In September 2021, the third season of "Let's Fall in Love" began airing,
Yi Nengjing, as a love observer, frequently appeared in the program, which resonated with everyone.
In people's impression, Yi Nengjing is an "all-round artist" who can sing, can act and likes to write small compositions.
Who would have thought that Yi Nengjing, who is now happy and happy, has a tragic childhood and a failed marriage?
I thought I would end up alone, but I didn't expect to meet Qin Hao, who was ten years younger.
Now 53-year-old Yi Nengjing and Qin Hao have been married for many years and still love as ever,
How did she do it? And what are the outstanding points?
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Yi Nengjing, whose original name was Wu Jingyi, was born in 1968 to a middle-class family in Taipei, Taiwan Province, to a chinese politician, yang Shuwan, and her grandfather, Yang Yuanding.
Father Wu Min has a serious "son preference" mentality, there are seven children in the family, and the mother has always wanted to give birth to a son for the family.
Yi Nengjing was born with the hope of the whole family, the father saw that Yi Nengjing was still a daughter, and his emotions eventually broke out, divorced his mother, and left Yi Nengjing to his mother's care.
Her mother sang everywhere to earn money to support her family, so she handed Yi Nengjing over to an adoptive mother, and it was from this time that Yi Nengjing began her tragic childhood.
Yi Nengjing knew from an early age that she was a child that adults did not like, and when she first arrived at her adoptive mother's house, she put away her temper and temperament, understood things and was well-behaved, but she failed to satisfy her adoptive mother, and was often locked up in a small black room, living a full meal of hunger.
In order to be able to eat enough, Yi Nengjing proposed to go to her sister's house to live, I thought that going to my sister's house would be alleviated, but I did not expect that my brother-in-law was even worse.
In the face of unsatisfactory business, the brother-in-law always took Yi Nengjing to be angry, and even was revealed that he had let Yi Nengjing eat "dog food".
Despite the harsh living environment, Yi Nengjing is very good at studying, and in middle school, Yi Nengjing has always been at the top of the class, and she has a special love for Shakespeare's literary novels, especially like writing, and has won the first place in the composition competition.
After her mother divorced and fell in love with a Japanese, Yi Nengjing could only follow her mother to Japan, and after her mother and stepfather married, Yi Nengjing also changed her name to Yi Neng Jingjiang, and her stage name was taken from the first three characters of the Japanese name.
Yi Nengjing, who has known how to see other people's faces since she was a child, coupled with her good manners, her stepfather is very good to her.
Although Yi Nengjing's life and material life have been well improved, Yi Nengjing, who is far away from home, still feels that her hometown is good, so she has the idea of returning to China.
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In 1985, Yi Nengjing bought a ticket to return home on the pretext of going home to visit her sister, and embarked on the journey home, after returning to China, Yi Nengjing met Liu Wenzheng, a man who changed her fate.
Yi Nengjing on the way home, because of his excellent looks, was favored by Liu Wenzheng, Liu Zhengwen has a great influence in the Taiwanese music scene and has won countless awards.
At that time, Liu Wenzheng wanted to create a female rap group, so he invited Yi Nengjing to join, and Yi Nengjing could get a high salary just by singing, so he printed and joined Liu Wenzheng's "Flying Eagle Records".
In 1985, at the age of 17, Yi Nengjing, Qiu Haizheng and Fang Wenlin formed the "Flying Eagle Three Sisters" idol group and officially debuted.
In 1987, the trio released their first album "Shining Days", which caused a great response in Taiwan, and the trio also became famous.
Immediately after Yi Nengjing wrote her own lyrics with the help of her mentor Liu Wenzheng, she released her first album "There I Have You", it is worth mentioning that when Yi Nengjing was recording the song "Daddy Don't Say", her biological father died in a car accident.
Yi Nengjing, who has never felt the warmth of her biological father since she was a child, faces her father's death, and at this moment, she is eager for a man who can give her warmth and love.
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In 1986, at the age of 18, Yi Nengjing met 26-year-old Yu Chengqing, the two knew each other because of music, because they had a common topic, and after that, they often discussed music lyrics and arrangements together, and gradually the two secretly fell in love.
The first person to oppose the relationship between the two is Yu Chengqing's mother, Yu Chengqing was born in Taipei City, Taiwan Province, a famous family, Yu Chengqing's father is a senior administrator of the Taiwan government, and his mother Zhang Yufen is a celebrity of Peking Opera.
Yu Chengqing's grandfather was the founder of the "Asia Tobacco Company", Yu Chengqing received a good education from an early age, and Yi Nengjing, who came out to work at the age of 16, was completely a person of two worlds.
