#提案人回应解决择偶难鼓励女性留乡 #
Let me start with my point that it's good to focus on the countryside, but please don't put all the blame on women.
Wu Xiang, a member of the Xiangyin County CPPCC Committee, saw that it was difficult for older young people in rural areas to choose a spouse and made suggestions. The Hunan Civil Affairs Bureau also replied to the "Proposal on Attaching Importance to the Difficulty of Choosing Spouses for Elderly Rural Youth".
I think it's a good thing not to talk about the content, just to talk about the thing itself. See the problems, make recommendations, and the government takes action. All this shows that people want to solve problems and want to make the countryside better. As a rural person, I am very willing to make my hometown better and better. I am also grateful to those who pay attention to the countryside and contribute to the existing problems in the countryside.
I am not here to show how wise my opinion is, nor to disparage any individual or government agency. Simply from the perspective of rural young women, tell your own views. In my hometown, older young people face this problem when it is difficult to choose a mate, both men and women. Discuss things together, all parties work together, do not stand on the moral high ground to kidnap women, and put the responsibility on women.
Their hometown is a large agricultural province, and women's occupations are mostly teachers, civil servants, supermarket cashiers, or small businesses, and there are not many options. Reality tells women that getting married and giving up work doesn't get the respect and understanding they deserve. Women have the right to fight for a better life for themselves, not to rely on others, to live in heaven and earth with self-respect and self-love, to go out and find a job, and not to be blamed for being educated. Many women around me go out to earn money, feed themselves, and help improve the living standards of their relatives in their hometown. Isn't it indirectly building a hometown? Do you have to stay in your hometown and suffer and eat the old?
I encourage men to go out and break in, and good boys are determined to go around. Think that the bride price is high, go to the provinces with low bride price to try, or go to Russia and Ukraine where there are more women; think that there are fewer women in the hometown, try to study seriously and go to the big city to marry the city Bai Fumei; feel that the income is low, try to read more, learn the technology; feel that blind dates are always disliked, try to improve their competitiveness in the blind date market...
As long as the thinking does not slip downhill, there are always more ways than difficulties. Sticking to the countryside to eat the old, playing mahjong cards, drinking and smoking, reading without work, addicted to games, not increasing income, not improving their own quality, how many women are retained in their hometown is useless.