I haven't seen such an interesting hot search in a long time!
Some netizens pulled out the old picture of Liang Chaowei and Liu Jialing sharing the stage.
Liu Jialing confidently beckoned, striding forward, exuding the super aura of "sister is the queen".
And Liang Chaowei tightly held Liu Jialing's hand and walked shyly behind.
He was like a child who was pulled out by his mother and forced to open a business, stiffly waving his hands at the audience twice, and then pulled Liu Jialing back, contributing a large wave of laughter.
The entry on the hot search # Liang Chaowei Liu Jialing I am afraid to meet social talents # perfectly summarizes the personalities of the two.
One is a cheerful "big sister", enthusiastic and eclectic.
One is the introverted and quiet "melancholy prince", with a dull personality and a subtle low profile.
Mismatch is what most people say about them.
I remember that many years ago, on the red carpet in Cannes, Liang Chaowei held Liu Jialing in his right hand, and his left hand was interlocked with Maggie Cheung's ten fingers.
Whether it is fame, appearance or personality, everyone says that he is more compatible with the cold and gentle Maggie Cheung.
But in the end, with the male god for life, why is liu Jialing full of fireworks?
When the breeze crosses the mountains
Encounter the fireworks of the secular world
After more than ten years of marriage, Liang Chaowei and Liu Jialing have never had children.
Liu Jialing said that this was a decision made jointly with Liang Chaowei, because raising children is "too much of a responsibility."
The reluctance to become a father is also related to Liang Chaowei's childhood experience.
Liang Chaowei once said: "When I was a child, I was very naughty, and then my father left me and my mother without saying a word, and I began to dislike talking. ”
His father was addicted to gambling, abandoning the young Liang Chaowei, and also making him have to shoulder the burden of supporting his family early, tired of his livelihood, and hurt by rumors.
Even after becoming famous, Liang Chaowei was still silent and melancholy, sensitive and inferior.
In contrast, although Liu Jialing's family is not rich, her father sells sacks to subsidize the family, but the family atmosphere is harmonious, and she regards her family as her "spiritual pillar".
The love and support given to Liu Jialing by her parents also gave her the confidence to move forward frankly and not be afraid of being hurt.
Two people with completely different personalities, the daily painting style is incompatible.
Liu Jialing has a big grin, wind and fire, loves the lively and festive peach blossoms, and her hobby is to call Faye Wong and others to play mahjong together.
Liang Chaowei is introverted, sensitive, dull and quiet, and likes to listen to rock and roll alone in his room, and his pastime is to fly to London alone and quietly feed the pigeons in the square.
The career development of the two can not be regarded as a match.
In 1984, Liang Chaowei and Liu Jialing collaborated for the first time for "Deer DingJi".
Liang Chaowei plays the protagonist Wei Xiaobao, and Liu Jialing plays Fang Yi, who does not play much, and even the most inconspicuous of Wei Xiaobao's seven wives.
When Liang Chaowei won the Golden Horse Film Emperor, Liu Jialing was still not famous, and when Guan Zhilin, Wang Zuxian, Maggie Cheung and others dominated the screen, she was what people called a "middle-class beauty".
The most dramatic scene took place at the Academy Awards ceremony.
At that time, Liang Chaowei and Liu Jialing were both nominated.
Liu Jialing paid special attention to it, and after announcing the results, Liang Chaowei really won the award, and it was Maggie Cheung who could win the best actress trophy.
Liu Jialing knew that the resources of the two were thousands of miles apart, and she helplessly complained:
"Please his script is always piled up in front of him, never finished." And I've been asking for a script. ”
But why do they, who are so unmatched in all aspects, finally identify with each other and choose to enter marriage hand in hand?
Her sister remembered a detail: once Liu Jialing came home and saw Liang Chaowei mopping the floor while crying.
Liu Jialing called Wong Kar-wai and learned that Liang Chaowei felt aggrieved because of "dozens of times in a play".
Liu Jialing, who is calm and atmospheric, comforts Liang Chaowei like a big sister: This is the director's hope that you will improve, do not pay attention to it.
Liang Chaowei calmed down.
The trivial affairs of the two people's lives after marriage were also all handed over to Liu Jialing to take care of.
Water bills and electricity bills and other details of life, Liang Chaowei has never needed to worry about, even house decoration, Liang Chaowei only needs to carry a bag to move in.
Liu Jialing used her own fireworks to complete Liang Chaowei's ungroundedness.
No wonder Liang Chaowei would say:
"Whenever I am deeply trapped in the drama and can't extricate myself from depression, I think of Liu Jialing.
All emotions heal the moment they see her.
A lot of women are drugged, but she's my antidote. ”
Like is the heartbeat, love is peace of mind
Zhang Guorong once commented: "Liang Chaowei has a very strange personality and is a very difficult person to contact. ”
But for Liu Jialing, Liang Chaowei can also be very romantic and warm.
One year, on Liu Jialing's birthday, Liang Chaowei was filming in South Korea, and he recorded a video to celebrate his wife's birthday.
At four o'clock in the morning, the drama group finished work, he hurriedly flew back to China, and the surprise appeared at Liu Jialing's birthday party.
After staying for two hours, he hurried back to filming.
Liu Jialing described Liang Chaowei as "the kind of power that a mountain has given himself."
Probably many people have heard of the kidnapping case that shocked the entertainment industry in the 90s.
Knowing that Liu Jialing had been kidnapped by gangsters, Liang Chaowei immediately stopped filming and frantically went to look for it, his hands trembling so much that he could not drive.