Large households pay attention to "door to door", Yu Chengqing's mother is no exception, and she is completely disdainful of Yi Nengjing. But at that time, Yu Chengqing was very fond of Yi Nengjing,
Completely ignoring his mother's objections, there was a state of non-Ichino-ichi. When participating in "Kangxi Coming", he also openly said that he could not do without Yi Nengjing.
In 2000, the two fell in love for 14 years and finally ended their love run, because of the opposition of Yu Chengqing's mother, the two secretly ran to the United States to register for marriage.
In this way, Yi Nengjing married Yu Chengqing without a wedding, no wedding ring, and no family blessings. Qin Hao, who was far away in Beijing that year, had just graduated from the Central Academy of Drama.
In the second year after their marriage, Yi Nengjing was promoted to motherhood and gave birth to a son Yu Enli for Yu Chengqing.
In 1994, Yi Nengjing turned to the mainland to develop, where she met the director Hou Xiaoxian.
Later, she starred in the film "Good Man and Good Woman" directed by Hou Xiaoxian, and Yi Nengjing was also nominated for the Best Actress of the Taiwan Golden Horse Awards for this film, and she also successfully entered the Chinese showbiz circle.
Since then, Yi Nengjing and director Hou Xiaoxian have cooperated in two films, namely "Goodbye to the Southern Kingdom, Southern Kingdom" and "Sea Flower".
In 1997, Yi Nengjing won the "Best Actress Nomination at the 34th Taiwan Golden Horse Awards" for the movie "National Highway Closed".
In 2008, Yi Nengjing established the "Childhood Dream Era" film studio as a producer and screenwriter in the movie "Love Call Transfer II: Love Left and Right", and the film has also achieved great success after the broadcast.
The so-called "popularity is not much", Yi Nengjing, who is in the rising period of her career, was exposed to be an intimate photo of holding hands with Huang Weide on the streets of Beijing this year, and the news of "Yi Nengjing's marriage cheating" came to the forefront, and For a time Yi Nengjing was pushed to the cusp of the storm.
The "male protagonist" Huang Weide in the photo also removed himself from it at the first time, saying that the two held hands because Yi Nengjing took the initiative to reach over and hold himself. Affected by this incident, Huang Weide can only play some supporting roles in the entertainment industry now.
For a time, Yi Nengjing became the object of insults on the whole network, although she had come forward to say that she was not unfaithful to her marriage, and the insults still did not decrease.
The news of "marital infidelity" also overwhelmed Yi Neng's breathlessness, and even when she slept at night, she could always hear the voice of someone scolding her in her ear, suffering from severe insomnia.
For Yi Nengjing's "cheating" incident this time, Yu Chengqing absolutely believed in his wife, and said that even if the matter was true, he would choose to forgive her, because the two people were together because they loved each other, and this love was mutual.
Although Yu Chengqing believed in himself, his mother-in-law was convinced of the news events, plus Yu Chengqing's mother-in-law did not like Yi Nengjing.
This matter also broke out completely, and there was no good face for Yi Nengjing all day. The mother-in-law's dislike has also become one of the reasons why Yi Nengjing wants a divorce.
In 2009, Yi Nengjing issued a divorce statement through Huayi Brothers, indicating that she signed an agreement with Yu Chengqing to end their marriage relationship.
Afterwards, Yi Nengjing also said that when a woman wants to end a 22-year marriage, it must not be an impulsive and hasty decision, and the love between the two is not enough to support the family, and she does not want to lose herself because of it.
Yi Nengjing and Yu Chengqing's divorce does not have the quarrels and discord of other star couples, the two are separated peacefully, and they never say bad things about each other in public.
Perhaps this is the last decency of the two, after the divorce, Yu Chengqing married Taiwanese anchor Zhang Jiaxin in 2016, and the two have a pair of children.
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After experiencing the baptism of a failed wedding, Yi Nengjing thought that she was going to spend the rest of her life alone like this, and Qin Hao broke into her life like this.
Qin Hao was born in 1978, ten years younger than Yi Nengjing, in 2000, the year Yi Nengjing got married, Qin Hao just graduated from Chinese opera, and after graduation, Qin Hao has always taken the "literary and artistic youth" route.
The two first met in the "Rock Hero" crew, it is said that Qin Hao liked to listen to Yi Nengjing's songs when he was nine years old, and he also bought Yi Nengjing's albums.
Seeing the idol of his childhood could not help but be excited, and qin Hao was attracted to Yi Nengjing with just one glance, so he launched a fierce pursuit of Yi Nengjing. However, because of her childhood experience and failed marriage, Yi Nengjing developed a fear of feelings.
