Family education is directly related to the growth of children and the cultivation of the whole family. We know that the cultivation of a family not only has a good family style inside, but also shows the pattern of a family on the outside.
Family cultivation has a direct connection to the lives of everyone in the family. Many of the living habits, basic abilities, personal cultivation and etiquette ideas of the members of the family follow the direction of family education.
We parents all hope that our children can have a good life cultivation, such as simply meeting elders to say hello, having uncles and aunts to be guests, children know how to treat each other politely, and know how to choose a good direction on the road to growth, etc. These are the excellent aspects of our parents who want to see their children.
But how to cultivate a strong character and good style of children? This requires us to grow up with our children.
As the saying goes: parents are the teachers of children's enlightenment, and every word and deed we do as parents leaves a deep impression on children. We have all heard the word "insubord", which describes a child following his parents, or even imitating his parents' thoughts. Because parents give their children more love, parents are more trusting and safe for their children, and children are more likely to think that their parents' behavior is correct. However, the parents' behavior is correct and positive, then the child's "imprint" will develop in the right direction, on the contrary, some negative behaviors of parents are likely to have a role in the child, may destroy the child's self-esteem and belief, and even bring more malignancy to the child, affecting the child's correct outlook on life and values. Therefore, we parents are a strong role model for our children.
In the ancient families, most people asked teachers with bright hope to teach children to learn, and poetry and book etiquette were cultivated in many aspects, which was also the cultivation of family style. The child's mind is full of energy, and if you give him the transmission of thoughts, he will take action. If you give him the support of his deeds, he will achieve the upbringing of Reed. Therefore, our words and deeds as parents deeply affect the fate of our children. This also fully illustrates the importance of family education.
Parents make an example for their children, and children will follow suit in life, and even do better than their parents. When eating, if the parents in front of the children show that the elders do not move the chopsticks, the juniors can not move, concentrate on eating when eating, do not play mobile phones, adhere to effective family rules, slowly children also understand politeness, understand the family style, more respect for the elders, when eating also concentrate, not playing mobile phones, but also with parents to talk more.
If there is a good model in life that does not prevent it from being shown in front of the child, it may be that this action will change the child's understanding more. For example, the garbage in the hand, in front of the child must be put into the garbage can, and to the child to explain the disadvantages of littering and the classification of garbage, habit into nature, and then the child in the garbage, will think of our teachings and our practices at that time, such a little bit of behavior, correct the child's more bad habits.
Parents value homeschooling
Nurturing is to guide children in the process of self-growth. In the process of children's growth, it is also necessary to cultivate children's own abilities. Treating the child as a juvenile tree, when it is necessary to fertilize, we do a good job as a parent, and when we need to prune, we do a good job as a gardener. Children need to be self-responsible, and we give more support and encouragement.
In normal times, let children understand their own characteristics and cultivate self-awareness ability. Children do not know clearly about themselves, do not know what kind of ability they should achieve at their age, and sometimes may feel that they are inferior to their parents, their bodies are small, their strength is small, they know less, and they cannot see their own growth. At this time, we parents should clearly explain to the child that at his age, the ability to achieve, what advantages he has, what interests and hobbies he should have, what things he can do, and lead the child to complete several things that he has not done, so that the child's cognition of himself will be more, self-confidence will also increase, and the joy of growth will change.
Communicate and communicate with children more, so that children have the ability to express and confide in themselves. After school or before going to bed, we parents communicate with our children about the day's learning, what fun things to do at school, what new fun we have with our classmates, and become good friends with several classmates, etc., so that children can share their topics with parents. Also let the child tell about his grievances or unhappiness. After listening, we parents explain to the child according to the actual situation, relieve the child's grievances, correct his mistakes or misunderstandings, exercise the child's communication skills, and how to play with the children. This is a good life support teacher for parents to enhance their children's interest and encouragement.
The growth of children needs praise and encouragement, and parents should grasp the opportunity to effectively praise the growth of their children. This can improve the child's self-confidence, and can cultivate the child's self-esteem and sense of honor. Everyone likes to succeed, parents need it, children need it more, and when they succeed, they look forward to praise and affirmation from others. When something happens to a child that deserves encouragement and praise, we parents use appropriate methods to give rewards, cultivate children's sense of honor, and stimulate children's self-motivation. For example, children take the initiative to clean up housework, rely on themselves to complete a thing, show bravery, etc., we must seize the opportunity to give encouragement, give the child a thumbs up, but also the greatest encouragement to the child. But when encountering things that need to be criticized, we parents should also correctly judge and criticize, and explain the reasoning to the children clearly, knowing why it is wrong? How to correct it? Appropriate to give some punishment, but also let the child understand that making mistakes is to take responsibility, the ability to bear up, children in the encounter with things, will not blindly wait for parents to bear.
Family education can not be ignored, bringing a strong environment to the growth of children, guiding and leading children to live a better life, developing good living habits, exercising self-improvement ability, and colorful hobbies. Our parents' performance is more of a child's role model, let us do more worth encouraging, worthy of children to learn from the role model, family education from now on, the growth of children is also the growth of parents.