Wu Bing and He Lin ran on both sides again and took care of the elderly together.
On June 21, 2016, Wu Guiling completed her 78-year-old life journey due to organ failure caused by complications of diabetes.
After the death of her father-in-law, He Lin moved to her mother-in-law's community and held her child every day to visit the door to ease Lü Zhong's emotions.
She guided her mother-in-law to tell the story of her love with her father-in-law and relieve Lu Zhong's inner grief. He also guided the child to filial piety to the grandmother and played with the grandmother, which washed away the sadness of Lu Zhong.
After Lu Zhong walked out of the pain of widowhood, she began to encourage her daughter-in-law to come back, she knew that her daughter-in-law He Lin loved to perform, for this family, she has paid a lot, she is still very young, need to have her own career, in order to find the belonging of the soul.
After this, Lü Zhong took the initiative to take on the responsibility of taking care of the child and encouraged He Lin to come back.
In 2017, He Lin made a comeback and successively took over the roles of "Zou Bihua", "The Legend of the White Snake of Tianqi", "Climber", etc., and picked up the lost career again.
Although she has made a comeback, He Lin has not taken many scenes, still focusing on her family, always keeping in mind her beliefs since childhood.
From getting married to having children, to taking care of the elderly, He Lin put down her career in the sky, perfectly explaining what is a modern woman who takes care of career and family, which is worth learning from many people.
I hope that He Lin and her husband, as well as her mother-in-law Lu Zhong, can be healthy, happy and happy.
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Author: Ye Yue'er
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