I have a question for you.
If you are illegitimate, how do you survive?
The answer to this question seems clear, whether there are loving relatives around you or a warm environment, the impact of growth is always there.
Sensitive and suspicious, unconfident, irritable, depressed, avoidant of intimate relationships, unsound personality, incomplete mind.
Even if you are very strong, how should you write the column of parent information? Parents are neither divorced nor without parents.
Panicking and filling out the form and afraid that the teacher will come to you to check, your biological father treats you as an inn, and sees him in a year, which is very few.
Everyone around you is very happy, but none of this happiness is your share, there are so many places called "home".
But none of them are your real home.
If we are illegitimate children, from the moment we are born, we are destined to spend our lives to heal our childhood,
Cure the lack of "illegitimate children".
But what if your father was a star? Your father is the brightest star on the stage, how do you face your father?
I don't know, like the following 7 superstars, they also had illegitimate children when they were young, how can the children grow?
01: Tan Yonglin x Zhu Yongting
When Tan Yonglin was young, her family was poor, but her grandfather was a businessman, and her family was very strict, and if she was slightly naughty, she was served with sticks.
His father, Tan Jiangbai, is a football player, influenced by his father, Tan Yonglin has loved football since he was a child, but he has no son to inherit his father's business.
He wrote in My Football Dad: "Even though I was only one step away from the empty goal, I was able to kick the ball away. ”
Although he has love, he still has a talent, of course, Tan Yonglin is only a love, he has not considered becoming a star.
In 1968, at the age of 18, Tam formed his first band and competed everywhere, but they ran into walls everywhere.
In 1971, the band disbanded, and Tan Yonglin could only postpone his musical dreams, going to the store as a front desk during the day and singing in nightclubs at night.
After 2 years of silence, he still could not resist the dreams and impulses, and at the age of 23, he formed a band again, and this time he was on fire.
Many Chinese New Year's Eve experience in singing at home has greatly improved his singing skills. In 1974, Tam Yonglin successfully signed a contract with PolyGram.
With the support of the record company, Tan Yonglin's road is very smooth, but a good agent is needed behind a successful artist.
Tam Wing Lin's agent was his later first wife, Yang Jiewei. Yang Jiewei met him at a nightclub, and before signing a contract with PolyGram, Yang Jiewei resigned and devoted herself to Tan Yonglin's career.
Tan Yonglin is responsible for singing, other advertising, venue, modeling, negotiation, public relations these details, are Yang Jiewei doing.
In 1981, Tan Yonglin and Yang Jiewei registered their marriage in Las Vegas, but in order not to affect their careers, the two concealed their marriage.
It was not until 1993, when Yang Jiewei lost her father, and the obituary published "Son-in-law Tan Yonglin", that the two made the marriage relationship public.
Yes, there is a third party insertion. In 1991, 41-year-old Tan Yonglin met 19-year-old fan Zhu Yongting, and the two fell in love.
After 5 years of underground love, Zhu Yongting did not want to pass the name, but until 1996, the arrival of the illegitimate child broke the tranquility of all this.
In 1996, Tan Yonglin's illegitimate son Tan Xiaofeng was born, there is no impermeable wall in the world, Yang Jiewei still knows about this matter.
However, she chose to forgive and allowed Tan Yonglin to run on both sides.
Tan Xiaofeng was fortunate and unfortunate, fortunately, after Tan Yonglin's father died in 2006, his mother Zhu Yongting helped him to the right position, and he himself was admitted to Oxford University.
Unfortunately, he has never been able to cross this hurdle in his heart, so he tried his best to avoid his father and the entertainment industry, and after graduation, Tan Xiaofeng chose to work in an overseas game company and lived an ordinary and self-sufficient life.
02: Jackie Chan x Wu Qili
The relationship between Jackie Chan and Wu Qili has been tied together since the "Little Dragon Girl Incident" was exposed, and after this incident was exposed, Jackie Chan left the famous saying: "I am annoyed with the mistakes that men all over the world will make."
