Speaking of Xiao Yaxuan, I think the little friends are not strangers. Not only does it sing well and dance well; it also talks well about love.
In "Daughters in Love", Xiao Yaxuan, a self-proclaimed mediocre "little genius in love", brought us a lot of love feelings.
In the show, when asked if he could be friends after the breakup, Xiao Yaxuan's current boyfriend Huang Hao said decisively: "No." "
But Xiao Yaxuan objected: "I can, and if you love, you will have feelings." After the feelings are sublimated into friendship, this is all feelings. "
Love comes, likes, brave to pursue, love when you love seriously, even if you don't love, it doesn't matter, the most important thing is that two people have really loved.
However, not every beginning of love can be absurd, two people who fall in love come together with the heart to create the future together, but if they can't be together, there must be a reason, everyone must learn to bless the future self and start the next new journey.
Don't care about the longevity, only care about what you once had, Xiao Yaxuan's freedom is worth learning from each of us.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >01, Xiao Yaxuan, only to be his own big heroine</h1>
Xiao Yaxuan's parents divorced when he was more than one year old. When she was five years old, her father went to the United States and never returned. When Xiao Yaxuan and his brother were young, they often lived in their grandmother's house in the countryside, and at that time, Xiao Yaxuan would take a group of children to climb trees, catch tadpoles, and play with slingshots.
After graduating from high school, for the sake of his favorite major, others are still young and ignorant, Xiao Yaxuan chose to go to Canada alone to study. In order to learn English well, he forced himself to make local foreign friends and let himself speak English when he opened his mouth, and Xiao Yaxuan practiced a good English in three years.
During her studies, she discovered her talent in music, and she worked hard to contact the top pop art information, listened to a lot of Western pop music, and formed her own unique understanding of music. During her studies, she formed her own girls' choir and competed in various competitions.
By chance, Xiao Yaxuan was discovered by Viking producers in Taiwan and invited Xiao Yaxuan to audition in Viking. Because she was prepared every time, she was quickly signed by Viking.
With his own talent and hard work, Xiao Yaxuan's song "The Most Familiar Stranger" became popular throughout the streets, and his first self-titled album became the king of Taiwanese record sales with 500,000 sales.
Together with Sun Yanzi, Jolin Tsai and Liang Jingru at the same time, they were collectively called the "Four Little Queens" of the Chinese music scene. At the same time, various accolades such as "the most beautiful female middle voice", "Asian dance queen", and "most popular female singer" flocked to the tide, and Xiao Yaxuan became a household name singer.
From childhood to adulthood, Xiao Yaxuan can think and be independent, decisive and hardworking.
If you like to do it, Xiao Yaxuan has always followed his own heart, and does not care about the wind and rain of the outside world. Whether it's career or love.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >02, be brave to love, not afraid of the future</h1>
According to incomplete statistics, Xiao Yaxuan has talked about more than ten boyfriends since his debut.
When Xiao Yaxuan was 24 years old, her boyfriend was also 24 years old. Now that Xiao Yaxuan is 40 years old, her boyfriend is still 24 years old.
Netizens have ridiculed: no one can be immortal, but Xiao Yaxuan's boyfriend can.
In the matter of liking small fresh meat, she never shy away from it, like is like, and every time is seriously liked.
When Xiao Yaxuan and Huang Hao participated in "Daughters in Love", the two people frantically sprinkled dog food. Although Huang Hao is 16 years younger than Xiao Yaxuan, he takes care of Xiao Yaxuan like a child.
Xiao Yaxuan's body was unwell, and Huang Hao personally cooked soup for Xiao Yaxuan. From going to the supermarket to buy vegetables, to how to prepare the seasonings, what pot to use and the time to cook soup, you will learn carefully.
When the two were eating, Xiao Yaxuan saw the video sent to him by Huang Hao's mother, and Xiao Yaxuan remembered his mother and couldn't help but cry.
Huang Hao said: My mother is your mother. My family is your family, you are not alone.
A reporter once asked Huang Hao: "Which point of Xiao Yaxuan attracted you?" "
Huang Hao said: "Her heart, her heart and my heart, are very willing to help people, will not judge who you are, she is very kind." "
Huang Hao never felt pressure because Xiao Yaxuan was a big star, and Huang Hao said to Xiao Yaxuan: I am a man, you can rely on me.
Xiao Yaxuan, who is not afraid of the world, can always harvest sweet love.
Two people are in love, regardless of identity, regardless of age. As Xiao Yaxuan said: we should be together, don't drag mud and water, and bravely pursue if you like.
