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Do you remember where you were when you were 28? What happened? Remember when you first did it? Or a person or something that keeps you fresh in your mind?
When I was 28 years old, in 2014, something happened to me that I still remember vividly. That year was the fourth year I graduated from school, the first three years of graduation were muddy, the job found one after another and changed one after another, very confused, do not know what to do, what can I do? I have done more work, such as weight management, retail, investment, marketing, and the dirtiest and most tired hood pipe cleaning. I have suffered a lot and suffered a lot of tiredness. I survived.
Then one day I was chatting with my friends, all in a city, and I came out to eat and drink together. Also graduated a few years or nothing, did not have a fixed job, tried so much without a favorite of their own, or have a great development of their own future. Talked about the future life plan, where are you going to buy a house? Did you talk about a girlfriend? Is there a deposit? A series of questions were raised, and I could only smile awkwardly, there was nothing that could hold myself up, and I looked back and saw that I really had nothing now. Got drunk that day and had a good rest the next day.
When I woke up the next day, I thought about last night's events and really felt helpless. A person who left his hometown came out to work and earn money, and year after year the money did not make money, and the object was not found. They all began to doubt life, was they really so bad? I also get up at six o'clock every day and go back at nine o'clock, why do I get so little? Not as good as someone else's half a day. The more I thought about it, the more depressed I became, and I felt like I was going to walk into a dead end.
The next few days were also unable to lift my spirits at work, like a deflated leather ball. I also realized my own problem, and considered for a few days, and then chose to resign, after resigning did not immediately go to find a job, but went out to travel to relax, I chose to go to the Great Wall of Beijing, when it was the autumn and winter seasons, I went alone, when I went to see the weather forecast, when I arrived in Beijing, it snowed there. I thought I couldn't climb the Great Wall, but fortunately, after I went that day, everything went smoothly.
Looking at the Great Wall in front of you, it stretches continuously and stands tall. Standing for two thousand years, it has not fallen, and although it has experienced various dynasties and generations, it is still the strongest defense. Standing on badaling, the highest peak of the Great Wall, overlooking the inside and outside of the Great Wall, all surrender to your feet.
After a total of 3 days of playing in Beijing, I went to see the Beijing Courtyard, Bada Hutong, the Forbidden City, Tiananmen Square and other attractions. After returning from a break, you must find a good job and fight for your future life.
Before coming back, I have submitted some resumes, and when I came back, I went directly to interview a few, and I felt that it was not very good, so I submitted a batch of resumes, and this time I selected two more favorite ones to interview. The overall understanding is OK, and finally chose a foreign trade enterprise to work. On the one hand, the salary is not bad, on the other hand, I want to learn.
After several days of anxious waiting, I finally waited for the notice to go to work. Ready to bring the information and documents to work to report, the supervisor first introduced me to the working environment and various office places, for me to handle the entry procedures and some employee notes. I wrote it down carefully. Later, the supervisor took me to a person, her name was Chen Siqi, and everyone called her Sister Chen. From the first time I saw him I felt like she was younger than me, and later I learned that she was six years older than me.
And so our story begins. When the supervisor asked Sister Chen to take me, Sister Chen greeted me very warmly, introduced herself, and first asked how the entry was handled? Is there anything you need her help with? I smiled and said, "It's all done, thank you Sister Chen." She looked at me like this and suddenly laughed, feeling a bit like a schoolboy meeting a teacher. She was amused, and Sister Chen laughed very beautifully, charmingly, and full of sunshine.
She didn't say anything more and started to show me how the work is done and how the form is done. How do I register? What to note? How to flag problems and so on. It was very much and detailed, and I listened carefully and took notes. Just like that, while learning and asking, the first day was over. I felt fulfilled and learned a lot when I went back.
The new work is going very smoothly, and in the process of continuous learning, the relationship with colleagues has also improved a lot, especially Sister Chen. She helped me a lot and was always patient to help me with various work problems. Sometimes there are personal issues to talk about, and I also know that she has been married for many years, has a child, she and her husband still know each other through the Internet, and have been married for six or seven years. Married life has always been tepid.
Originally, my intersection with Sister Chen was limited to the company's work, and I didn't expect to rent together one day. It was april 2015, when I was living in a village in the city, catching up with the city plan, needing to demolish the village, and had no choice but to find a house. She didn't talk about it when she was at work, and later she said she lived a little far away and was ready to change houses. Later, a total said to find a whole rent, everyone lived together, and then began to use the off-hours weekend time to find, and then go to see.
Looking for about a week, I looked at a two-bedroom and one-living room and the price was also appropriate, so I made an appointment to see how it was. When I got off work to see the house, I was more satisfied and signed a contract to rent it.
When it was the weekend, I started moving, and I had a friend with me, and I put a bunk bed in the room to save some rent. We moved in first, and she moved over slowly. When we moved over, we lived together and cooked a meal and celebrated. It was also that day that I met her husband, who was doing technical after-sales.
Originally a very ordinary life, because of living under the same roof, there are conditions for the story to take place. After living together, commuting to and from work together, I rode her in a battery car, and she would sing in the back seat. Time passed little by little, and nothing seemed to be left behind.
During this time together, I found that her husband often traveled away from home, sometimes five days a week, sometimes three days. Sister Chen is also used to it, so many years have been like this, she has no feelings, it doesn't matter if her husband is around or not.
One weekend it was raining outside, we didn't go to work, they weren't there, just the two of us were at home, and I didn't expect that day would be unforgettable. Although I am single, I also understand the love between men and women. That day, I didn't know what was going on, I talked about some private topics, and then Sister Chen complained. For a moment I didn't know what to do, I was still a pure love boy (don't laugh at me). I chatted with her and said something about my feelings, and she felt that it was really rare for me to be there. I wasn't afraid of her jokes either, and she still couldn't believe it. I started pretending, I don't believe you try, who thought she really came to try, and then just .......
Just like that, the first time was lost, and the first time was very fast. I felt like I was embarrassed to death. In hindsight, I found that in fact, the feelings of two people have been subtly changing, and they will unconsciously think of each other, but they have not shown it.
After the first time, there will be a second time, a third time... Whenever her husband is not at home on a business trip, she will say whether to go out and live, and I will go. When I came back, I was like no one else, what to do. Although living together there are other people.
Two people are fine at first, but slowly they will quarrel and estrangement will occur. Sometimes it's fierce, and you have to pretend to be indifferent. Then I began to wake up, I can't go on like this, I have been saying that it is difficult for me to find a girlfriend, and the family is still urging marriage. Embarrassed at both ends, I told her my thoughts, separated for a while, she did not want to. Messing with me, I deliberately ignored her. During that time I took the bus to and from work by myself.
Both of them calmed down for a week, and she gave in, saying you can find a girlfriend, but if I want you, can you accompany me, I thought for a moment and refused. If I agree, isn't it still the same as before? I resolutely refused, she was very sad and unwilling. Finally she said let's go out and live again, and you'll live your own life from now on, and I won't bother you. I thought it was okay, so I went out with her, and that day she vented a lot and asked for it many times.
I thought it was over, but no, she couldn't put it down and would still look for me, and I refused. It was probably 2017, and I had a better chance, so I left that city and went to work in the South.
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