In 2015, Shen Teng became completely popular with a "Charlotte Troubles", he chose to end his 12-year love run with Wang Qi and entered the marriage hall, truly staged the "from school uniform to wedding dress" that many people expected.
However, Wang Qi could not feel the joy of wearing a wedding dress like an ordinary girl, and could only face countless scoldings.
Some netizens said: "Wang Qi is so fat, he is not worthy of Shen Teng at all." ”
Some netizens said: "Shen Teng was forced to marry Wang Qi. ”
Even when Shen Teng proposed to Wang Qi, Wang Qi's sentence "Over the years, my family's wishes, my wishes, have finally come true" did not let go.
They said Wang Qi's family "seemed to be waiting for a man's verdict." ”
Even on the Internet, Shen Teng himself said: "If I don't marry Wang Qi, it seems that I will become a sinner." ”
So why did Shen Teng marry Wang Qi, who was already angry and had a blessed body, and was 32 years old? Is he really forced to be helpless?
If you understand Wang Qi's efforts, you will not easily denigrate.
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In 1982, Shen Teng was 3 years old and enjoyed a happy childhood in the fertile land of Qiqihar, Heilongjiang.
He never imagined that the birth of a girl more than 1,400 kilometers away would change the trajectory of his life.
This girl is now Shen Teng's wife, Wang Qi.
Their story begins in 2002.
That year, the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts expanded enrollment, because there were too many new students, the teachers could not manage it, so they assigned Shen Teng, who was already a senior, to "pick the beam" and take the new students to arrange skits.
At that time, Wang Qi's appearance was quiet, his personality was bright, and his figure was exquisite, even in the military art of beautiful women.
But when they first saw it, these did not attract much attention from Shen Teng.
When he was young, Shen Teng was also a proper "military art school grass", harvesting the pursuit of countless beautiful little girls.
What really made Shen Teng notice Wang Qi was because he was now, Wang Qi always liked to cock his ass when he rehearsed sketches.
He couldn't bear it anymore, so he said in front of everyone: "You act, you act, what ass!" ”
After Wang Qi heard these words, her face was red from the neck to the root of her ears, and she did not want to show weakness and angrily went back: "My ass is born so upturned!" ”
A conversation caused laughter in the hall, and also let this moment remain in the hearts of the two forever.
Although there are all kinds of unpleasantness in the cooperation, Wang Qi's performance of the sketch has still won the praise of teachers and alumni.
They have since had contact information.
In 2003, Shen Teng should have graduated, but SARS swept across China, the school was closed, and Shen Teng and many students stayed in the school.
Shen Teng, who was not willing to be lonely, applied to the school to hold a party.
Everything was just in time, and Wang Qi's tap dance performed at the party completely broke Shen Teng's defenses.
That night, Shen Teng's mind was full of Wang Qi's graceful posture when he danced.
He lost sleep.
After hesitating for a long time, he still sent a message to Wang Qi: "The posture is not right, get up and fall asleep." ”
Wang Qi was sleepy at the time, confused to see this message from Shen Teng, a confused face, out of polite reply: "Senior, are you wrong?" ”
After Shen Teng saw the reply, he immediately felt that Wang Qi was "not funny", and also felt that his "hot face was pasted with a cold ass", so he fell asleep in the sullenness.
The next day, Shen Teng replied: "Well, it was wrong. ”
Years later, when Shen Teng and Wang Qi were interviewed together on "Best Scene", Shen Teng complained that he was "real land" at that time.
After that, half a month of haunting dreams and sleepless nights made Shen Teng no longer able to suppress the love for Wang Qi in his heart.
One day, he was eating out with a group of brothers, and after three rounds of drinking, he had the courage to send a message to Wang Qi and let her go together.
In Wang Qi's own words: "At that time, I thought of ten thousand reasons to push back. ”
But Shen Teng did not give up, he called over, said it was just dinner, small talk, Wang Qi went to the appointment.
But as soon as Wang Qi arrived, Shen Teng's brothers began to coax, saying that Wang Qi was "like a sister-in-law."
