"Four Tastes Between Texts" Original article
These days Zhou Yangqing broke the news of the piglet Luo Zhixiang leg splitting incident, Tmall president's wife hand tearing Zhang Dayi Xiaosan incident occupies a lot of entertainment news, originally we are not very concerned about these broken things, but also want to express a little opinion on these abnormal male and female relations, such as the women in the eyes of scumbags, want to hook up and hook up, nothing more than flowers and snakes, one to pick, one to prevent, do not pay attention to spell out such a title, on it, but feel more appropriate. The metaphors are all helpless laziness, and using flowers to compare new loves is not praise, and using to compare old love is not an insult. The Five Lantern Society, Volume 15, records a public case in which the monk asked Yunmen Wenyan, "How is it a Buddha?" Wen Yan replied, Dry. The Ancestors of the Yunmen Sect said that the Buddha was dry, and no one said that it was an insult to the Buddha, but it was actually the same truth.
Think about it, Luo Zhixiang now feels that Zhou Yangqing is a roadside dung pit, and he can hide as far as he can, whether he is a big and smelly lump or not. But for Jiang Fan, Zhang Dayi and his wife who are flowers and who are themselves are naturally clear, but the flowers are not easy to pick, the can not be shaken off, had to let them tear, the Internet also said that the lady is also a small third. Coincidentally, Zhou Yangqing and Zhang Dayi are both Internet celebrities, and now it seems that one represents positive energy and one represents negative energy. We don't understand the psychology of women, men's minds we can only push people with themselves, there is no evidence to prove that they are scumbags, we can only use the perspective of ordinary men to speculate how scumbags look at women.
"Flowers and Snakes" is reminiscent of Takashi Ishii's film of the same name, only the Japanese can make such a perverted film, and there are several of them, tied up, and Sugimoto repeatedly shows the flesh for men to watch. Men always compare good-looking women to flowers, women are also willing to accept, do not want to flower is always limited, and it is easy to attract bees and butterflies, and even be destroyed. When the flowering period has passed and the zero has fallen into the mud, how will the scumbag continue to watch?
Zhang Ailing used "red rose" and "mosquito blood" to compare the current and ex, after all, there are real feelings, the dry red on the white shirt, the mosquito blood is also mixed with their own DNA, can not wash off, and occasionally let themselves faintly painful. However, for people in the entertainment industry now, where they need to pay any feelings, they only need a little energy, physical strength and mental scheming.
In the biological world, males are born with polygamous tendencies, such as male lions and male monkeys, such as donkeys and male cats, the former is mostly openly leading a group of wives and concubines, and the latter initiates love to see the opposite sex and hiss and call spring. Even the Mandarin duck, which is known as a model of monogamy, is also connected once the spouse is lost, but it is not as good as some humans eat bowls and look at pots.
In psychology, there is the term "Coolidge effect". John Calvin Coolidge, the thirteenth president of the United States, is known for his reticence — he has a hard time competing with Obama and Trump for election speeches and televised debates — and is often referred to as the "silent Carr." One day, Coolidge and his wife wanted to visit a chicken farm, but unexpectedly there was a temporary delay in the president' change, and the president's wife arrived first. When the lady visited, she found that the rooster always chased the hen, so she asked the keeper: "How many times a day does the rooster have sex with the hen?" The keeper told Madame twenty times. The president's wife said, "When the president comes, please tell him how many times the rooster and hen have sex." After President Coolidge arrived, the breeder told him the truth, and Coolidge asked, "Are those twenty times the same hen?" The keeper replied no, it was a different hen each time. Coolidge immediately told the breeder: "Very well, please convey this fact to the President's wife." ”
When a male animal mates with a female animal for a period of time, it becomes uninterested in sexual behavior, but if the male animal is given a new mate, its sexual behavior can be immediately restored - this pattern of behavior is called the Coolidge effect. President Coolidge's political achievements are long gone with the last century, but he made this contribution to psychology and sociology.
Traditional men are also immersed in the dream of three wives and four concubines, and now men like to split legs and step on the boat with difficult actions and multi-person sports scenes, and the traditional men's concubine behavior, whether it is based on sex or based on emotion, shows that men are at least responsible for women, and now men are mostly high-performance people in time management, shuttling back and forth, waving a wave, not taking away a trace of clouds. The former wants women to lean on, the latter pulls away and says at best, "I've made the mistake that all men do all the time" – using the moral standards of scumbags to pull down all men.
But as the saying goes, "Men are reliable, sows are on trees." "As a child who herded sheep by the river, I had really seen the sow on the tree, but it was a crooked neck tree across the small ditch, and the sow led a group of piglets to arch sweet potato seedlings on the river beach, and had already wasted a large piece. The sow snorted and ran back, quickly jumped on the fallen tree, and flew to the other side of the river, while the piglets panicked, and some fell into the river, revealing their small heads and swimming awkwardly. As a result, sows not only climb trees, but also swim.
The question now is, do men have to be reliable? For many years, there has been one criterion for evaluating a man: whether he is reliable or not. Nowadays, feminists are rampant, strong women are overbearing, and many men also want to lean on women, so whether the standard of a good woman today should also add such a rule: reliable, men also need a shoulder.
Many merry men pride themselves on liking the new and not getting tired of the old, maybe his old love is not enough to the point of, but it is difficult to believe that he is still facing a flower, maybe it has already been a specimen. Many unsympathetic men face their own yellow-faced wives, peek at the beautiful women in the arms of others, and always scold indignantly: a flower is planted on the. In fact, flowers and will also occur in the position of the exchange, the flowers in their eyes have been held by their own hands into dry, only to be placed in the corner of the house, fortunately, it does not stink, let the years pass, with her air drying drift away, their own people may be made of into flowers, mostly ephemeral flowers, and finally and flowers grow old into mud, and each other is no longer disliked.
stinks and stinks; there's fresh, it's dry. If it is pulled by yourself, it has some relationship with itself, whether it stinks or not, it will always be handled well, and it will not resent others if it is not handled well. However, when some men have a new marriage, they hate their former lovers to the bone, and even go away quickly, as if others have pulled him, not only to rinse clean, but also to cover up the smell with soap and perfume. In this way, it will be pure in front of the new joy as if it has never been pulled.
Men love brides, women value ex-husbands. This is not necessarily true, if it is not reasonable, it can only be said that the bride is still a flower, and the ex-husband is not. The bride will become an old love, and the ex-husband can become a queen. Flowers and, contradictory and unified pairs, can be transformed into each other and can be interdependent. Flowers can be planted in the feces, grow wildly with sufficient nutrients, wither into dung, and the excrement brings life to life, thus sublimating the ugly into beauty and blossoming flowers. If men and women understand this, there will be no new love or old love.
Only when there is a flower in the heart is that the woman is a flower; when there is in the eye, only when there is in the eyes can we see that the old love is. It is easy to do the first half of the sentence, but it is too difficult to abandon the second half of the sentence. There are many men who like the new and the old, and there are also women who are tired of the new and think of the old, and the examples are more than enough, and there is no need to mention more. Just advise those who have abandoned their old faces, when they can't sleep, but she (he) is your? Doesn't stink or stink? Or did it already dry up and kick out of sight?
Or end with the public case of Zen Master Wen Yan. The monk asked Gui Province, "How is the Dharma Body purified?" Answer: "The pit head chip." ”