Recently, I was shocked by a variety show of an elderly person living alone!
One of the old men was Liu Xuehua.
She said:
"I'm 62 years old now, I've been living alone for 9 years, my husband has died, almost all modern Internet access, and my phone won't work."
The program team sent a message to her asking if she wanted to drink morning tea,
She just looks and can't type.
Finally say: "I will only call and say".
After arriving at the program group, Liu Xuehua entertained the guests,
If you want to cook dumplings, you can't even use a range hood.
However, Liu Xuehua became famous early, made a lot of money, and accepted the environment that he had seen far exceeded that of ordinary people.
That's it, but how can it be so clearly out of touch with society?
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In 1959, an intellectual family in Beijing welcomed the daughter of the family.
Father gave the name: Liu Xuehua.
No one could have imagined this name but in the next 26 years, she will become a household name "Qiong Yao Goddess".
When she was 5 years old, she moved to Hong Kong with her parents.
As the youngest child in the family, her parents and older siblings were spoiled enough to make her the most envied child in her class.
Only those who are favored can be pampered and proud.
She practiced shot put at school despite her father's objections;
Deliberately making the little white shoes black and dirty;
This is contrary to the father who thinks that girls should be quiet and have the appearance of everyone's boudoir.
Of course, the most infuriating thing is not these.
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Although he painted a Chinese painting in one hand, his mind was thinking about how to pretend that his stomach hurt so that he could trick his father into throwing a shot put ball.
It's not the first time, but every time she can mix it up with her vivid acting skills.
In 1978, 19-year-old Liu Xuehua came out of the woods.
Liu Xuehua, who was unwilling to be a quiet and elegant well-behaved woman in her bones, saw Lin Chuchu, who had superb acting skills on TV, and moved her crooked thoughts of entering the show business circle.
You know, Lin Chuchu was a red-haired female artist in the 20s.
It is worth mentioning that she was also the grandmother of actress Li Zi, and at that time, Lin Chuchu and Liu Xuehua's father had a personal relationship, and the relationship between the two was very good.
In this way, she pulled Lin Chuchu as a lobbyist, and she herself was angry and successfully admitted to the Hong Kong Great Wall Film Company.
Liu's father did not agree and there was no way.
Since then, the rebellious "little drama spirit" Liu Xuehua has thus begun her deviant entertainment circle.
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I don't know whether to say that she is lucky or a little back.
Entering the entertainment industry for the first time, because of his beautiful looks, humility, and strong understanding,
Those predecessors, when playing, are also willing to take the heart to dial her.
It can be said that her starting point completely hangs the artists of the same period.
Weng Meiling and Liu Xuehua
However, after the continuous filming of "His Life" and "The Thief of Magic Hands", two works with high hopes.
However, because of the strange lighting of the crew, he was ridiculed by the audience as a "fierce eye".
Both works are cool.
In desperation, she found another way out and switched from TVB to the arms of Shaw Movies.
Shaw's films are also willing to praise her, and have given a lot of good resources, such as "Demon World", "Yang Guo and the Little Dragon Girl" and so on.
Unfortunately, the ratings are still miserable.
A few years later, she failed to make a splash in the entertainment industry.
Her parents advised her: "Go home, tell you to find someone to marry and teach your son." ”
She just doesn't believe in evil.
Some people have said that Lin Qingxia's Meili carries a little heroism, Jiang Qinqin's Meili carries silk agility, and Liu Xuehua's Meili carries stubbornness.
In those days of not being optimistic, she carried forward this stubbornness to the extreme.
You say I can't, I'll show you one day.
In 1983, she finally exploded with "Young Cixi" and became famous in Hong Kong.
This seemed to open an opening for her success.
The next "Smiling Proud of the Jianghu", "Proud of the Jianghu" good drama continues.
When playing "Ren Yingying", she can hang on the tightrope for 6 hours without complaint.
There are three things in life: hard work, hard work, talent, can account for two of them, we will live well.
At this time, her performance was fully seen, and that person was the big director Liu Lili.
In 1985, Liu Lili introduced her to Qiong Yao, and her career took it to a new level.
When he was young, Liu Xuehua was extremely beautiful, a pair of large eyes were slippery, delicate like porcelain dolls.
Qiong Yao took a look at her at a glance, her eyes were big enough, bright enough, and it was particularly moving to cry.
