Brushing up on the film at home over the weekend through a friend's recommendation, female writer Liz aspires to have a thoughtful husband, a spacious house, and a successful career. At the same time, she also feels lost and confused, trying to find her own inner balance. After the divorce, in order to seek the true meaning of life, she began to travel the world and embarked on a journey of self-discovery. In the process, she experienced the joy of food in Italy, felt the power of prayer in India, and finally met her true love Felipe in Bali.
To share with you some classic lines from the movie:
1. "I have one of these boxes, but it contains national geographic and Time magazine travel columns with all the places I want to die."
Everyone has an ideal in their hearts, and the goals you set will be approached step by step sooner or later. So when Felipe and she describe the "intermediate state," a state of living on the margins, not wanting to live a comfortable life at home, but looking for revelation. This is obviously a channel person and sooner or later will come together.
2) "Are you happier now than before?" ”
Liz lives in Italy, and the landlord thinks marriage is eternal, so he asks her how she feels after divorce? Reminds me of a friend whose husband cheated on her, and I advised her to give them another chance for the sake of the children. She said, do you think not divorcing will make your child happier? I was speechless, like the landlord asking Liz how he felt after his divorce, and likewise, Liz couldn't answer that question either. Who knows what the future holds? If she knew, she wouldn't need to come out and look for answers, she wouldn't need to pray.
3. "Silence is a good practice"
I love the saying that we express too many things without leaving time and gaps to listen, to think, to judge and choose.
4) "The past is not about time, it's about whether you work hard enough." Forgive yourself for doing this before, and everything else will be solved by yourself."
Don't worry about the solution of things, if time can't solve it, it's not hard enough; if you can't handle it, leave it to time. Besides, what else can you do?
5) "You should stand on the ground on four legs and see the world with your heart, not your eyes or mind, so that you can experience God."
There is a saying that is very good, I am here to fall in love with you, not to reason with you. As soon as a man uses rational thinking to treat feelings, he is dead. If a woman uses emotional thinking to love a man, she is also dead. You can only go with your heart, no regrets, no regrets.
6, "Laugh on the face, from the heart, even from the liver." ”
Even if the family is rich, the good field is only food and clothing. To practice smiling from the heart, to find the balance of life, just like Wang Yangming's unity of knowledge and action, not disturbed, not entangled, not greedy, not angry, not foolish.
7, "I know you are in a bad mood, indicating that you are at a turning point, not a bad thing"
Poor people think about change, bad mood, naturally will also look for a solution, the way out, far better than drawing nothing, every day in dealing with urgent and unimportant things.
8, "You are so wise, you must have suffered a lot."
Wisdom in addition to learning, is to sum up experience, this point is always unable to run, can deal with the problem is only called knowledge; can deal with the problem well, is called wisdom. Only those who have suffered can be so unforgettable.
9 Eventually, I came to believe in what I called the "search for physics," a force in nature as real as gravity. The law of seeking physics is this: If you have the courage to put aside everything you know and reassure you, including your home, your pain, your grievances, and embark on a journey of truth—both external and internal—if you are really willing to see everything you experience on your journey as a hint, if you regard everyone you meet on your journey as a mentor, and most importantly, if you are ready to face and forgive you for your unpleasant qualities, then truth will not be too far away from you. Through my own experience, I couldn't help but start to believe in this law. I found my keywords. It means, "Let's cross the past!" ”
Man accepts his own shadow, and then it is complete.