In the face of Qin Hao's fierce pursuit, Yi Nengjing also gradually fell, and finally she said to Qin Hao, "It is okay to fall in love, but we must get married first." Qin Hao, who heard this news, was shocked,
But he wanted to be with Yi Nengjing again, so Qin Hao proposed to Yi Nengjing in Turkey.
The two quickly established a relationship, and in 2015, the 47-year-old Yi Nengjing held an island wedding on the beach in Phuket, and the two completed the wedding in the presence of relatives and friends of both sides.
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Yi Nengjing and Qin Hao are 10 years apart, such a large age gap, it is reasonable to say that qin Hao's family should be opposed, originally thought that Yi Nengjing would be again attacked by her mother-in-law, the fact is that Yi Nengjing and her mother-in-law get along very well.
According to Yi Nengjing herself, when she first returned to her hometown of Shenyang with Qin Hao, Qin Hao's family liked her very much, and the whole family of more than a dozen people moved out to be very good to her.
Qin Hao's mother is even better than her own son, and in the variety show "Mother-in-law and Mother", she saw that Yi Nengjing was depressed because Qin Hao did not know how to express her mood.
He educated Qin Hao, constantly creating opportunities for the two to reconcile, and the words of praise for yi nengjing's cooking were constantly exported, giving Yi Nengjing enough face.
Mother-in-law is good to himself, Yi Nengjing is also filial to her mother-in-law, the mother-in-law goes out alone, will keep staring at the mobile phone, worried that the mother-in-law will get lost, considering that his knees are not good, can not carry the items, non-stop chanting, words are full of concern and concern for the mother-in-law.
When eating, I saw that my mother-in-law's appetite was not good, considering that the meal was not appetizing, I immediately put down the dishes and chopsticks to make a new meal for my mother-in-law.
Yi Nengjing not only takes good care of her mother-in-law's life, but when she encounters a mother-in-law who accidentally echoes the sensitive topic of other couples having children in the program, Yi Nengjing first stopped her mother-in-law from speaking.
Later, he poured a glass of water for his mother-in-law, explaining why he had just interrupted her mother-in-law's speech and told the "child" that it was someone else's family affair, that we had not experienced it, and that what she said would not necessarily hurt either side.
There was no reproach for the mother-in-law's just wrong behavior in his words, which gave the mother-in-law enough face.
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Yi Nengjing is a caring "little cotton jacket" in front of her mother-in-law, but in front of Qin Hao, she is a "small craftsman", one of the two is a northeast master, and the other is a weak girl in Taiwan. The extreme geographical differences and living habits of the two people inevitably lead to contradictions in life.
As the saying goes, "a woman is the best life", the two quarrel, Yi Nengjing can easily resolve every time, every time it is Yi Nengjing who admits her mistake first, she said: "There will always be a day when the two are together, so it doesn't matter who admits the mistake first, as long as it can be reconciled."
I have to say that her confession of mistakes was very effective for Qin Hao and successfully resolved the contradiction between the two.
Although Yi Nengjing was a small masterpiece for Qin Hao in life, he gave him great help in Qin Hao's career, Qin Hao made his debut in "literary and art films", but Qin Hao did not have much fame in the entertainment circle at that time.
When he doubted himself and his career was at a low point, Yi Nengjing said to Qin Hao, "Believe me you are the best, we must shine together, don't worry that the era that belongs to you will definitely come."
In 2020, Qin Hao became a household actor with the role of Zhang Dongsheng in "The Hidden Corner", and his acting skills were also recognized by the public.
In addition to her affirmation and encouragement in her career, Yi Nengjing also gave birth to a daughter for Qin Hao, "Millet Grain". When the two were first together, Yi Nengjing asked Qin Hao, "What if you can't have children?"
Qin Hao's answer at that time was "If you can't be born, forget it."
When the two got married, Yi Nengjing did not have parents to go to give a speech, Qin Hao asked Yi Nengjing's son to go up and speak, he said, "He is your son, that is also my son", for the child Qin Hao likes, but he does not force it.
For Qin Hao, who can accept all of herself, Yi Nengjing is moved, so at the age of 48, she risked herself to overcome the difficulties of the elderly mother and gave birth to Qin Hao's "little lover in the past life". Since then, the two have interacted with each other from time to time on Weibo to show their love, making everyone shout envy.
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At the age of 18, he met Yu Chengqing, a musical talent who was 8 years older than himself,
The two fell in love for 22 years and finally ended in divorce,
At the age of 47, he married Qin Hao, the son of true destiny who was ten years younger than himself,
Yi Nengjing's life has experienced a tragic childhood, a failed marriage,
Now she is favored by Qin Hao as the "little princess" of the family,
Husband and wife love, family happiness and harmony,
Perhaps this is the "home" that Yi Nengjing wanted when she was a child.