The first Qiong Yao drama she starred in was "Several Degrees of Sunset Red", and it is said that when she was filming, she could let her tears flow down in 10 seconds.
It can also accurately grasp the time and location of the tears.
The director said: "The same scene, whether it is shooting front or side, she can cry in the same line." And the left line of tears, the right two lines of tears can also be perfectly consistent, very dramatic. ”
However, the most important thing is that she still "cries" very beautifully.
Since then, a generation of "tear-eyed queens" has been officially born.
She is Lu Yiping in "Smoke and Rain", strong on the outside, fragile on the inside, suffering left and right between love and revenge.
She is Zhang Hanyan in "Deep in the Courtyard", a tea picker, who meets true love by chance, but after marrying into the high gate, she suffers discrimination from the view of the portal.
She is yiyi in "Dumb Wife", born deaf and mute, fortunately found a good person, but because of the birth of a disabled child, the husband and wife were separated, separated for ten years.
And these bitter love scenes can not avoid her "crying skills".
However, this also made her have the trouble of happiness.
Because I can cry too much.
Once, at a friend's birthday party, a friend suggested that she perform a "cry" on the spot.
He also said: "Hurry up and cry, cry fast, everyone applauds and applauds." ”
She said helplessly: "Today's birthday, I came to cry? Isn't it? ”
I didn't expect my friend to cry to see her,
Say, "It's okay, we just love watching you cry." ”
In the end, she really cried, but she was angry.
However, this also completely proves that Liu Xuehua has really become the hottest actress in "Qiong Yao Professional Household".
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It is said that life is like a drama, and drama is like life.
And she herself is also a stubborn woman who "loves first", in fact, the real she is more wonderful than in the play.
In 1991, she met Liu Dekai in Qiong Yao's play "A Curtain of Dreams".
That is, the big scumbag who shouted: "You just cut off a leg, she has lost love", "Fei Yunxiang".
But I don't know that in real life, this man is also a big scumbag who makes people extremely speechless.
Liu Dekai has actually been married twice, and there is a black history of cheating.
He also lied to her that she was divorced, in fact, there was none.
As a result, Liu Xuehua was taken by Xiao San.
More terrible is yet to come.
Simple Liu Xuehua, without a marriage contract, without any commitment, with a heart that loves each other, it did not take long to get pregnant without marriage.
However, she did not panic at all, because Liu Dekai told her that she would get married after returning from filming in France.
Women always have the illusion that they will be the terminator of the prodigal son, the only woman he has ever been destined for.
Some women do do, reaping the rewards of a good husband who puts away his playfulness and returns to the family.
And some women, are doomed to failure.
Liu Xuehua was pregnant with anticipation of a small life while happily waiting for the wedding date.
But wait, wait, wait, wait for the breakup call.
Liu Dekai fell in love with a foreign girl, and said on the phone: "She is my beloved, and I want to marry not you." ”
At this time, the fetus has been in Liu Xuehua's stomach for more than 6 months.
An encounter in a foreign country abandoned the feelings of love for several years, completely disregarding Liu Xuehua and being pregnant, Liu Dekai is really scum to the extreme.
At this time, the grief-stricken Liu Xuehua was confused all day because he could not accept such a fact.
One day, he accidentally fell in the bathroom, resulting in an abortive fetus in the abdomen.
Because the fetus is already old, the uterus must be removed to save a life.
She not only lost her love, but also lost her right to be a mother.
For a moment, she just wanted to end her life.
It was not until the mother arrived in time that a tragedy was avoided.
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In 1999, under the introduction of her friends, she met Deng Yukun, a well-known screenwriter who was 13 years older than herself.
It was also the man in life besides her father who loved her the most.
He would write a poem to Liu Xuehua every day.
Because Liu Xuehua is an idiot in life, he will not go to the bank by himself, dare not go shopping alone, will not cut apples, will not use microwave ovens, and will not use range hoods.
Once, Deng Yukun made her angry, and she was so angry that she went out to play mahjong.
As a result, Deng Yukun directly wrote more than 80 "I love you" notes at home to apologize to Liu Xuehua.
This can also be seen that Deng Yukun really protected her to the bone.
On September 19 of the same year, when the love reached Zhengnong, the two of them decided on the marriage in the presence of their friends.
Two years later, the two had a wedding.
But she didn't know that when she was happy, reality gave her a deep blow.
