I am 46 years old and a single middle aged woman. I said I was single because my ex-husband and I were indeed divorced and not in a marital relationship. But in the years after the divorce, I still had a certain relationship with the previous marriage.
Speaking of his own emotions are quite confusing, silly and unclear. We were an enviable couple, I was sweet-looking, tall and temperamental, and he was also a handsome, stable, personable man.
He was my first love, and I was the only one of him, and we were in love for more than a year and then we were privately married for life. His family conditions were not good, and his parents were strongly opposed to our being together, but my parents still compromised with me at my insistence.
Although we did not have a good material foundation after marriage, we lived a sweet and warm life, and we have always loved each other deeply. For the change of life we have been working hard, we started a small business, starting from the beginning bit by bit, we rely on integrity management, the business is more and more fire, and finally broke out of a piece of the sky, my living conditions have also undergone rapid changes.
As the days get better, people's thinking will also undergo subtle changes, but some changes are obvious, and some changes are not obvious. But my ex-husband just got a little overwhelmed. Since the days got better, we rarely ate together in the evenings, and we rarely spent time with my children and me on weekends. At first I thought it was normal for him to be busy with business, but the days that followed made me feel more and more distant.
He became often unreasonable and began to dislike me, looking for me with nothing to do, and we often quarreled over it. Later, under the reminder of my friend, I discovered his secret, and it turned out that he had already transferred his affection to me. I felt like the whole sky was falling, I was in so much pain, and my parents were even angrier and admitted to the hospital. In fact, I did not want to go to the point of divorce, and I also made a choice under multiple pressures.
After the divorce, I lived an uneventful life alone, until one day a quick phone call broke my peaceful life. That phone call came from the hospital, it turned out that he had a car accident on the way back at night, the whole person was very seriously injured, at that time I went to the hospital to take care of him without saying a word, what I did not expect was that this trip made me and his relationship can not be shaken off.
He had not been able to get up for a long time since that car accident, could not take care of himself, and had owed a lot of foreign debts in order to treat him. I had nothing to do with him, and my friends kept urging me to leave, but I remembered that I had a husband and wife relationship, and although I hated him in my heart, how could I ignore him now? In order to take care of him, the pressure of life is so difficult for me as a woman, since then I feel that I am much older, sometimes I feel that I really can't hold on, and the belief in my heart has always supported me, "Stand up straight, don't lie down." ”
Now he is in much better health, and I have done my part, I just hope to find someone who really loves me now...
@ Xuan Yingxiu can see through your expression that you are a temperamental person, you have been hurt so much, and it is not easy to still bear the grief to take care of your ex-husband. The emotions of the future are believed to be better. How do you see this emotion? Welcome to comment on the following.