With the opening up of modern people's minds, more and more information about the gay community is displayed in broad daylight.
People with homosexual or bisexual tendencies in society actually account for a considerable proportion, some people are born, some people are affected by acquired life experiences, but in any case, different sexual orientations are just different personal choices, and society needs to look at the same-sex group with a more tolerant and normal eye, so that they can enjoy their love without scruples.
When people no longer pay special attention to same-sex groups, then society will be more harmonious.
First, the cause of homosexuality
Genetic factors
Individual cells carrying homosexual genes, under the right conditions, tend to develop into gay cells.
This shows that 70% of homosexual sexual orientation is the result of genetic inheritance.
Parental relationships
Many psychologists believe that homosexuality arises because homosexuals are too close to their opposite-sex parents, resulting in their identification with opposite-sex parents rather than same-sex parents.
Biological instincts
Human sexual behavior is pluralistic, and the desire generated by instinctive catharsis and external stimuli is a normal need of human nature.
In environments that lack the opposite sex, such as the military, prisons, etc., same-sex sex is a substitute for satisfying sexual desire.
Sexual assault
If you have ever been sexually assaulted by the opposite sex, it will bring psychological trauma to these people and have a close relationship with the emergence of homosexuality.
Second, the psychology of homosexuality
Emotional entanglements
Like heterosexuals, there will be conflicts and frictions in love, there will also be betrayals and breakups, and there will be more frequent changes in love between homosexuals.
There are also some homosexuals who suffer from falling in love with straight people.
Confused
Confused and confused about self-perception, lacking a sense of belonging and identity, homosexuals often have to carry a huge mental burden.
Some people don't know if they are really gay, and some people are irrepressibly fond of the same sex, but they are resolutely self-denying.
Can homosexuality change?
Secondary, situational homosexuality
Prison inmates, seafarers who have been adrift at sea for a long time, when there is no opposite sex, will use homosexual sex to appease their sexual impulses, and may even become obsessed with a specific same-sex person for a period of time.
But once they return to normal society, they will naturally look for the opposite sex.
bisexuality
Bisexual people are looking at the social environment and interpersonal opportunities, and what kind of sexual orientation they will show when they meet the right person of what gender.
Pure, primary homosexuality
This part of the population is mainly due to the inheritance and variation of biological genes and epigenetic N-methylation, which cannot be changed.
Fourth, the harm of homosexuality
Predisposing to sexually transmitted diseases
Homosexual population due to sexual organs, most of the gay male sex to anal sex or oral sex is the mainstay, the anal mucosa is fragile, easy to crack, and homosexual sexual partners are not fixed, some even multiple sexual partners, easy to infect the body with bacteria, but also easy to transmit to others, increase the risk of stingroidal diseases.
Mental illness
Although homosexuality is one of the physiological phenomena, but its development is contrary to the laws of nature, therefore, not accepted by people, many homosexuals in others discriminate against the eyes of growing up, will leave a shadow in the heart, easy to develop into mental illness, suicide or harm to others is also very common.
Endangering society
Some homosexuals will face their sexual orientation correctly, but some of them will pose a threat to society due to imperfect psychological development, and there will be some situations of instigation and seduction of normal people, and even more the phenomenon of sexual assault of children, which seriously endangers society, of course, there are many homosexuals who are normal to treat their own orientation, and there is not much harm to society.
Life is shorter
Homosexuals and normal people have a much shorter life, because their psychological consciousness is contrary to the characteristics of living organisms, so it will cause harm to the nervous system of the body, and there is a great damage to life span.
Why society is prejudiced against homosexuality
Related to traditional culture
Traditional Chinese culture is "no filial piety has three nothings to be great". The most immediate consequence of homosexuality is that there are no procreations, no offspring.
This is something that traditional culture cannot tolerate.
Associated with psychological bias
People's psychological prejudice is that heterosexuality is normal, homosexuality is abnormal.
In previous years, homosexuality was still a mental illness that had to be compulsorily treated.
Now, no longer treating homosexuality as a disease is already progress in itself.
And it may take some years for people to treat homosexuality and heterosexuality the same.
My own disagreement
I always feel that my sexual orientation is abnormal and unseemly. Therefore, if homosexuals want others to identify with themselves, they must first look up to themselves.
PS: Homosexuality is not a crime, it is not a disease, homosexuality is only a minority in the population, homosexuality is completely normal.
So, as a homosexual, accept the biological nature that cannot be changed, and accept the fact that you are a "normal person" that you do not need and cannot change.
Never be afraid of your parents being sad or having to have a child for the family, and reluctantly marry the opposite sex, and don't force yourself to marry with the crowd for fear of discrimination.