Without careful pursuit, without deliberate confession, after several dinners initiated by Shen Teng, they fell in love with each other naturally.
But what they didn't expect was that this hand in hand was exactly 12 years.
After SARS passed, Shen Teng graduated and rented a small apartment around the school.
Unlike other students who are busy running the crew, Shen Teng, because of his favorable family conditions and the rare free time he ushered in, stays at ease in a small apartment and plays games every day without leaving the door.
Whenever Wang Qi visited Shen Teng's nest after class, he could always see the snack bags he had eaten and the clothes he was throwing everywhere.
At that time, although Wang Qi was a little dissatisfied with Shen Teng, she did not feel the pressure of life, silently embraced everything about Shen Teng, and paid for Shen Teng without complaint.
She cleaned up the messy room for Shen Teng, and as long as Shen Teng said he was hungry, she immediately went to cook for him.
The rest of the time, Wang Qi danced and read in school, lived a very full life, and could not see Shen Teng's laziness.
But laziness still made Shen Teng's health light up red.
Because he sat and played games for too long every day, Shen Teng had hemorrhoids and had to undergo surgery.
At that time, he received a script from an old classmate called "Want to Eat Twist Flowers now screw you", asking him if he was interested and whether he wanted to audition.
When recuperating in the hospital, Shen Teng took the script and read it, and as the plot deepened, he fell into it.
After reading it in one breath, Shen Teng understood that this was a rare comedy script in China.
He understood each character in the script and even repeated the lines countless times in his mind.
Shen Teng, who had just recovered from a serious illness and could not sit up straight, caught up with the interview of Happy Twist as he wished.
On the day of seeing the director, the other interviewers sat up straight and dignified, but Shen Teng could only spread out on the sofa, but he did not expect to be blessed by misfortune.
When the director saw Shen Teng's appearance, he immediately felt that "this boy is very confident" and "not nervous at all, how much personality."
Moreover, at that time, Shen Teng was still handsome, so the director made a decision and gave Shen Teng a small role.
After Shen Teng entered the group, he learned that he was playing with He Jiong, Xie Na and other people who were already famous.
They are fully engaged in the performance, and everyone is eager to bring a refreshing feeling to the audience, so that the comedy really enters the hearts of the audience.
The company also placed high hopes on their performances, spending thousands of dollars and renting 40 performances in the "Yifu Building" of the Central Academy of Drama.
However, the reality is cruel, the ticket sold for a few days, the theater of a thousand people, went to 7 audiences, even the cost of renting a venue is not enough.
When the venue saw the dismal box office, he told them: "We will give you free of charge for the venue." ”
Therefore, Shen Teng's first drama performance was like this.
After encountering such a dilemma, countless actors have left happy twists, only Shen Teng feels the charm of comedy, and runs around with the troupe upside down.
In the process of touring the country, Shen Teng began to ignore his girlfriend Wang Qi, and the frequent correspondence between the two people before gradually became less.
In 2005, Wang Qi was close to graduation and began to be busy with noodles and filming, although the opportunities have been good, and he has also begun to make small money.
But the director's criticism and the fierce competition among the actors always surroundEd Wang Qi, she felt the hardships of life.
She longed for a man to ask her for porridge to be warm, with her standing dusk.
But Shen Teng did not.
He used the money earned by Wang Qi to work when he was busy, play games in his spare time, did not communicate with Wang Qi, and ignored her emotions.
The emotional gloom and loneliness in love made Wang Qi disheartened by this feeling.
Soon after, Wang Qi took over the filming of "Railway Guerrilla", and became popular because of the role of "Lanni", and the film continued to be contracted.
But when she took the time to come out to date Shen Teng, Shen Teng forgot all about the date because of the game.
Wang Qi cried and questioned Shen Teng, in exchange for shen Teng's silence and indifference.
During that time, Shen Teng even stayed up late in order to play games, and he couldn't drink water, and the corners of his mouth bubbled up.
Wang Qi couldn't look at it anymore, and she cried and said to Shen Teng, "You actually caught fire for a broken game!" You've got to live with the game! ”
Together for more than three years, they had quarreled a lot, and Shen Teng had long been accustomed to it, thinking that this time it would be fine.
