One day I was having dinner with friends, and during the meal, we mentioned our friend Zhang Qing.
She started her business a few years ago and had two children during the venture. Now she is not only thriving in her career, but also a super hot mom with a good figure and appearance, and has also been promoted to a goddess. Now Zhang Qing's company has about 200 or 300 employees and enjoys a high reputation in the industry.
At this moment, someone suddenly mentioned: "Isn't she because her husband is okay today?" ”
Zhang Qing's husband is really good, but he talks to her in another circle and has nothing to do with his career. Zhang Qing resigned from a large company and started her own business. Her husband was very supportive of her, but it was only a spiritual support.
"Yeah, wasn't it because she found a good husband?" Her husband earns a lot of money, so she can start a business with peace of mind. Just like our own family, if one less person has money, it will eat, eat and wear, how can you say that she quit her job to start a business? ”
"Also, because her husband is very rich, the family can hire two aunts, and she has just given birth to the baby and went to the gym and beauty." She has never had a child, and she has been exhausted with children before, so where do I have the energy to go to the gym? ”
"By the way, if she's looking for an ordinary man, how is her life now?"
"Now that the company is so big, I don't know what magic is behind it." Otherwise, how can women have this ability, men may not be able to do it! ”
Hearing this, it really makes people feel cold under their feet.
Many times, when we see that others are better than us, we are not convinced, but we know that we can't beat them, and we start to yy others must have some ulterior secrets. Especially when it comes to which woman around her is particularly capable, the first thing asked is: "What does her husband do?" If it happens that her husband is also very good, she feels that it must be her husband's credit. If her husband were more ordinary, she would sigh: "Unfortunately, she can only rely on her own work, what does she think?" How could she marry such a person! If her friend happens to have a good-looking face and figure, then she becomes vulnerable.
Feminism screams every day, but in fact, women always look down on women, subconsciously thinking that a good marriage can kill everything in a second. A lot of women always feel that we used to be people who ate, drank and had fun together. Why are you living better than me? Not because you married well? With a good man, everything can be done effortlessly. In this way, anyone who is capable can become a superman.