She could always hear her own voice, she only did herself.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >03, no love, it is good to be friends</h1>
In the show, Xiao Yaxuan admitted that he once sent birthday wishes to his ex-boyfriend Ke Zhendong on time at zero o'clock. Huang Hao was a little unhappy, Xiao Yaxuan explained: It's just that the memorandum has been forgotten.
This kind of freedom is unbeatable.
If it is said that the two people who broke up will not interact with each other, it is better to say that they cannot let go of each other's feelings. If you really let go, you won't think much about it, so that you can send blessings like ordinary friends.
On the night that Xiao Yaxuan and Huang Hao opened their love affair, both Xiao Yaxuan and Huang Hao encountered the malice of many netizens.
But Ke Zhendong silently sent a blessing: a girl needs a lot of courage to announce her love affair, she can bless it, what is there to scold, positive energy.
He was speaking up for his friends.
In 2012, Ke Zhendong starred in the movie "Those Years, the Girl We Chased Together" exploded, with a super high appearance and a perfect body, and suddenly became the object of thousands of fans.
When Xiao Yaxuan announced his love affair with Ke Zhendong, he was scolded by Ke Zhendong's fans and could not find the north. But this does not affect them, even if they encounter a reporter secretly photographed, Xiao Yaxuan will generously greet the media.
The two of them eat together, walk together, and go shopping together. It's just a pity that such a happy time did not last long, and ke Zhendong was emotionally transferred to love less than a year after falling in love.
In love, we must have our own bottom line, especially domestic violence and infidelity, to know that both are only zero times and countless times. Xiao Yaxuan was the principled woman who decisively chose to break up.
When Ke Zhendong encountered a low point in his life, when everyone was eager to quickly get rid of the relationship, Xiao Yaxuan posted a post on his personal social platform to cheer ke Zhendong.
Although they broke up, she still treated him as a friend.
When she loved, she didn't hesitate, and she turned around gracefully without loving her.
Smart women are more likely to recognize the facts, want to open, and then no longer cling. Since there is no attachment to being together, how can it be bad to be an ordinary friend?
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >04, love is not the whole of life</h1>
Some netizens joked: If Xiao Yaxuan gets married and invites her ex-boyfriend, then isn't it enough for two tables?
Although Xiao Yaxuan talked about more than a dozen boyfriends, few people said bad things about Xiao Yaxuan after the breakup. Xiao Yaxuan in love is wanton and free, dare to love and dare to hate, once she regarded love as the whole of her life.
In 2003, Xiao Yaxuan met and fell in love with Wang Mingyang, who is known as the "first marshal of Taiwan".
In order to be with Wang Mingyang, Xiao Yaxuan, who is in the ascending stage of his career, chose to terminate his contract with the company, and in the years of falling in love with Wang Mingyang, Xiao Yaxuan did not release an album.
At that time, the director of "Memoirs of a Geisha" came to the door, hoping that she could play the role of "pumpkin" in the act (later performed by Japanese artist Yuki Kudo), because Wang Mingyang did not agree, she gave up such a good opportunity.
At that time, her agent Yao Qian really had a kind of helplessness that hated iron not steel!
It was a silly love brain girl.
However, Xiao Yaxuan gave wholeheartedly and did not exchange for a happy ending.
When Xiao Yaxuan returned again, everything was no longer what it used to be, and she missed too much for love.
Xiao Yaxuan quickly threw herself into a new relationship, only this time, she held concerts as usual, acted in movies, and did public welfare. Nothing fell.
Later, whether in "Kangxi Coming" or in "Spit Conference", Xiao Yaxuan said: You can't stick to each other all the time, you must keep your own life.
Some people, once in love, spend all their thoughts on each other, abandoning their social networking and even work. When the other party leaves one day, you feel as if you have lost the whole world, unconsciously you hate from love, and with hatred, you can no longer take the other party as a friend.
When the water is full, it overflows, and when the moon is full, it loses.
Love is the same, can not love too full, to leave appropriate space for each other. Leave three points to love oneself, seven points to love others, no more, no less, tepid.
Even though she was over forty years old, Xiao Yaxuan still hadn't entered the palace of marriage, but she had never lacked love.
When love came, she rose against the wind, and when the love receded, she flicked her sleeve and left in a dashing manner.
I have read such a sentence on Zhihu before: like it or not, love or not, fit or not, not together, these are 4 things, don't do it as one thing.
You can afford to take it when you like it, and let it go when you don't love it, and it is enough to love it.
May you look back on the past and remember the TA you once was, just like treating a friend who has not been in touch for a long time, calm as water, not alarmed.
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