One rainy night in 2011,
She came back from filming and was sleeping.
But Deng Yukun was afraid that the satellite signal at home was not good, afraid of affecting Liu Xuehua to watch TV.
So, I went outside to turn the direction of the satellite pot lid, and when I was not careful, I fell off the building and died.
No farewell, no message, no son and half daughter left, just like this and the person who loves themselves can never see each other again, the most painful thing in the world is this.
Later, 10 years later,
The stubborn Liu Xuehua also did not marry again.
But he played a mother-in-law-level role deeply into the hearts of the people.
Compared with those actresses who are over 40 years old and still dominate the little girl, she can be said to have acted from a fancy year to a white-haired flies.
Today's Liu Xuehua has slowly walked out of her emotional wounds and sought relief in her busy work.
The empress dowager played in "The Biography of Zhen Huan" has superb acting skills that are not inferior to other leading actors.
Whether it is a costume or a modern drama, whether it is a kind woman or a woman with a heart, she is willing to try,
Work brought her great satisfaction and gave her the ability to seem to be in control of her destiny.
But fate is very helpless...
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In a variety show "Under the Eaves",
She first exposed her ten years of living alone,
Caused a heated discussion among netizens!
It turns out that in real life, she is like the grandmother next to us, abandoned by the times...
Although she is fashionably dressed, her figure is still eye-catching.
But the rest of life was heart-wrenching.
Her TV is basically on 24 hours.
The TVs in the living room and bedroom were turned on in turn.
It is not off even if you sleep.
Having lived alone for nearly 10 years, she says she is completely out of touch with modern life.
And she calls herself a post-50s "housewife", because when she is not working, she never goes out.
In the show, a little girl after 00 lived in her home.
Liu Xuehua enthusiastically wanted to cook dumplings, but he didn't know how to turn on the range hood.
She said she doesn't have access to the Internet, and she uses all the smart appliances in her home as a fool's machine.
The TV will only turn on and off, and once someone moves the settings, she can't turn it back.
There are many such scenes in the show, which are surprising and a little emotional...
This era is developing too fast, and the elderly living alone cannot keep up with the development of modern science and technology, and can only watch themselves abandoned by the times.
For example, in August last year, in Dalian, Liaoning Province, when an old man entered the station, the staff asked him to show his health code.
But the old man does not understand anything health code,
Repeatedly asked, "What?" Who gave it to me? ”
The staff strictly abides by the system, and has always let the elderly wear masks and show the health code before they can ride.
During the dispute, the old man became more and more excited and annoyed: "You child is making trouble for no reason." ”
Finally, the security guard pulled the old man aside and asked him to show his health code, otherwise he would call the police.
The old man was also anxious: "What are you going to do?" You make it clear. ”
Explained for half a day, or chicken with duck, the staff did not see the health code, the old man did not understand how to take the car.
There have been many such things in the past two years.
This class of old people may be the most difficult old people in history.
100 years ago, their lives did not change much from birth to aging.
It's all about farming, chopping wood, burning fires, and raising chickens.
But today's old people are completely different.
When they were born, they probably didn't even have electric lights at home.
And these decades have passed, and all kinds of technology have poured into their lives: radios, televisions, refrigerators, smartphones, high-speed trains, takeaways, strange apps and so on.
Young people can keep up, and when they get old, they have a hard time.
At the end of the show, Liu Xuehua said that the 21 days with these young people in the program group were a cool experience.
She learned something new from young people and was infected by their vigor.
Young people lack money, and the elderly lack companionship.
Looking back on Liu Xuehua's life,
When he was a teenager, he stubbornly broke into the entertainment circle.
When he was young, he had no choice but to remove the womb for love.
After old age, a person hid in a big room and did not come out.
And said: "My biggest regret is that I have no children and no daughters." ”
Eventually, we'll all get older.
Wear a watch of three hundred pieces and a watch of three million,
The time is the same;
Drink thirty pieces of wine and three thousand pieces of wine,
Vomiting is the same;
Live in a room of 30 square meters and a room of 300 square meters,
Loneliness is the same.
One day you will know that the true happiness in your heart is something that the material world can never give...
Smoking ten cigarettes and smoking 100 cigarettes will get lung cancer, and sitting in first class and economy class will not be able to return.
So, figure it out, contentment...
Who you live with is the most important thing!
Who can accompany you is the most rare!