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On September 7, 2016, a beautiful woman, quietly lying on the bed, exhaled her last breath, and then left this world with a festering, blackened skin and pain, she is Xu Ting.
Xu Ting was hospitalized
In fact, at the beginning of 2016, Xu Ting's body was not right. That day, as usual, she went to the hospital for a physical examination.
After a long wait, a sunny thunderbolt pulls Xu Ting back to the real world because she was diagnosed with acute lymphoma.
Xu Ting
At that time, Xu Ting's lungs had been seriously infected, but it was not impossible to cure it.
Under normal circumstances, most people will choose treatment or surgery, but Xu Ting seems to have no desire to survive. All she wants is to travel, read a book, enjoy a good meal, and leave with dignity.
But her parents did not allow her to have such thoughts, and even used "affection" to morally kidnap, only to see them crying in front of Xu Ting: "If you die, then we will follow you." ”
Did you feel very touched to see this? Xu Ting was also moved, so in the end, she could not fulfill her wish and chose to stay for treatment. And it was precisely this choice that caused her bodily functions to accelerate its decline.
On August 1, xu Ting's family packed their bags and went to Yantai, Shandong Province, for medical treatment, at a private, Traditional Chinese medicine clinic.
This is the choice made by Xu Ting's parents after weighing, because this plan saves money than chemotherapy in the hospital.
Xu Ting Weibo
It is true that Chinese medicine has the role of conditioning, preventing and treating diseases, but it requires a cumulative process, and there are also quite high requirements for the doctor's medical skills and medical ethics. Xu Ting's acute lymphoma requires a combination of traditional Chinese medicine and Western medicine and scientific treatment methods.
But in order to save money, her parents did not consider this. Thinking about the desperate efforts in the front, it seems that it is not worried about the daughter's body, but what is the purpose.
In this way, during the golden period of her cancer treatment, Xu Ting chose to cupping, doing acupuncture, and even endured the pain of ten fingers being pricked and bleeding.
The originally fair skin, after some torture, became very miserable, and the shoulders and arms were even red and purple.
But at this time, her family did not feel pain, but used the camera to record Xu Ting's vicious expression because of pain, and then at the first time, the photo was put on the social platform.
As they expected, the dynamic attracted a lot of spectators.
Xu Ting's sister's Weibo
After more than ten days, Xu Ting's condition not only showed no signs of improvement, but further deteriorated. In desperation, the Xu family transferred her back to the regular hospital.
Before going to see Chinese medicine, Xu Ting often shared selfies with fans with a smile and a rosy face. Then, in less than half a month, all she had left on her social platform was a photo of a cold hospital instrument and the pain of being afflicted by the disease.
The speed of spread of cancer cells exceeded Xu Ting's imagination. Her height is 165cm, but her weight has plummeted to more than seventy pounds, and her hospital gown looks empty when hanging on her body.
But even so, Xu Ting is still optimistic to cooperate with the doctor's treatment, and sometimes endures the pain, releasing a playful selfie with a scissor hand posture on the Internet.
Xu Ting's selfie
Unfortunately, in September 2016, this strong and optimistic woman finally went to heaven by herself, in fact, this is just as she wished.
Because death is not a existence worth fearing for Xu Ting. On the contrary, when she learned that her life was imminent, she had an inexplicable ease and relief in her heart.
Xu Dandan Weibo
The reason why Xu Ting has this mentality is that everything stems from her original family.
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Born in 1990 in Wuhu, Anhui Province, Xu Ting had seven children, the third eldest, but her parents did not look happy because of her arrival.
She grew up in a family that was not wealthy, because she could not afford to support seven children, two of whom were given to others by her parents.
Xu Ting's family
But since you can't afford it, why do you have so many children?
It turned out that Xu Ting's parents were very feudal and backward in their thinking, and they had an incomprehensible obsession with giving birth to a boy. Girls were born one after another, but they did not give up and finally conceived a boy in their seventh child.
Xu Ting and her mother
Xu Ting's family status has also changed since then. She has seen parents pampering their children, but only her younger brother enjoys it!
She had seen the indifference of family affection, in which only she knew the warmth and coldness; she had also seen her sisters dispose of them like objects, and this bitterness and uneasiness made her unable to live a peaceful day.
Unlike other children who come home from school to do their homework or hang out with friends, the first thing Xu Ting does when she arrives home is to take care of housework and farm work like a housewife.
