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People have desires!
When a person reaches a certain height, his desire will be even stronger. Because they stand tall and look far, they will skillfully use the means of achieving their desires.
Moreover, in the process of achieving desire, anyone may become a pawn of their own, and anything will be a must before the ultimate goal is achieved.
However, no matter what the height of a person's reach, the lack of self-control of desire is a rapid self-destruction with no chance to turn back.
In "Snail Dwelling", song Siming, a prominent nobleman who desires a strong man, his wife is just the most "obedient" "pawn" achieved by his selfish desires before and after his rise! His selfishness is more than just "betrayal"!
People rise up in middle age, sitting on the magnates and full of gold and silver. At this time, if the man does not understand what satisfaction is, he will never look back on the road of greed.
The red flag at home does not fall, and the bunting flag flutters outside... Achievements have been achieved, materials have been, and the woman they want is clearly displayed, which should be the high-level pursuit of most "Song Siming" who betrayed their marriages.
Therefore, the middle-aged Song Simings completely broke away from the track of morality and responsibility, and galloped on personal desires.
In "Snail Residence", Song Siming finally got off the horse because of greed! Before the worst came, he said to his wife:
"I want to come and go, and the only person I can trust and please in my life is you." She was pregnant, a boy... Can you... This is the only male member of our Song family..."
Song Siming, at this moment, the "conscience" finally has it, but it has nothing to do with Mrs. Song!
Song Siming not only betrayed his wife, but also wanted the woman outside to conceive the "only man in the Song family", and then when he was most helpless, he remembered his wife and asked her to take care of the child born with another woman for herself...
The reason why Song Siming first put on the top hat and then "please" his wife is nothing more than that he thinks that his wife is "too good to bully"!
When he betrayed his wife, he said to her: You are Mrs. Song, and no one can replace you!
Guo Seaweed on the left, Mrs. Song on the right... Song Siming, who effortlessly wanders between two women, can conquer two women with "personal charm" and can "call the wind and rain" in his career, this sense of accomplishment is so satisfying to him.
It's just that he never wanted to be responsible for anyone. Including his hard-won career, including Guo Haiweed, including his wife...
Song Siming's selfishness is far beyond people's imagination!
At work, he was overconfident in his "strategizing" and finally moved a stone and smashed everything about himself, including his life.
Emotionally, he cares too much about his own possessiveness and conquest, and in the end both women bear too much pain for him.
Guo Haizao enjoys all of Song Siming's needs, and she thinks this is happiness. I don't even want a name, so I am willing to get pregnant for Song Siming. And Song Siming's love for her is just a "concubine" that cannot be recognized, and her child will only be an "illegitimate" child who has been poked in the spine in the future.
Song Siming's love is so dark and small, but Guo Haiweed is really self-inflicted, and he doesn't say much.
But Mrs. Song, it is really uncomfortable. From beginning to end, Song Siming never really respected her, loved her, and even "used" her like a pawn.
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The guilt of betrayal is because of the cowardice of eating his wife!
Mrs. Song and Song Siming came all the way, from being overstretched to sitting on the luxury, Mrs. Song's "old mother" generally took care of Song Siming and everything in his family. Even when it is time to "enjoy the blessings", Mrs. Song has never been willing to spend a penny, tight clothing and food, every day except for the children in her eyes are the rags and mops in her hands...
Obviously, he can afford to live in a good house, but he does not dare to show his wealth for the sake of her husband's future, so she can only walk in the dilapidated house with the creak of the floor. Obviously, you can maintain your beauty, but you think of your husband's hard work, and you are not willing to spend for yourself!
Along the way, Mrs. Song has never had any complaints, and she is always sensible and intimate, so she is accustomed to Song Siming's "contrarian" husband.
Even betrayal is so grandiose – me and she are just playing a trick!
Why make a scene?
In fact, even he himself understood that his wife would not believe these words. But he still said that he just wanted to use the fastest way to solve the twisted cry of his wife that he was most reluctant to face.
Song Siming, eating the wife will not be divorced in the eyes of the heart. Because he knows better than anyone how deeply his wife loves himself, otherwise in more than ten years of conjugal life, his wife would not be so "hard-working and complaining".