This sentence has been ridiculed for twenty years, and if there is no accident, in the future in Jackie Chan's life story, he will still be ridiculed.
But this did not affect Jackie Chan's career, after being born of the "little dragon girl", Jackie Chan flew to the United States to plead guilty to Lin Fengjiao and continue his brilliant life, only Wu Qili was affected.
After Wu Qili gave birth to Wu Zhuolin, Jackie Chan did not recognize this illegitimate daughter, and he did not dare to recognize it, and to admit it was to hurt Lin Fengjiao's ancestral name.
What Jackie Chan can do is to give money, but regardless of family property, but under the premise of having lost her father, Wu Qili has not been able to do a good job as a mother.
After giving birth to Wu Zhuolin, Wu Qili did not take her daughter to live a peaceful life, but was active in the eyes of the media, on the show, shooting magazines, opening painting exhibitions, Wu Zhuolin grew up in criticism from the beginning.
She said she loved her daughter, carried her to the bathroom until she was nine, and helped her get dressed every day until she was 15, but she would be very strict.
Wu Zhuolin was not obedient, so she grabbed and beat it, with a dictionary on her head, and could not fall down, but hit it when it fell. When she was studying, if Wu Zhuolin stayed up late, she took a whip to beat her.
Wu Qili also seems to have never really cared about her daughter, who was bullied at school and even exposed to nearly thirty self-harm scars on her wrists, and she only wrote lightly:
"I really don't know why, maybe it's popular for kids now (cutting their wrists). It wasn't the first time she'd done this, and now it's ok. ”
The absence of the father, the mother should have been the only safe haven, but the mother Wu Qili has always been mentally tense, fighting against the world.
The unresolvable pressure and depression surrounded Wu Qili and also surrounded Wu Zhuolin. From the moment she was born, she was destined to live a difficult life in the bloody storm.
In her growth, she did not experience the full love and acceptance of full of security, without manipulation and control, so now Wu Zhuolin chose to wander, she announced that she came out, escaped from her father, and also fled from her mother.
But she finally found herself.
03: Brilliance Chenyu x Zhang Bichen
Brilliance Yu Zhang Bichen's illegitimate son is probably a boiling noise, everyone knows things, which can only be blamed on the Internet is too developed.
In 2017, Hua Chenyu and Zhang Bichen had a scandal, both of them denied it, repeatedly expressed that they were just good friends, and even in 2018, Zhang Bichen suddenly disappeared in the mainland for a while.
But no one paid attention, until 2021, some netizens broke the news, Brilliance Chenyu with the child in the household registration, soon after, Zhang Bichen posted "Although the two sides have been separated for a long time, but now for the children to work hard to run into each other, so that children feel the love of the family." ”
Hua Chenyu posted: "Hua Hua is currently single, and the two parties will jointly raise children without marriage. ”
Up to now, the child is innocent, and I only hope that the child can have a happy and healthy growth environment and let him grow up soundly.
04: Zhang Tielin x Hou Junjie Zi Xiaomin
There was only one illegitimate son of others, and there were two illegitimate sons of Zhang Tielin, one was the daughter of Hou Junjiesheng, and the other was the son of Zi Xiaominsheng, and this incident was boiling over in the past.
In 1997, after Zhang Tielin returned to China, he starred in "Female Patrol" on the set, he met Hou Junjie, Hou Junjie is the school flower of North Film, the future is unlimited, and people in the circle also praise him.
Zhang Tielin chased after Hou Junjie left and right, and after a while, Hou Junjie's stomach began to, and she went behind the scenes for him, what she wanted was nothing more than a family.
However, Zhang Tielin could not give him. When filming "Huan Zhu Gege", Zhang Tielin and Wang Yaqi passed on a scandal, and Hou Junjie still chose to believe Zhang Tielin and support him.