She is more mature and sensitive than anyone her peers, because she often needs to maintain a high degree of nervousness about her parents, and constantly pleases her, for fear that she will be sent away.
Fortunately, Xu Ting has a good appearance and a fresh and unworldly temperament. So in the cardamom years, she came up with the idea of learning to act.
After unremitting efforts, Xu Ting, who has no acting skills at all, actually received an acceptance letter from the Sichuan Film Academy, and she finally tasted a hint of sweetness in the bitterness of life.
However, the appearance of her parents slapped her back to reality. Because according to the family's financial situation, she could not afford to study. But this basin of cold water did not extinguish the spark in her heart, and "going to college and becoming an actor" almost became her spiritual pillar.
Although Xu Ting was born weak, she has a stubborn heart, and she will never easily bow to life. After several rounds of persuasion, her parents finally agreed to her request, but the price of chasing her dream was to earn all the expenses by herself.
Therefore, Xu Ting's college life, in addition to attending classes, is to work and earn money. To save money, she barely bought herself makeup or new clothes, let alone gone out on dinner dates with her classmates.
Although life was poor, Xu Ting still used the method of work-study and successfully read to the second year of college. It was the most critical year of university life, but her parents ended her studies prematurely.
Xu Ting's father lost money because of his business and owed countless money abroad; and the "pearl in his hand" brother in the family was old enough to go to school, so this account was calculated on Xu Ting.
At that time, Xu Ting, who was not yet involved in the world, not only had to solve her own food and clothing problems, but also had to carry all the expenses of her family. In desperation, she was forced to drop out of school. Then, carrying only 300 pieces, he went to Beijing alone. The basement became her safe place, and even the food was the cheapest.
In order to survive, Xu Ting ran the crew while running the dragon set, handing over her resume, and even if she was not welcomed, she had to lose her smile. In this situation of exhaustion, as long as it is a play to give money, she will take it, almost "hungry and not choosing food".
But even so, her able-bodied parents and brother still have to ask her for money, and Xu Ting's life is becoming more and more difficult because of the drag of her original family.
After social ups and downs and a period of darkness, her life finally dawned. In the 2010 "Xishi Beauty Pageant", she won a good result with her outstanding appearance conditions, and more directors and audiences began to pay attention to her silently.
Since then, Xu Ting has not had to run the crew around Beijing, because there is a steady stream of scenes coming to the door. Such an opportunity for the actor means that he has embarked on the road of prosperity from then on, and it is no longer a problem to get rid of poverty and get rich.
Xu Tingxi casts beauty pageants
However, from the time Xu Ting stepped into the society to the time she died, the deposit in the bank account was not more than one million. This is a clear stream in the entertainment industry, even an eighteen-line star has more than her.
The fact behind this is that Xu Ting's hard-earned money in her daily life is almost swallowed by her parents.
Xu Ting and her father
In order to earn money, she has been living a hard life, and her needs are always at the end. In order to fill the bottomless pit of "family", she shoots every scene, and takes on any hard work, as long as she is alive for one day, it must be running for her livelihood.
In this way, Xu Ting, who is only in her early twenties, has already fallen ill, in addition to the crew, she most often goes to the hospital.
Even so, this thin girl still had to endure the pain of working day and night, because she wanted to get the approval of her parents. But her parents only used her as a cash machine, completely disregarding their daughter's life and death.
Once, Xu Ting forgot to call her parents, so they called and scolded Xu Ting for being useless, and even attacked her with harsh words like "white-eyed wolf".
After hanging up the phone, Xu Ting suppressed her emotions, borrowed a large amount of money from a friend, and then sent it to her parents.
Similar to "Mei Yanfang's" experience, during Xu Ting's cancer, her parents first cared about their daughter's bank account, not her body. After her death, there was also a rush to distribute the inheritance.
They even hope to use the death of their daughter to pay attention to it, and their sister Xu Yin uses her sister's fame, coupled with her more outstanding appearance, to enter the entertainment industry and become an Internet celebrity. Today, the avatar is still a photo with her sister before she died, which is really ironic.
Xu Ting's sister Weibo
And her parents also tried to use Xu Ting's reputation and influence before her death to send her son to the show business circle to share a piece of the pie. But after being resisted by insiders, they stopped thinking about it.
Therefore, behind Xu Ting's frank face of death, it is actually a tragedy caused by the preference for sons and daughters, and I hope that she will no longer have pain and grievances in heaven.
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