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Perhaps many people can hum the lyrics: "There is a kind of love that cries out to let go, to give up for love for a long time." ”
Therefore, leaving is actually a kind of love. Yeah, it's a helpless love.
Friend Ah Gui once gave up on a relationship. That relationship can be said to be the most unforgettable in his life, until now. Originally we thought he was going to come together with the girl. But reality has separated them.
The woman's parents disagreed that the girl was an only child. At that time, the girl said: "I am willing to break off relations with my parents for you." Ah Gui said, "I'm sorry, honey. I love you and can't let you do that. ”
It was Ah Gui who insisted on breaking up. In fact, the girl had deliberately followed him. But his conditions could not be compared with the girl's family situation. Perhaps, this is the biggest reality.
Later the girl married the marriage arranged for her by her parents. After marriage, it is okay to live. But how, Ah Gui does not know.
Maybe many people will say that Ah Gui is stupid. But seriously, we still understand Ah Gui. His family is not very well off, although it is very hard. But maybe after a lifetime of hard work, it will not be able to meet the girl's current conditions.
To be honest, in this case, men will have inferiority. A man loves a woman in the hope of bringing her happiness through his own efforts.
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In the face of such a situation, in addition to choosing to give up, what else can you do?
This kind of departure is actually a kind of love. Since then, Ah Gui has never mentioned this girl in front of us again. He's been working hard. So far, although it is also a small achievement. But he still didn't find a new girlfriend. I don't have any intention of getting married yet.
Perhaps, he still did not let go, and his heart still loved the girl.
The feelings of this world, many times there will be such regrets. It's not that two people who are truly in love end up coming together. Marriage, and love are always different. Marriage, there are many things to consider.
Many times, it may only be for love.
Leaving is actually a kind of love. Perhaps only those who have actually experienced it will appreciate this kind of love. Although many people will say that such a person is too stupid. To say that such a person is too inferior to treat feelings.
Maybe it is, and maybe it is not. Emotional things, many times, in fact, there is no right or wrong.
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People who really love each other don't have to be together. And those who are together may not be truly in love.
Marriage, in fact, is not the same as love. Just like Ah Gui's girlfriend, she chose the marriage arranged by her parents, isn't it okay? Perhaps, she had already let go. It's just that Ah Gui hasn't let go yet.
And Ah Gui's departure is actually a kind of love. I believe that the girl can also feel it.
Many times, it's not about not loving. Rather, the reality is so helpless. We can't choose what we want. The things of this world are such helplessness.
Therefore, when faced with this helpless feeling. If you make a choice, don't regret it. Since you have chosen to leave, leave this relationship in your heart. In the days to come, we will continue to live. Life is actually very short, and feelings are not the whole of life. At this time, perhaps we should comfort ourselves. Tell yourself that there is still a long way to go.
Since there is no fate for each other, since they choose to leave. Then use this way to continue to love. This kind of love, which is only about oneself, has nothing to do with anyone else. Including the one you love dearly.
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