In April 1999, Hou Junjie gave birth to the child, and Zhang Tielin did not give her any name, Zhang Tielin did not recognize the child, and Hou Junjie only had one child to grow up.
At the end of 2002, Hou Junjie was forced to sue Zhang Tielin in desperation, but the reporter's continuous telephone harassment eventually forced her to withdraw her lawsuit, and she wanted to give the girl a healthy environment to grow up.
But what Hou Junjie couldn't imagine was that Zhang Tielin, who was still fighting a lawsuit, actually had another child at that time.
The child is a student of Zhang Tielin, born of Zi Xiaomin, who is still a sophomore, and Zhang Tielin is a teacher at Jinan University. After giving birth to the child, Zhang Tielin abandoned the mother and son again.
In late December 2002, after Zi Xiaomin gave birth to a child, Zhang Tielin only paid her rent for three years in Beijing and left.
In 2009, a "child-snatching drama" broke out. According to Zi Xiaomin's statement, in August 2009, on her way home, she was dragged into a white van by five prime-age men, and a group of people pulled them into the wilderness.
The child was pulled away by another car, And Zi Xiaomin walked a long way and called the police, but the police said that they could not file a case for investigation on the grounds that "the father took the child" and suggested that Zi Xiaomin take the legal route.
In 2016, Hou Junjie and Zi Xiaomin jointly sued Zhang Tielin, and finally the court ordered Zhang Tielin to compensate him and Hou Junjie's illegitimate daughter 1.98 million yuan in maintenance, and Zhang Tielin had fulfilled the judgment.
It is only a little impersonal that before the verdict of this case, Zhang Tielin asserted that the child was not his own and had asked for a paternity test. When the appraisal results are about to come out, the appraisal is notified to revoke.
This kind of behavior once again deeply hurts the child, the growth of the two children is incomplete after all, and the parents' faults and inactions eventually make the child bear the sins and come to the world with the original sin.
05: Wang Feng x Ge Huijie
Wang Feng's first wife was Qi Dan, a host in Sichuan, but Ge Huijie did not know this. "When I was with Wang Feng, he never carefully said that he had ever married this matter, and I only found out about it once when I occasionally turned over the divorce certificate on the balcony."
Ge Huijie didn't care about this, they were still in love at that time. 2004 was the most important year of Ge Huijie's life, she was adrift for three years and met Wang Feng during the European Championship.
The two fell in love, and Ge Huijie, who was 19 years old, gave birth to a girl for Wang Feng, who said that "At that time, Wang Feng was very solid and definitely wanted me to give birth to a child for him."
Although love has crossed the age, the problem also arises: the young Ge Huijie does not know how to be a good wife and mother.
Ge Huijie said, "I don't deny this, I was more playful at that time, and I didn't care much about children." Then Wang Feng proposed to break up, and their daughter has been raised by Wang Feng's mother.
After the breakup, the two did not see each other until 2013, when Wang Feng announced his love affair with Zhang Ziyi, and Ge Huijie opened fire on Wang Feng on Weibo.
She said bluntly; would you please be truthful? Don't be so hypocritical (again)! Do you remember you took me and my little apple for a paternity test? Wang Feng! I tell you, I'm going to write a song called 'I'm going to hate you so much,' and I'm going to write the facts."
On March 1, 2015, she posted: Are you losing 1 marriage, 2 marriage failures, 3 marriage failures, and are you sloppy and prepared to waste 4 marriages?
Wang Feng still did not respond. Until February 14, 2016, Zhang Ziyi posted a happy photo of her and Wang Feng and her stepdaughter Little Apple celebrating Valentine's Day. Ge Huijie posted again: Why? Take my ex and my kids to bask in happiness? What are you missing?
On the afternoon of February 17, 2016, Wang Feng published a long microblog theory of more than 1,300 words on this matter:
"All along, I have been silent about all your capricious insults and insults, all the fabricated lies, and endured you for a long time.
