The bunny reaches school age and is sent to animal school by its parents. In school, the rabbit's favorite class is running, and he is very happy that almost every class gets the first place; the last class the rabbit wants to take is swimming, no matter how hard he tries, he always can't get good results, so he feels very distressed. Bunny wanted to give up swimming, but his parents disagreed. When the teacher saw that the bunny was distressed about swimming lessons, he expressed his willingness to help him. The teacher said to the little rabbit: "Running is your strength, is your advantage, you will not have to practice running in the future; as long as you concentrate on practicing swimming, you will definitely be able to achieve good results!" Since then, the little rabbit has concentrated on practicing swimming. But the result: after a period of training, the rabbit's swimming level not only did not improve much, but even his advantage- running performance has dropped a lot.
The fable contains a truth: to apply one's strengths to one's career, just like the most hardest steel is used on the blade of a knife, putting steel on the back of a knife is a complete waste, and it is useless not to show one's best qualities.
It is difficult to objectively recognize one's strengths, but as a person who wants to do something, this is a necessary problem. For example, you may not be able to solve so many mathematical problems, or remember so many foreign words and idioms, but you have a special ability to deal with affairs, you can know people well, solve problems, and have superb organizational skills; for example, you may be inferior in physics and chemistry, but you are good at writing novels and poems; maybe your ability to distinguish between music and rhythm is not good, but you have a pair of extremely dexterous hands; maybe you can't even draw a table, but you have a moving singing voice; maybe you are not good at chess, but you have superior arm strength. Under the premise of recognizing their own strengths, if you can make full use of your strengths and avoid your weaknesses, identify your goals, and seize the time to do a piece of work hard and seriously, over time, you will naturally produce fruitful results.
People who come out want to be quiet and long, and they all have their own linding of heavenly abilities and qualities, if you are far away. If you stick to your long-term goals, you can succeed; if you choose to be right. The goal of their own special efforts may bury themselves.
The success of the flow of people and soil, first of all, is due to their full understanding of their own strengths and their own strengths to position. If you do not fully understand your own strengths, only rely on your own temporary interests and ideas, then the positioning is likely to be inaccurate and bring a lot of purpose. Goethe once failed to fully understand his strengths, established a wrong old tendency as a painter, and caused him to waste more than 10 years of time, for which he regretted it very much. American actress Holly, Hunter once tried to avoid being positioned as a short and tough woman, and ended up taking a detour. Fortunately, through the guidance of her agent, she re-positioned herself according to her petite body, strong personality and elastic acting skills, and starred in films such as "Piano Lesson", winning the "Palme d'Or" and the Oscar at the Cannes Film Festival.
There are too many similar examples
When Edison was a teenager in school, the teacher thought he was a stupid child and often blamed him. Edison's mother discovered her son's talent for inquiry and cultivated him with her heart, and later he finally became the king of invention.
hair...... Darwin's literature is mathematical; when he is in medicine, he is always dazed, but when he touches the animals and plants, he is refreshed
Asimov is a world-renowned popular science writer and a natural scientist. One morning, when he was sitting in front of the typewriter typing, he suddenly realized: "I can't be a first-class scientist, but I can become a first-class popular science writer." As a result, he focused almost all his energy on popular science creation, and finally became the most famous popular science writer in the contemporary world. Roentgen originally studied a course of science, and under the influence of his teacher Conte, he did some experiments in the material, and gradually realized that this is the most suitable industry for himself. Later he became an accomplished physicist.
An orange raw Huainan is an orange, and an orange is a citrus tree. Yan Zi told us that the use of emotions in different places will have different tastes, and only the xiang oranges that grow in Huainan will taste sweet. The new blue grapes are famous because of the local temperature difference between day and night that they store a large number of bear points. Only by finding a place suitable for their own growth and reproduction can all things in the world fully display the power of life and live out their due value. "Ann can crush the brow and bend the waist of the magnate, so that I can't be happy." Li Bai walked out of the court freely to pursue a free and unrestrained life. "Under the eastern fence of picking chrysanthemums, leisurely see the South Mountain." Tao Yuanming broke free from the shackles of dark politics and accompanied the idle clouds and wild cranes to become a leisurely landscape pastoral poet. If they had been greeted in the official arena, I am afraid that there would not have been such ancient famous passages as "Shu Dao Difficulty" and "Returning to the Garden and Rural Residence". It is precisely because they have found their own position and integrated their emotions into the talent of poetry creation that they can cultivate positive results and become famous in history.
For another example, Ban Chao threw pen from Rong, diligently performed his duties in the Western Regions Capital Protectorate, and won countless honors; Lu Xun abandoned medicine and followed the text, exposing the darkness of modern Chinese society with sharp language, leaving us with infinite emotion; Liu Xiang, who was originally a high jumper, became a "flying man" who shocked the world after hard training because he discovered his potential on the hurdles... All successful people have created brilliance on the development path that suits them.
Some geneticists have studied that a person's normal intelligence is determined by a pair of genes. There are also five pairs of minor modified genes, which determine a person's special talents and play a role in reducing or elevating intelligence. Generally speaking, one or two of these five pairs of secondary genes are always "good" in people. That is to say, it is always possible for people to have good talents and qualities in certain aspects.
Therefore, everyone should strive to design themselves according to their own strengths and do what they can. Set goals based on your talents, qualities, interests, environment, conditions, etc. We should not think of disadvantages and conditions, but strive to find favorable conditions; we must not wait for opportunities, but we must create conditions for ourselves, produce results, and gain social recognition. People engaged in scientific research must not only be good at observing the world and observing things, but also good at observing themselves and understanding themselves.
Below, we will introduce some specific ways to understand your own strengths and refine the "steel" of your career.
1. Consultation Act. Solicit opinions from your parents, relatives, classmates, friends, and teachers and colleagues to understand their views and evaluations of themselves. Look at what kind of work people around you think they are suitable for.
2. Self-reflection law. Self-reflection can help us gain insight into our talents and career tendencies. Learn what you enjoy doing in your past life and work and what you have achieved greatly; what you don't like to do, and what you try to do but don't get anything in return. Review the changes in your personality in the past few years, what are the obvious trends, and whether you can infer the direction of the future change and the trend of your own development.
3. Psychological and occupational testing methods. At present, there are many kinds of tests related to psychology, personality and intelligence in society, so you may wish to try it as a reference.
4. Sensory method. Something that is not sure about oneself will instinctively produce a feeling of fear, which is a reflection of lack of talent. On the contrary, if you feel confident that you are doing what you are doing well, it means that you may have a certain talent in this area.
5. Comparative method. Not afraid of not knowing the goods, I am afraid of the goods, through the comparison can know their own talents. Especially on the playing field, if it is a game of responsibility, there is free gymnastics, BOMA and single and double, then in which project you can get the whole opponent to win the news, that is, which is where your ability in this project is sold. This is the truth that everyone knows in poetry, but if there are more "national powers, you can also compare them with the various jobs you have been in." If there are many talents, it is necessary to see which talent is greater, which specialty is outstanding and recognized by society.
"The Kao'an Law, at present, in addition to the school's use of dohan to learn from students. You can also evaluate yourself objectively.
In addition to using various methods to understand yourself, you must also objectively evaluate yourself according to your actual situation.
In short, you must fully understand and understand yourself, objectively and correctly evaluate yourself, so that it is possible to find your proper position in the social coordinate system when choosing a job or entrepreneurship, not only can effectively play your talents, but also fully tap your potential, so as to maximize the realization of your dreams.