Childhood anecdotes are as beautiful and charming as the stars in the sky, as beautiful and charming as the waves of the sea. Looking back on the past, even I can't help but...
It is not until adulthood that we begin to slowly reminisce about childhood. Childhood is also the happiest time in a person's life, laughing when happy, crying when unhappy, not caring about the family, and even parents will use all kinds of ways to make us happy.
It is not until we become adults that we find that there are too many last resorts in society, and in order to reassure our parents, we will tell a lot of white lies to reassure them.
It turns out that when we were young, we also let our parents break their hearts, and now we want to reassure our parents in turn, which is the best reward for them.
When we were teenagers, we were very tired of home, we would try everything to leave home, and now we have become big children who can't live without home, and the original home can make us more down-to-earth.
Now even if the work is busy, important holidays will take time off to return home, see the old house at home, and see the parents at home will be very satisfied.
Even if our words are mixed with some white lies, we will definitely say to our parents that we are not busy at work recently, money can be earned slowly, and it is more important to go home with our parents, in fact, our parents will be more at ease when they see us.
When we were teenagers, we would also rack our brains to ask our parents for money for an item, and at that time we didn't know that money was not easy to come by, and now we have become budget-conscious parents.
We understood that at that time, our parents were not cut, life was not easy, chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea was exchanged for money. Now if our parents ask us if we have any money and do we need help, I believe everyone will say yes, because we also want our parents to live a little better.
When I was a teenager, I wanted to eat out every day, and I felt that it was very face-saving and free. Nowadays, when we enter the society, we miss the food at home, and every time we video chat to see the food on the parents' table, we will miss it very much, and it is very homely.
Now that I think about this, I feel very ignorant, and I have never been considerate of my parents' good intentions. Now even if we have suffered a lot outside, we are reluctant to mention it to our families, believing that when we become adults, we will report good news and no worries to our families, because we are doing this to make our parents feel at ease.
Sometimes we send circles of friends and often block our parents, mainly because we don't want our parents to see our embarrassing side, so that they don't have to worry about it.
Now I understand that parents are the same, are thinking about the children, as long as the children are a little uncomfortable, or encounter a little difficulty in life and learning, parents are very heart-wrenching, will try to solve for you.
It's just that when we were teenagers, we didn't know the good intentions of our parents, but we hurt our parents again and again, and now we think about it very much, and now we have to use these white lies to make up for it, and after marriage, we know that it is not easy to be a parent.
Once a colleague worked late overtime and suddenly said that he wanted to eat noodles from his hometown, so he couldn't help but send a circle of friends, and the result was that it was deleted in less than five minutes.
I was curious to ask him why he suddenly deleted the circle of friends? He only said that he did not want his parents to worry, if parents who are thousands of miles away see their children send such a circle of friends, their hearts must be very anxious, I am afraid that it is another sleepless night.
Such an answer makes people feel sour, aren't we all like this? Sometimes you can only use white lies to cover up your true feelings, just to keep your parents from worrying.
When we become adults, we want to send a circle of friends to vent the emotions in our hearts, and we will be cautious, for fear of being seen by our parents and anxious.
Over the years we have told too many lies to our parents, but these are acts of kindness, parents have worked hard for us for half a lifetime, and now that our children have grown up, we must let our parents live at ease, and these white lies will surely become the most sincere transmission of love between parents and children.
Therefore, a white lie is not only a kind of self-use of lies to maintain decency, but also a kind of love and giving back.