But Wang Qi re-examined the relationship between the two.
She suddenly found that the man in front of her, whom she had loved for many years, had become so strange, so strange that she could not see each other's future.
Wang Qi left, returned to the crew to shoot the scene, and the contact between the two people became less and less.
The young and crazy Shen Teng, still unaware of the crisis between the two, once again, because he played the game, he forgot to accompany Wang Qi to audition.
Indifference and neglect, like two sharp swords, slashed at the love between Shen Teng and Wang Qi.
The trust between them, as insecurity spreads, crumbled.
In 2007, the 5th year of her relationship with Shen Teng, Wang Qi calmed down, she felt that this was not the love she wanted, and she could not spend the rest of her life with such an unmotivated man.
She sent a message to Shen Teng: "Have you ever thought about what I want?" Is it money? Is it right? Or is it a man's care and attention? ”
For a long time, Shen Teng, who has been well protected by his family, school, and troupe, was instantly overwhelmed.
He has not been beaten by society, does not know that love needs to be managed by both parties, and does not know how to redeem it.
They broke up.
That year's Spring Festival, everyone guarded the countdown to the Spring Festival Gala, and the windows were fireworks that bloomed one after another, but what was left for Shen Teng was the loneliness of everyone's revelry.
Later, Shen Teng recalled the scene when he broke up with Wang Qi: "I finally understood Jacky Cheung's "Heart Like a Knife Cut". ”
On the verge of missing out, Shen Teng suddenly remembered the neglected little efforts.
Wang Qi's love is a bowl of noodles when he is hungry;
It was his relief when the drama box office was dismal;
It was a few hundred dollars when he had no income;
It was a hug he hadn't felt in a long time.
Everyone is staying up for the New Year, deliberately not going to sleep, and Shen Teng is insomnia, tears flowing through the eyes across the corners of the eyes.
Sometimes, being calm with each other or choosing to be apart for a while may be a good medicine for love.
Shen Teng was forced to take this bitter medicine.
Then, he realized.
Perhaps, every man will meet a woman who makes him know how to cherish and grow up quickly.
In the new year, Shen Teng changed his lazy style of the past.
He works hard, cherishes every stage, and does every performance perfectly.
He began to save money, pay attention to various snacks that girls liked, send some past to Wang Qi every holiday, and even clumsily knit bracelets and buy jewelry.
On Valentine's Day, half a year after breaking up with Shen Teng, Wang Qi received a bracelet designed and woven by Shen Teng himself, and the love in Wang Qi's heart was awakened again.
That night, Wang Qi received a message from Shen Teng: "Baby, come back." ”
Wang Qi, who was only 24 years old at the time, was on fire for starring in "Ten Days of Life and Death" directed by Zheng Xiaolong, which received rave reviews that year, and the Douban score soared to 8.2.
She could have had a better choice, or she could have focused on her career and ignored Shen Teng's redemption.
But Wang Qi did not refuse, let alone twist and refuse, she once again accepted Shen Teng and chose to return to his side.
Shen Teng, who had experienced the loss, began to perform hard, worked hard to make money, and also learned to call and comfort Wang Qi at every moment when he needed it.
Wang Qi still listened to Shen Teng talk about life, talk about career, and send some money to Shen Teng as always.
In the days of rushing to each other, Shen Teng also ushered in a turning point in his career.
In 2012, when Shen Teng performed the drama "I Am Waiting for You in Heaven", Ha Wen, the director of the Spring Festival Gala, sat down on the stage, and he saw Shen Teng's comedic talent at a glance.
Under the strong recommendation of Ha Wen, Shen Teng took "Today's Happiness" to participate in the program selection of the CCTV Spring Festival Gala that year.
Such a small program, in the huge program group of the Spring Festival Gala, is almost not worth mentioning, but it is because it is too small that Shen Teng has a rare sense of normalcy.
He's not as nervous as other big show actors, but he can devote himself to creation.
In the heavens and places, Shen Teng stepped onto the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, and with the role of "Hao Jian", completely out of the circle.
