Some people say: "The current social situation not only contains a fast-paced melody, but also wraps the soul of people." ”
In today's life, everyone's life is not easy, and even some people feel depressed every day, like a stone pressed on the heart at every moment, never relaxed, only let the string in the mind more and more tense.
I have seen such a survey, in the eyes of most people, the happiest moment is not when they wake up to work and activities, but the time when they can sleep peacefully and carefree.
Why is this happening? As Li Bai said, "I hope I will not wake up after a long time of drunkenness." ”
When the pressure of life is getting closer and closer to people, when the burden of life is more and more imposed on everyone's shoulders, in fact, it is difficult for us to stay out of the matter, but we can only grit our teeth to insist, even if we can't hold on, we have to hold on.
The so-called "the world is bustling for profit, and the world is bustling for profit." In life, most people are running for "interests", and there is not much time to hurt the spring and autumn.
Therefore, many people will feel depressed at some point and feel that life is not light. Because in their eyes, the days ahead may be like today's life, and they can see the end at a glance.
In this way, in fact, most people's emotions have reached a time when they need to be released. Well, when you feel hopeless in life and need to release emotions, look at what "they" say.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > to the old man knows that it is not a force to take, three points of personnel and seven days</h1>
Zhao Yi wrote in the "On Poetry": "When the old man knows that it is not a force to take, three points of personnel and seven points of heaven." ”
People, only after more experience, will understand at a certain stage that most things in life are not all determined by people, and a considerable part of them depend on "Providence".
Perhaps many of us think that doing so is somewhat "negative". However, when we are old, looking back at the first half of life, you will soberly understand that many things, as long as you encounter them, are all things you have to experience.
Just like who you will meet, who you will fall in love with, and who you will really be married to, all this will not be predicted by anyone in advance. Because there are so many variables in life, you don't know where your variables are.
When you understand "human affairs" and "providence", you will find that everything you have experienced and the path you have taken have traces to follow.
The so-called "plotting lies in man, and success lies in heaven." "As long as you have made the corresponding efforts, as long as you have played the "seven points" of personnel to the extreme, then everything in the rest of your life, just go with the flow, do not care too much.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > if there is no idle business, it is a good time on earth</h1>
Shi Huikai said: "Spring has a hundred flowers, autumn has a moon, summer has a cool breeze and winter has snow." If there is no idleness to worry about, it is a good time on earth. ”
Spring symbolizes the bloom of a hundred flowers, the beauty of summer is the slight cool breeze in the shade of the trees, autumn is characterized by the full moon of August 15, and in winter, the snowy world will appear.
This shows a truth, that is, the four seasons are rotated, the human world is changing, and everything is developing. In this way, the things of life are constantly changing in a cycle.
Therefore, in the face of unfair things in life, in the face of suffering in life, what should our attitude be? That is to know how to empty the "heart".
To be honest, it is to let the heart "return to zero". The honor you have received, all that you have lost, is only a small thing in the river of human growth. When you see through it, you will understand that if people are full of unfair intentions, they will not be able to live this life after all.
On the contrary, if people's hearts are empty, as Zeng Guofan said, "There is no spirit and no one", then the second half of your life, no matter how bad, can be happy and stable for a lifetime.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > the taste of the world is qing huan</h1>
Su Shi had a saying: "Snow foam milk flower floating noon cup, artemisia annua shoots try spring plate." The taste of the world is pure joy. ”
For Su Shi, the way of life he has longed for all his life is actually "Qinghuan". What is Qinghuan? It is a pure heart, self-enjoyment, a good heart, and an open heart.
Speaking of "Qinghuan", in fact, Taiwanese writer Lin Qingxuan especially likes this way of life.
He once said: "Qinghuan is a gesture of life, a way to find oneself, and a supreme state of life." It does not come from elsewhere, but from our pursuit and love of a quiet, sparse, simple life. ”
To be honest, what is the essence of "Qinghuan"? That's what we're advocating for at the moment.
"Minimalist" life may seem ordinary and simple, but once we do it, we actually feel very difficult.
Because in this life, most people can only afford it, but few people can put it down.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > hard to eat, happy to forget worries, do not know that old age is coming</h1>
Confucius once said: "Strive to forget food, happy to forget worries, do not know that old age is coming." ”
When a person strives for ideals and goals, in fact, he has long forgotten the time for his meals.
When a person finds something he loves in life, then he does not know where the sorrow is.
So, when you're in a difficult situation, what's the best thing to do? That is, don't let yourself be "idle", don't think too much, but do things silently and make money silently.
When it comes to "making money", I actually think of what a writer said: "When you are unhappy with this boring life, don't think too much, make every penny well, and believe that your good luck will soon come." ”
Many times, we are sad, we complain about others, we don't know how to dredge our hearts, because we don't do things silently, but let pessimistic thoughts float aimlessly in our heads.
People live one life, grass and trees in autumn. People live, then don't think too much. You know, you don't even know what will happen tomorrow, so why spend so much time on "worrying about tomorrow"?
There is a saying that feels very good, your money is the "Noah's Ark" in your life, which came to "cross" you to the other side of life.
In the days to come, whether you are rich or poor, please don't think too much, but bury your head in making money. You know, this is your life's work.
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