Wen | a good pregnant sister
"The daughter's family is out, and it is normal for the mother's family not to leave a boudoir, you don't want to be crooked."
The old mother wanted to use this to comfort Wenwen, but did not expect that the effect was not good, Wenwen listened to the red circles of the eyes, seeing that the tears were about to come out, thanks to the husband busy holding her hand on the side, laughing and forked: "After that, you are my family's people, my rooms are all yours, live in this house in the first half of the night, live in that house in the second half of the night, cow gas!" ”
Wen Wen knows that her husband is active in the atmosphere, today is the third day of her marriage, back to the door day, she was full of joy to come back, Xingchong rushed into the door, just ready to enter the back room to remember his girlhood time, the eldest nephew came out of the back room, Wen Wen hurried over to take a look, only to find that his boudoir has been piled up with nephew's belongings, even the style of the sheets has become Iron Man.
"Mom! This is my room! Where am I staying tonight? ”
"I booked a hotel for both of you..."
As soon as the old mother said this, Wen Wen was even more aggrieved, and couldn't help but roar two sentences, with a crying voice, and led the whole family to come. Sister-in-law saw this face is also very embarrassing, the room is she changed, because the child is older and wants to have an independent space, so Wen Wen head out of the cabinet, she changed the room the next day, who wants Wen Wen to go back to his room as soon as he enters the door.
In my opinion, neither side has done anything wrong and has its own position. The reason why Wenwen is aggrieved is because her mother's family has no housing, giving her a feeling of being swept out of the house, a daughter suddenly has no home, who can accept it calmly?
For the daughter who is married, the mother's family reserve boudoir brings not only an idle space, but also the sense of security that the mother's family will always have a place for you, only by keeping the room, the daughter can marry with peace of mind, and when she encounters difficulties in the future, she can also take the child back to the mother's house with courage. On the contrary, the daughter felt that she had no home, the mother's family became the home of her brother and sister-in-law, and her sister-in-law had no foothold, and she had no place to go in the future when she quarreled with her in-laws and got angry, which was really sad.
But the behavior of the brother and sister-in-law can also be understood, the city is different from the countryside, the land is scarce, and many parents live with their sons and families. When the child is older, he needs independent space, and the daughter's boudoir is not wasted. Moreover, from the beginning of three generations of the same church, the owner of this family has become a brother and sister-in-law, the old house has also become the marriage room of the brother and sister-in-law, and the parents will rely on them for the elderly in the future, so naturally they cannot have too many opinions on the handling of the boudoir.
From the sister-in-law's own standpoint, I also don't want my sister-in-law to return to her mother's house too often, and it is not difficult to understand this move.
After Wenwen listened, she felt an unspeakable sadness in her heart, but she also understood the difficulties of her mother's family. When you think about it, the house is just a space, as long as the family is more closely linked, leaving a room does not mean anything. Wenwen should not be too calculating, and mutual understanding is the way to get along.
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