Song Siming, eating his wife will not set off bigger waves. Because he knows better than anyone that his wife cares about the psychological feelings of her children and the home she has worked hard to run.
Song Siming, the place where he deceived people too much, was that after the betrayal, he brazenly let his wife and Guo Haiweed rotate "to have themselves".
Mrs. Song's cowardice is vulnerable! Just a look and a word from Song Siming, she can compromise immediately!
Please ask your wife to take care of your own children with other women, it is the kindness of your wife!
The wife of the eminent noble Song Siming must be dignified, decent, and generous! This is an invisible moral kidnapping of his wife after Song Siming ascended to a high position!
Therefore, when Mrs. Song knew of Song Siming's betrayal, she never cried and made trouble like an ordinary middle-aged woman and hanged herself. This is the result of Song Siming's certainty.
In particular, after his own East Window incident, when his heart was on his unborn child, Song Siming asked his wife to take care of his children with other women, and he did not hesitate for a moment.
After more than ten years of being a couple, no one knows his wife better than Song Siming! He was well aware of his wife's forbearance, kindness and virtuousness, and it was precisely because of these that he hurt her without fear.
Moreover, after suffering rejection from his wife, Song Siming gave seaweed and the child in his belly 500W behind his wife's back, and what he thought about most was his own "incense"!
If Seaweed was pregnant with a baby girl, he probably wouldn't have given Seaweed money the slightest thought about a minute or second for his daughter and his legitimate wife!
Mrs. Song's biggest mistake is to tolerate and give in too much in Song Siming. Her experience is uncomfortable, but why doesn't her goodness make people want to give her a slap to wake her up?
Mrs. Song, who has worked hard for more than ten years, after her husband has developed, she even has to deliberately restrain herself from "enjoying happiness" because of her husband's future. Coming, he also fell to the bottom with her husband falling from his horse.
Mrs. Song once seemed very calm and domineering to talk to Guo Haizao, how could it not be her most cowardly behavior? She couldn't do anything except be quick in front of Guo Haizao for a while!
Because, she herself knew that the biggest person responsible was not Guo Haiweed! She knew even more that even if it wasn't Guo Haiweed in front of her, her husband would have other women!
However, she had no way to quietly accept the reality, nor could she make a big fuss or do evil deeds against Guo Haiweed, she could only "tentatively" make some small moves, cautious and humble.
All this difficulty stems from Song Siming's selfishness!
In Song Siming's selfishness, he uses the "weighing pros and cons" perfectly.
Mrs. Song was the stepping stone of his youth, the green light for him to move smoothly and unimpeded. It is a free nanny who takes care of the elderly and children in middle age.
Guo Haiweed was a stimulant in the second spring of Song Siming's middle age. Let him make up for the shortcomings of his youth, but also fill the passion outside the dull married life of middle age.
There is never a desire in this world to be satisfied at any time without a price. The desire beyond self-control can only make yourself wake up at the last moment, and it is already too late.
When people reach middle age, they will have some past regrets to make up for, and some selfishness will be satisfied, but they must not be driven by desire and forget to examine themselves.
The incontinence of desire and the endlessness of selfishness have become Song Siming's life-telling charms, which should be the loudest alarm bell for too many middle-aged and promising men!
In the relationship between men and women, blindly paying for love and forgetting to love themselves, they will definitely not get the corresponding return.
For women, women who are sober and smart enough will know how to leave blank space for themselves, neither becoming a stepping stone for men to climb, nor will they not know how to stop losses in time when they are deeply hurt.
In the relationship, a woman blindly pays, will spoil the man, and subconsciously think that everything a woman does is justified, hurt the woman, and will also gain without guilt.
I only hope that all women can understand that affection should be left to those who deserve it, and tolerance should be given to those who know how to be grateful. At any time, don't lose to being yourself for a man.
It is not wrong to love someone, but to forget to love yourself in order to love someone is the biggest mistake! Don't use your affection, kindness, and compromise to become a reason for men to hurt themselves more and more.
"You are my husband, what I want is not how beautiful and brilliant you are, how soaring you are, that is all for outsiders to see." All I want is to have a companion when I'm old, and my child has a dad..."
--Mrs. Song
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