Keywords: Hint that I want to dress up more
Hello Doll Sister! Boyfriend academic work are better than me, family conditions and I are similar, I 26 he 30 we blind date at first glance is very satisfied with him think I am very beautiful, and then contact in the he has been tempting me, such as looking at my mobile phone to try my reaction. It also implies that I have to dress myself more, now the relationship is just dating to hold hands, usually send WeChat rarely send him messages sometimes perfunctory and sometimes warm, feel spared, because I am old enough to want to seize the opportunity! Not sure what to do next.
Wawa's answer
When dealing with emotional issues, the first principle to be observed is: don't treat the other person as a fool.
"I'm old enough to take my chance!" Wouldn't this guy know what you're thinking? He just ate this point before he dared to be lukewarm to you. If you were 22 today, he would definitely pursue you violently because you have more choices and are afraid that you will be snatched away by others.
Therefore, through this question, I want to exhort all the little fairies: young is indeed the capital of girls, but the realization of this capital is time-sensitive, so it is better for girls to marry and have children earlier than later.
"Look at my phone to try my reaction", this is not a test of you, he just wants to see if your PU is low, will it be easy to get angry; "hint that I want to dress myself more", indicating that your MV is not high enough to trap him as soon as possible.
And be sure not to take the initiative to send messages to each other, "usually send WeChat rarely send him messages and sometimes perfunctory and sometimes warm", which will show that your demand is too high, which is a negative behavior that pulls down your MV.
This boy is still generally satisfied with you, but your MV is not high enough to make him want to hurry up and settle down with you, and his lukewarm attitude now shows that he is likely to have other girls to choose from, so if you want to grasp his words, you must start from two aspects, one is to increase the MV, the other is to reduce the PU, it is difficult to find other particularly good ways.
Speaking of this, the little assistant asked: "Two people like this have just met each other, what should I pay attention to when lowering the PU?" ”
Be careful not to lower the PU too much, especially in the case of boys' conditions slightly better than girls, direct PU lowering is very likely to enter the big room mode. Therefore, we must pay attention to the side communication, through the construction of the circle of friends, to let the other party feel that you are a person with a very regular life.
A person's temperance is closely related to his life and emotional situation, and it is consistent that a person who pays special attention to his body will not at the same time particularly like to smoke, drink, stay up late and gamble. Living your life a little more exciting, presenting it in the circle of friends (don't send photos of men) is a very good way to highlight low PU.
Explanation of terms:
PU, Paternity uncertainty, refers to parent-child uncertainty, which is a man's sense of uncertainty about offspring.
Because a woman can be 100% sure that the child in her belly is her own, but a man can never be 100% sure that the child born to this woman is her own. This sense of uncertainty forms the cornerstone of the entire male psyche, making them very different from women.
ayawawa
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Female intimate mate selection consultant, love risk control expert.
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