The reason for all this is that you are Xi Xi's mother, a mother I should respect. Please leave your child with some beauty and a little dignity for yourself. Never hurt my family again!
Please keep this bottom line in mind! All the words spoken to you today are the first and the last!
06: Zhao Wenzhuo
Zhao Wenzhuo was once again on fire, often watching him drag his family with his mouth, but in fact, Zhao Wenzhuo also had an illegitimate son: Zhao Yuanda.
In 2000, when Zhao Wenzhuo began to shift the focus of his career from Hong Kong back to the mainland, after being introduced, he met a Shanghai girl named Xiao Lian, Shuxiang Mendi, who was five years younger than him.
After half a year of love, Xiaolian decided to study abroad, but the relationship between the two remained unchanged, but the story changed in 2002, when Xiaolian gave birth to her son Joseph.
Although Zhao Wenzhuo had not yet given her a name at that time, in the strict sense, Joseph could only be regarded as an illegitimate child, Zhao Wenzhuo was still very happy, and he had thought about marrying her.
However, during the period of childbirth, Zhao Wenzhuo was filming the seventh edition of "Book of Swords and Enmity" in Hengdian, and he had no time to visit Xiao Lian, and it was at this time that the young Xiao Lian changed into postpartum depression.
Suffering from gains and losses, his emotions also became irritable, Xiao Lian in two months after giving birth, Zhao Wenzhuo had taken the mother and son to his residence, but unfortunately, Zhao Wenzhuo still failed to appease Xiao Lian.
Zhao Wenzhuo was not ready to be a good father and a good husband, and Xiao Lian had already bid him farewell to pursue a new life.
Today's fatherly image of Zhao Wenzhuo also comes from that tragic love, but he and Xiaolian's son Zhao Yingda still have a lot less communication, and he has no way to take his illegitimate son home.
Zhao Wenzhuo can only help his son financially, he can not participate in the growth of his childhood, because participation means harm and pain to the existing family, and Zhao Yingda is also using his life to heal his childhood.
07: Qi Qin
When Qi Qinhuo was on fire, there was really no Jay Chou or anything, of course, the two were not the characters of the same era, Qi Qin entered the song world at the age of 19 with a natural golden voice, and two years later, he was conscripted into the army.
During his military service, he met singer Fang Meifang at the Huaguo Hotel in Taipei, and the two soon fell in love and began to live together, and she also gave birth to a child for her, and it was at that time that Qi Qin began to become popular.
After becoming popular, the relationship between Qi Qin and Fang Meifang deteriorated step by step, Fang Meifang was insecure, he was afraid that Qi Qin would fall in love with other women, so she often monitored Qi Qin's every move.
Fang Meifang even threatened Qi Qin, who wanted to break up with suicide, the trust was broken, the contradictions intensified, and finally broke up, after the breakup, Fang Meifang resolutely took away the child.
She changed the child's name to her own surname: Fang Wei. In 2001, the 15th year of Qi Qin's love affair with Wang Zuxian, the two were ready to enter the palace of marriage, but Fang Meifang was angry.
In August 2001, Fang Meifang, in the name of her son, filed a complaint against Qi Qin in court, demanding that Qi Qin pay NT$15 million in maintenance, forcing Qi Qin to go to court with her son.
Qi Qin was in pain, and Wang Zuxian, under tremendous pressure from all sides, canceled his original wedding with Qi Qin.
She sadly told Qi Qin that maybe a year or two, maybe three or five years, before she considered getting married. Qi Qin waited in the midst of loss.
In the end, Qi Qin still did not wait for her marriage to Wang Zuxian, and in the autumn of 2004, Wang Zuxian proposed to Qi Qin to break up.
In 2005, Qi Qin fell ill due to exhaustion and lost his voice. Fang Wei learned about his father's situation from the media, and at the age of 18, he knocked on his father's door, and many years of love and hatred collapsed at that moment.