Text: Li Siyuan Source: Warm Woman
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In life, perhaps everyone has ever met, some kind stranger.
They may only provide you with some, even if it seems to be insignificant care and help, but will bring you great warmth and touch.
Two days ago, there was a well-intentioned act of a bus driver that warmed up to a lot of people.
It turned out that when a girl got into the car, the driver looked through the rearview mirror in the car and observed that the girl's white pants were dyed red.
After repeated confirmations, the driver confirmed that the girl may have come to a "menstrual holiday".
So he immediately unfastened his seat belt, took off his coat, handed it to the girl, and gently reminded the other party.
The girl tied her clothes to herself, said thank you in a row, and waited at this intersection the next day to hand him the washed clothes.
He also wrote a post-it note: "Thank you for the care of the bus master." ”
Many netizens commented that the driver's behavior was too heartwarming.
There are even people who mention that they hope that their daughter can also meet outside, such a kind and good person.
Many times, a person's kindness does not need to be publicized, nor does it need to be deliberately done to do a great good thing.
When you learn to care and love, even those strangers who do not know each other can bring more beauty to the world and pass on more kindness.
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One summer five years ago, I went to a public parking lot to park.
Although I have been getting my driver's license for several years, the technique of reversing is really limited.
It happened that I had a hard time finding an empty space in the crowded parking lot, but when I drove over, I couldn't turn it back.
At that time, I was sweating profusely.
I poured the car in a little bit, and came out a little bit, and the steering wheel hit left and right, and I didn't know what to do.
At this moment, the male driver who was parked next to me, just in the car, saw my expression, and then saw that my car was still there, as if he understood something.
So, suddenly, he drove himself away.
At that time, I was secretly happy, and it was always no problem to reverse with two parking spaces.
When I parked the car, I found the driver, looking for a parking space in a circle in the parking lot, and it turned out that he was afraid of my embarrassment, so when I parked well, he did not come over.
At that moment, I was deeply moved.
Many times, we go to help a person, perhaps without language, without being discovered by the other person, or even without the other person's gratitude.
When you understand and understand others from the bottom of your heart, the kindness of thinking about others will always emit the brightest and warmest light at a certain moment.
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There is a netizen who once told such an experience.
Years ago, when he was collecting tickets at a train station, he found his ID card left in his bedroom and did not bring it.
At that time, he was very anxious, so he immediately called his roommates and asked one of them to help send it over, but it would take about an hour to arrive at the earliest.
At that time, he was so anxious that he was afraid that he would not be able to catch the train home, and when he was anxious, he went to a hamburger shop and ordered a cup of coffee.
At that time, a waiter asked him, coffee with sugar or not? He was stunned for a moment, and replied impatiently, "Don't."
But the waiter immediately looked at him tenderly and said, or add some, when the mood is not good, drinking too bitter is not good.
At that moment, he suddenly smiled and immediately said yes.
In life, we encounter every day, all kinds of small troubles.
When you are not happy, you may only need someone else, give a warm smile, or a kind joke, and it will make you suddenly happy.
Slowly you will find that healing others is a very simple thing.
You only need a little more patience and a little more understanding, which will dissolve the troubles and bitterness in the hearts of others, and also bring good moods and emotions to others.
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In life, perhaps we have received kindness from others every day. Or maybe we've all passed on kindness to others.
This world, precisely because there are countless hearts, as warm as the little sun, has brought us so much, perhaps as fine as particles, but can never forget the beauty of a lifetime.
Maybe this warmth:
Maybe it's when you're waiting for the car in the rain and the stranger next to you is holding up an umbrella toward you.
Maybe it's when you accidentally wrestle, and someone else passes you a pair of hands that pull you.
Maybe it's when you get lost, and the people who pass by take you a long way and finally find the direction and way home.
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I have seen such a passage:
"You have to remember the people who hold umbrellas for you in the heavy rain, the people who help you block out foreign things, the people who silently hold you tight in the dark, the people who make you laugh, the people who chat with you all night,
The people who come to see you in the car, the people who have cried with you, the people who have accompanied you in the hospital, the people who always value you, these people who make up the warmth of your life bit by bit, and it is these warmths that make you a kind person. ”
For the rest of our lives, each of us can become a light that warms others and can be illuminated by more light.
Encourage your friends.
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About the author: Li Siyuan, the new book "Be an Adult Who Can Carry Things" has been officially listed. WeChat public account: Warm Woman (ID: wennuan-312), Sina Weibo: @Drinking Water-Siyuan, columnist.