When Liu Jialing appeared, her whole body fell into a sluggishness. Liang Chaowei hugged her in a panic, gentle and soothing.
Liu Jialing, who was forced to be calm, lay down in Liang Chaowei's arms and wept quietly.
Liu Jialing is a strong woman in her heart, she quickly adjusted her emotions, returned to normal life, and her acting career gradually emerged.
But who knows, a cover of Hong Kong's "East Weekly" broke her peaceful life.
It turned out that this unscrupulous media actually publicly released the "nude photos" taken by the kidnappers after Liu Jialing was kidnapped.
Liu Jialing was discredited, emotionally broken, and once wanted to commit suicide.
Liang Chaowei accompanied her patiently, and was even willing to give up his beloved acting career and accompany her to leave the entertainment circle, he said to his lover:
"This circle is so complicated, let's leave, where you want to go, I will accompany you wherever you go."
Liang Chaowei even joined forces with and Stars such as Andy Lau and Zhang Guorong to resist the immoral behavior of East Weekly.
In the end, the East Weekly was discontinued, which was very gratifying.
Liu Jialing, who bravely stood up and spoke out, was also encouraged and supported by the people.
After the incident, there are still malicious media who ask Liang Chaowei: "What will be the future direction of your relationship between the two of you?" ”
Liang Chaowei firmly said: "I will cherish my feelings with Jialing even more. ”
I believe that every girl will be touched by this warm sincerity and solid sincerity.
In the face of the crisis, Liang Chaowei stood in front, sheltering Liu Jialing from the wind and rain.
And Liu Jialing also shielded Liang Chaowei from the trivialities of the world and cared for his artist's alienated temperament.
Her sister agrees with a point of view: good love is that both parties take turns to play the roles of "adult", "parent" and "child".
They do not ask for it unilaterally, but support and rely on each other.
Long-term love, more or less have such characteristics.
Compared to the general matching
Maturity is what determines the longevity of a relationship
Many years later, referring to the dark past of being kidnapped, Liu Jialing said domineeringly: "Who has not yet had a three-point two-point." ”
"But I'm Liu Jialing, and I'll only live better."
Her sister has always admired Liu Jialing, both in her control of herself and her attitude towards marriage.
Even when the gap between the two was huge in all aspects, Liu Jialing was always mature and confident, and there was no sense of insecurity.
Even if Liang Chaowei and Maggie Cheung were full of gossip, she also responded lightly: "If he really likes Maggie Cheung, I am very happy, he decided to do it." ”
She never tied her life to others, did not put all her chips into love, but moved forward with her own strength.
Taking over the drama, going to variety shows, and learning to invest, Liu Jialing gradually became sharp, and others stopped taking pictures after marriage, but she won the film queen at the age of 45.
No one loses to a bad match, what loses is the humility of the heart.
Liu Jialing's strong self-confidence in her feelings also makes Liang Chaowei, who longs for her own boundaries, feel trusted and respected.
In an interview, Liang Chaowei once said: "No matter how long we can't see each other, no matter how many intimate scenes I have with others in the play, she trusts me and supports me." ”
People with large personalities do have different lifestyles. But how in the world are there two perfectly compatible people? Friction and contradiction are inherently eternal problems in the relationship between the sexes.
In the variety show "Women Have Something to Say", Liu Jialing, Xie Yilin and Xi Mengyao discussed "how to maintain a good marriage".
Liu Jialing said: "A long-term marriage is definitely a mutual patience, you think you are putting up with others, maybe people are also putting up with you, you think you are good."
When it comes to the desire to control, Xi Mengyao said that her desire to control is very strong, and Liu Jialing exported the golden sentence: "The most perfect control is not control." ”
I remembered that Liu Jialing had temporarily worked as Liang Chaowei's agent.
A reporter asked her: "Will you simply take over directly for a long time?" ”
Liu Jialing quickly shook her head and said, "Don't make the relationship so close, it is better to give yourself a little more space." ”
In intimate relationships, we often pursue intimacy, tightly wrapped around each other like vines, but forget that in the closest relationship, we need to leave people with breathing space.
In the daily trivial collision, Liu Jialing did not try to change the other party, but accepted the gap between the two.
She knew that Liang Chaowei liked to be quiet and did not like to socialize, so she left him at home and played well herself:
"Wei Zai just wants to stay at home and doesn't want to socialize." I sometimes go out to dinner, do things with friends, or travel for business, leaving him alone at home, and he may feel more comfortable and comfortable. If he clings to me every day, I won't be able to stand it either. It's like if I go out, if he's there, I can't even want to see the handsome guy! ”
Liang Chaowei, who is respected and recognized, will also fulfill Liu Jialing's hobbies.
He supported Liu Jialing in filming and accompanied her to the grand ceremony.
At an award ceremony, Liu Jialing confessed affectionately: "I want to thank Liang Chaowei, for many years, he has given me complete freedom and let me do what I want to do." ”
Readers often leave messages in the background: "Her sister, not a match/ a love that is not favored by parents and friends, should I stick to it?" ”
Her sister does not understand the details, it is difficult to give advice, but we reasoned in reverse, how does the unworthy love usually come to an end?
It is the inferior party, due to insecurity and insecurity, repeatedly suspecting and testing the love of the other party;
It is the stubborn party that tries to change the characteristics of the lover, trying to make the lover into his ideal appearance;
It is the naïve party that gives up its own growth, clings to others, and loses its own battlefield.
Finally, her sister would like to say that what determines whether love lasts is more about matching, but about maturity.
Click "watching", may we all have more of Liu Jialing's strong domineering, have enough sense of security and strength, live a good life for one person, and run the life of two people happily.