The pain of the rich you can't imagine

Have you ever seen the richest man in Xihong City, which has been very popular recently?

Went to see this movie some time ago. No accident, there was a lot of laughter in the screening hall.

It's a movie about "how to spend a billion in a month."

Wang Duoyu, the goalkeeper of the third-rate football team, has a poor family, but he accidentally got the opportunity to inherit the second grandfather's 30 billion inheritance.

Either take 10 million and leave; or spend 1 billion a month and inherit 30 billion.

However, Wang Duoyu was required to spend only in Xihong City, not to do charity, not to give to others, not to break the law.

Wang Duoyu went to the best hotels, broke lobsters with his hands, ate ginseng, bought the worst stocks in large quantities, and frantically threw money into the sunset industry, but he made more and more money. It's too hard to spend money.

At the end of the film, in order to save the girl, Wang Duoyu risked losing the inheritance right and broke the agreement, but passed the test with kindness and obtained a high inheritance right.

Having money, maybe not as good as we thought. You can't imagine the pain of the rich.

From a deeper perspective, a movie about wealth and humanity is actually about the ubiquitous rules of money.

If one day you get rich, what will you do?

Do you have these four views of money embodied in the movie?

01.

Money means how much money you can control

Rousseau said:

Money should be a tool to stay free and realize value. Instead of making yourself a slave to money.

Being rich doesn't mean how much money you have, it's about whether you can control and use it reasonably.

Why is Wang Duoyu overwhelmed by the sudden wealth?

Not because of anything else, but because he lacks adequate financial and business practices, he will naturally be overwhelmed.

There are actually many such people.

I once read an article about "Demolition and Return to Poverty".

How did those who got rich from demolition end up being poor?

The findings were surprising:

Some began to splurge; some began to indulge in lottery tickets; gambling was rife, and some young people could lose 200,000 yuan of demolition land overnight.

Think about it, but not surprised. They always go too fast and forget to wait for the soul.

For many rich people, wealth comes too quickly, the soul goes too slowly, the outlook on life is empty, lack of resistance, and naturally return to poverty overnight.

If virtue is not worthy of wealth, even if you suddenly have money, eventually life will become worse.

02.

Money is never vulgar, but vulgar is the human heart

Although it is a movie about money, I don't think the richest man in Xihong city worships money.

One detail is:

Liu Jiannan is one of the Top Ten Outstanding Young People and Famous Young Educator Speakers in Xihong City. As he prepared to give a lecture on "Don't Be a Slave to Money," he revered justice and regarded the world's wealth as dung.

However, when Wang Duoyu took out a large amount of money, Liu Jiannan's legs immediately became soft, and he quickly became the most capable person in the world.

This detail cannot be vividly explained:

The money is good, and the money is not a bad thing.

The most terrible thing is that people's hearts become vulgar.

What is the right stance on money?

That is, when you are poor, don't use money as dung.

You have never been rich, nor do you have the right to be indifferent to fame and fortune.

Don't sell your dignity and give up the bottom line.

That is to say, when you have money, don't be contaminated with extravagant habits, and don't be arrogant.

Wilde said that when I was younger, I thought money was everything, but now I know that when I'm old, it's true.

Money has temperature and power, but please keep control of it.

Otherwise, if you go in an inch, you run the risk of moving in an inch. One step back, there is the embarrassment of taking a step back.

03.

Spending money is better than making money to see your own three views

Why do one's three views see most clearly in the way money is spent?

The answer is that there are often more irrational factors than making money, which is in line with human nature.

How you spend money, you can directly see your value orientation and value ranking, this is your personality and pattern.

In "The Richest Man in Xihong", Wang Duoyu's performance before and after spending money is the best interpretation.

At the beginning, he flaunted and profligate, humiliated those who had humiliated him, and let those who sounded magnificent instantly reveal their true faces.

At this time, he was just a rich man with empty eyes.

In the end, Wang Duoyu would rather give up 30 billion yuan, break the rules, and save the girl.

At this stage, his kindness triumphed over greed and selfishness, holding the bottom line.

Although he bears the risk of losing his property at any time, he is increasingly recognized.

This is really not an exaggeration.

People who are too poor are humble;

People who have money and are reluctant to spend are poor;

A person who is willing to do good with money is successful.

And when you can treat money in an ordinary and objective way, you must be a social person with three views.

04.

More important than financial freedom is freedom of choice

This is a concept of money that most people overlook.

The true meaning of financial freedom is not the freedom of money, but the freedom of people.

We are born free, but we are shackled everywhere.

So, smart people don't focus on money, they don't use money as a way to solve all problems.

What they care more about is following their inner guidance and making their families feel better. What they want more is freedom of choice.

In "The Richest Man in Xihong", financial freedom is the key word that runs through the film, but it is also the most difficult word to achieve.

Wang Duoyu spent money desperately, but the total distance from the property of 30 billion yuan was just around the corner.

Life seems to be casual and luxurious, but it is actually quite depressing.

When he took his eyes off wealth, focused on the lives of others, and conveyed his own goodwill, wealth and freedom suddenly came.

The writer Yishu also said that you have to remain independent before you can talk about what you should strive for.

When you are 15 to 25 years old, you may wish to study more and travel more.

At the age of 25 to 35, you should work hard, continue your studies, start a family, and start saving money.

Over 35 years old, you have to turn your job into a career, redouble your hard work, and have some assets to defend yourself.

When you are independent, strong, kind, and warm, your shackles become wings.

In your life, you will have the freedom of wealth and the freedom of choice.

05

At the end of the film, it is an ending that surprises countless people.

At the end of the Easter egg, Wang Duoyu and his wife prepare to donate all their property naked after traveling around the world.

Before signing the contract, they intend to leave a sum of money for the upcoming baby.

They took out pens and calculators and calculated them all at once.

In infancy: confinement, milk powder, diapers;

After school: special classes, summer camps;

Adults: bride price, marriage room.

They suddenly find that there is hardly enough money.

This is the tragic ending of the comedy "The Richest Man in Xihong", but it is also a clear truth:

In this world, not everything can be solved with money;

The rest may require more effort, enthusiasm, kindness and luck.

I wish you hard work to make money, give yourself dignity, and give your family a solid sense of happiness;

May you always live warm and experience a second life;

I also hope that when you are worth a lot, you can go with the wind; when you are poor, you can fight back.

You must know that the gifts given by fate are secretly marked with prices.

The most valuable person, not someone else, is always yourself.

Don't sell yourself.