With that came, there were various program invitations, but Shen Teng found that he needed more and more help from Xiannei.
At that time, Wang Qi's "Where the Peach Blossoms Bloomed" was being rebroadcast on Various David TV, and his career was still on the rise.
But when Shen Teng needed it, she still pushed away a large number of film contracts without hesitation, and spent time helping Shen Teng take care of her life.
In 2013, Shen Teng and Ma Li appeared on the Spring Festival Gala, and "Today's Happiness 2" made the pair quite popular with everyone.
An era of comedy belonging to Shen Teng and Ma Li opened the curtain.
However, Wang Qi was surrounded by the voices of many CP fans around him, and his insecurity was also increasing.
But all this is just the beginning.
A year later, Shen Teng and Ma Li performed the sketch "Can't Help", which set off a heated discussion in society about "whether the old man who fell down on the road should be helped".
The "Divine Horse Combination" was completely red.
On the other hand, Wang Qi has been with Shen Teng for 11 years, giving up a great future for Shen Teng, and his youth and career achievements are gradually gone.
She is 31 years old and her body is beginning to bless.
The anxiety of age and the aging of physiology make Wang Qi want to get married as soon as possible.
Shen Teng didn't know these things, but he just felt that everything was not yet the time.
Wang Qi waited day by day in disappointment, believing that he would marry her, and also accepted Shen Teng's busyness, willingly hiding behind him and washing his hands and making soup for him.
Even most of the time, Wang Qi could only hide his light behind Ma Li, swallow the bad comments of persuasion alone, and taste the bitterness of a person alone.
For countless difficult nights, Wang Qi secretly shed tears, but she rarely complained to Shen Teng.
In 2015, Shen Teng and Ma Li's "Charlotte Troubles" became the dark horse of the year with a box office of 1.44 billion, and Shen Teng ushered in the most prosperous year of his career.
This year, Shen Teng was 36 years old and Wang Qi was 32 years old.
In 12 years, the Haohai of time swept away the vigorous and fanghua years, leaving Wang Qi with only the desire to marry Shen Teng and have a home.
Shen Teng has always understood what Wang Qi wants, this year, he received a lot of variety show invitations, but only chose "Son-in-law Came to the Door".
When the program was broadcast, the huge Ferris wheel stopped at the highest point, and Shen Teng used a giant LED screen to broadcast the bits and pieces of the two people's past.
Looking at the video, Wang Qi had already collapsed in tears.
After coming down from the Ferris wheel, a peach heart slowly rises, and a ring is hidden inside.
Shen Teng proposed.
Wang Qi and her whole family cried so much that they could not help themselves, and she shouted loudly: "For many years, my wish, the wish of the whole family, has been fulfilled today."
However, what Wang Qi received was not a blessing, but endless doubts, and even some netizens said: "This is the pair that I can most accept to break up." ”
But Wang Qi did not flinch, she said to the camera: "Over the years, he has given me enough security to make me feel that I am an irreplaceable person except my parents." ”
This is probably the courage that love gives to a person, enough for people to cross the wind and rain and cut through thorns.
After marriage, Wang Qi quickly gave birth to a baby, completely gave up his career, and retreated to the background and became a virtuous wife.
Shen Teng, under the careful care of Wang Qi, has gained a lot of weight, but his works have frequently become blockbusters.
He is the leader of "Shy Iron Fist";
Is Wang Duoyu in "The Richest Man in Xihong";
It is Shen Guanglin in "Hello, Li Huanying".
Now, their second child has also been born, and the days are as calm as water, and we can feel their happiness in their photos.
Someone said: "Women want to marry love and heart, and men want to marry life." ”
It is most appropriate to use this sentence to interpret the love between Shen Teng and Wang Qi.
In fact, their experience is very similar to Huo Ren Chen Lu's past, and they have walked hand in hand with each other for more than ten years, but the ending is very different.
Shen Teng chose life, and Huo Someone lost to temptation.
You know, all the fierceness and passion in the world will suddenly disappear with the passage of time.
Only sincere dedication and lasting companionship can repeat the silent phrase "I love you" on the paper of the silent years.
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