I have always felt that loving myself is the beginning of all romance.
Many women live freely and brightly before marriage, but after marriage, they will put all their energy on the family and children, and will not think too much about themselves, making themselves worse and worse.
I once watched such a news, an ordinary little couple at the beginning, nothing, poor and white, but they support each other, struggle together, run a small shop, from the beginning of no business to the back of the improvement, and then the store continues to expand and increase, they earned the first bucket of gold in their lives.
Later, the man suggested that the woman was still family-oriented, and the woman began to take care of the family to take care of the children, but it was more tired than running the storefront, because everything was her own work, she was reluctant to ask for a nanny, so she did not have time to spend on herself, her figure began to change, and the communication with her husband was getting less and less.
One day, on her way home from grocery shopping, she saw her husband holding a young and beautiful girl, she rushed up to question her husband, and when her husband saw her, he quickly released the girl, explaining that he was a partner. But the woman's intuition was all accurate, and she must have known that it was not so simple, but she resisted and did not say much.
She privately began to investigate and follow her husband, and after that, she knew exactly that her husband had cheated on her. When she knew that her husband spent more than a million to buy a luxury car to give to the little three, she was going crazy, she ignored the people on the street, directly rushed up to fight with the little three, and as a result, her husband actually helped the little three scold her, saying that she didn't look at herself, she wanted to have no face, she wanted to have no body, she was a crazy woman, and she quickly rolled home. She sat on the ground and cried while talking about her suffering.
Even passers-by scolded her husband and Xiao San for not being human, but what could they do, in the end, this man did not take the little three away. The reality is so cruel, you give wholeheartedly, but you can't get a trace of return, in exchange for the betrayal of your husband.
While complaining that this man is too scummy and unfair in the world, we must also examine ourselves, whether we have loved ourselves well and improved ourselves.
Women should learn to invest in themselves, love themselves well, don't lose themselves in marriage, and don't just think about how to become a good wife, a good mother, a good daughter-in-law.
The most important thing in this world is always yourself, and only by learning to love yourself first will the world love you.