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Recently, I was chasing a TV series, writing the story of several small families that happened in a courtyard in Beijing before and after the reform and opening up, and these families all worked in the same factory, and the intertwining of various characters and things, career and love, family affection and humanity were vividly portrayed.
The male protagonist Silly Pillar, whose real name is He Yuzhu, is a cook of a state-owned unit, usually looks very grinning, in fact, he is particularly wise in doing things, everyone calls him Silly Pillar, probably the appearance of his great wisdom and foolishness.
In the whole courtyard, this stupid pillar is the kindest, helping the widow next door with three children and an old man to take care of the widowed grandmother in the courtyard. People look like they are screaming, doing things, coming up with ideas, but they are very reliable.
The first half of the story, are stupid pillars looking for a daughter-in-law, it is difficult to meet a beloved person, the two also decided to get married, but the other party fell into difficulty to go to Hong Kong, and finally decided to live with the widow next door, but also determined that they really like each other, and was stopped again and again, and finally dragged on for eight years, and finally cultivated the right results.
The three children of the widow's family, under the care of Silly Pillar for many years, regarded him as a father. After living a stable life and enjoying it for a few years, the old lover who wanted to marry but had to be separated returned and brought back one of his sons.
He never thought that God would suddenly give him a teenager's own son, and he was simply happy, staring at his son all the time, and his neighbors also said that it was exactly the same as when he was a child, too similar.
When he was overwhelmed, he was busy making food for his son, busy raising his eyebrows and breathing for himself, and loudly declaring that he was not a desperate family. Forget the feelings of a wife who has already received a license.
Admittedly, in my opinion, the widow of that year had her selfish side, such as the stability of her whole family was the blessing of the silly pillar, two of the houses where the children lived were stupid, the silly pillar had an iron rice bowl and was very good at cooking, and the money earned by the wife was all put away and kept to add a dowry to the children.
For silly pillars to open a restaurant dream, but never thought of taking money out to support.
Silly pillar is not really stupid, but people are more kind, heavy on love, heavy on feelings, not serious things to play a haha on the past.
The old lover of the past returned, and various hints were that they wanted to open a restaurant for him, and they also wanted to re-establish a family with him. More importantly, the other party is a big miss of a capitalist, who went to Hong Kong and went to university, divorced her ex-husband and got a large share of the property. Whether it is vision or dress, temperament, etc., it is unmatched by the current wife.
Silly Pillar had his hesitation, both sides wanted, but did not want to be the ruthless and unjust person who abandoned his wife and son, after all, this surprise came too suddenly, and after he was too happy, he was stimulated by the current situation of the neighbors in the courtyard who had made a fortune in business.
I haven't seen where it will go in the end, but what can be seen from this plot is that the world of men is never just wives and women. Just like Zhang Ailing said about red roses and white roses.
In a man's life, even if he marries a wife, there will still be two women in his world, and the second is his true love.
Chatting with friends, she said that a friend who is very well married often dislikes her husband, but everyone thinks that her husband is already very good, and she is too demanding.
I said, "There will definitely be demands, the more the merrier." Human nature is that as long as you get and have it, you will be disgusted, just like Eason Chan sang in the song: what you can't get is always in turmoil, and those who are favored have no fear. For most girls, no matter who you marry, you will regret it in the end, and the men who marry their daughters-in-law are estimated to be the same. Just like youth, no matter how we spend it, we will have regrets in the end. ”
I once couldn't figure out a question, why in the minds of men, first love is always better than wife? The answers of the three women are realistic and heartfelt, and the touch of the heart cannot be forgotten to this day.
A woman said: "Husband and wife are used to the days of chai rice oil and salt, raising children, rushing to work, mother-in-law relationship and other trivialities, gradually let men feel that the wife is not cute, in fact, when talking about love, they do not think that the wife is good anywhere, and then the years have worn into the current appearance, men naturally miss the appearance of the first love that will always be pure white and innocent and lovely." In fact, if you marry your first love, they will eventually dislike it. ”
Another woman said: "Of course, the first love is good, often the one that is not obtained, in people's hearts are the best one, after all, people's nature is to get it is not so precious, daily relationships are inevitable to quarrel, although the feelings between husband and wife are deep, it is inevitable to complain about how the people around them have become like this, but they don't want to think, why did she become like this?" ”
The third woman said: "I have really seen women who have a stronger girlish atmosphere after marriage, but there must be good enough conditions, such as not worrying about the house and the car, not worrying about money, when people no longer have to rush and worry about life, everything will naturally be fine." It's just that many men forget how grateful he is to his wife for being willing to bear the mortgage pressure with him when he first got married, and to suffer with him step by step from scratch. ”
After all, in the feelings of the two sexes, if the person who can cultivate the right result is not a man with excellent earning ability and a good family, it must be to know how to perceive women's emotions and give a lot of security and companionship in life.
Although men are chattering about the goodness of their first love, the appearance and temperament of their former lovers are indeed stuck in that stage of love forever because they have not lived together.
But women have to admit that the person the man has been accompanying and giving, is you, is his wife. The more society develops, although there are many things that destroy the three views, most men are very family-oriented.
As the saying goes, where a man's time is spent, where the money is spent, his heart is also there. For every man in a small family, the dream is nothing more than a hot kiln for his wife and children, and the family will live a peaceful and stable life.
Occasionally, if you talk about saying better things about your first love, it is just a remembrance of youth and want to make your wife jealous.
Companionship is the longest love farewell, even if the first love is the best, sleeping next to him, living with him and having children, and dreaming of the future with him in the twilight, are all you, are men's wives. Only the wife is the true love of a man.
After all, those things that live in imagination and memory are not real or credible, so they should be addicted to it, not enough to calculate.
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