My father-in-law was a generous peasant man, and there were two opportunities to change his destiny and change his life, once because he had no culture, and once because of his kindness, so he did not jump out of the farm after all, and he was still an ordinary rural man.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >1 The opportunity to get rich is at hand, but there must be rules for being a person</h1>
About the time of the nineties, our place, there is a special kind of prosperity, because there are mines.
My father-in-law worked for a private company boss. The boss appreciates him very much, because in addition to his strong business ability, the important thing is to be generous. At that time, it was also the most brilliant time for his father-in-law, and as the captain of the well, he had dozens of people under him. The authority given to him by the boss is also very large, and the procurement and maintenance are directly responsible for him.
From the eyes of others, he was in the place where the oil and water were at its most abundant.
One of his colleagues, who was also a captain, worked for a few years and became the richest man in a village. The so-called fortune is nothing more than a kickback in the process of procurement and maintenance. At that time, the average person's salary was about one hundred and ten yuan, but their salary could exceed a thousand. When taking kickbacks, hundreds of thousands of yuan, in the eyes of the boss is nothing, turn a blind eye, because that is the norm, as long as the heart is not too fierce. Work for a few years, use their own ability and accumulated funds to contract mines by themselves, if not too bad luck, generally can earn hundreds of thousands.
What about your father-in-law? He didn't, he felt, since the boss trusted him, he had to be worthy of the boss, and if he could save the boss, he had to give it to the boss. One year, the boss directly bought a large color TV and sent it to his home to show his gratitude. Their family was the first family in the village to have a TV, and it started directly with color TV.
Although my father-in-law did not make a fortune from mining, word of mouth is well known in the industry. When my father-in-law later returned home to work as a farmer, it was two thousand years later, and many bosses came to him and asked him to take charge of the mine work.
People love money, but they have a way to get it. Although my father-in-law was not literate, he was the best practitioner.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" >2 Even if he had a primary school education, he would no longer be a farmer</h1>
People who have met their father-in-law may have a hard time believing that he almost became an employee of a state-owned enterprise and would be a director.
My father-in-law was one of the first migrant workers to be recruited by a state-owned enterprise and signed a contract for more than nine years. Because I am competent and have the atmosphere of a man, I have improved quite quickly. From the general employee of the mine, in just a few years, becomes the manager of an independent mine.
Father-in-law, one is a person with a big heart, the second is to see things far and not to be careful, the third is to have high emotional intelligence and know how to get along with people, and the fourth is to have principles in the face of major right and wrong, and he knows how to be flexible in aspects that have nothing to do with principles, so he is deeply loved by his group of people. Because it is not calculated, can suffer losses, and has principles, the factory also appreciates it.
If you think that generous people are rigid, you are wrong, your father-in-law actually sometimes likes to joke with others, and his mind is always more open,—— can tolerate others.
When he was almost ten years old, the factory decided to regularize him, and he was the director of production. Ten years later, I also went there to work, and found that being a director in that factory not only had a high salary, but also a low level, and the director was below the section leader, and the section chief was below the squad leader; and what about the director above? It's the factory director.
However, in the end, because my father-in-law could not read and could not write, fate did not follow the established track.
Returning to the peasants, my father-in-law did not complain about the world, nor did he swing in front of the peasant friends: I almost turned into a regular worker, and I was still the director.
What is the Destiny of Heaven? I think, like my father-in-law, no matter what I encounter in my life, I always live a positive and optimistic life.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >3 Good neighbors who respond to every need, are generous and never cherish their strength</h1>
Sometimes I go home and my father-in-law is not there. Asked the mother-in-law, said that it was for so-and-so to help.
In fact, many times, I have a nasty dislike for this neighbor!
My father-in-law loves to help, and he really helps, and he doesn't care about his strength. My father-in-law said that I could use up my strength. An old aunt on the other side of the river also often said to me: Your father is really a good person, it is too hard, today this call to help, tomorrow that call to help, in the future, you can be more filial to him.
After my father-in-law returned to the peasants, he cultivated the land, planted seedlings, and threshed, and all these agricultural tasks were still practiced. Later, building bumps, bricks, pavements, and some new crafts began to become more and more proficient. Everyone likes to ask him to help, nothing more, good craftsmanship, practical work. In stark contrast to him, there is a man on the other side of the river, when working, one moment to smoke, one moment to drink water, one moment to run a toilet, one moment to drink tired to rest, when others ask his family to help, generally do not call him, directly call him wife, because I think he is blocking the way, affecting the work.
My father-in-law later had a heart attack and had to carry it over. We often remind us not to go to work, but to go for a walk when there is nothing to do; I really can't stay idle, just plant a small dish. Then, the villagers seemed to get used to their father-in-law's craftsmanship and attitude, and still often asked him to help. Oh, it's hard to put into words.
If there is a conflict in the family, they will always ask the father-in-law to preside over justice, as if only he comes forward, things can be resolved fairly and reasonably.
Tao Li does not speak, and the next is a mystery. Instead of words and deeds, it is better to do practical work, and it is probably someone like my father-in-law.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >4 There is a father who is an official, and many times it is not easy to be a son</h1>
My father-in-law's father, who went to primary school, later became a soldier, then joined the United States to aid Korea, returned to his hometown for a few days as a farmer, and then went to work in the commune at that time, once served as the township chief of the township under the district at that time, and finally retired in a town.
Because of the extraordinary experience, and is a rare retired cadre in the village, and is still a retired cadre who has been a township chief, his cognition will always be different from ours, coupled with the age gap.
When his wife's cousin was young and ignorant, he once had a big fight with the old lady, even to the point of pulling a bench. If it were not for the presence of his father-in-law at that time, the consequences could be imagined. After the old lady's death, the fourth uncle mentioned his father, and there were still many dissatisfactions. When I first arrived at his house, I was not very speculative in my temper, and for a while we were even the most familiar strangers.
The old lady had the pride of the old lady, but his pride made the whole village feel a kind of estrangement from him, including his children, and the father-in-law was probably an exception.
When my father-in-law was young, my father was not at home for many years, and his grandmother was sent away by his service. When he reached old age, he began to serve his father again.
In fact, the old lady's heart is kind, may experience different eras, experience different things, in different positions, so integration is a very difficult thing. When the family was separated, the old lady chose to live with his son, because he knew that this son was not only filial piety, but also importantly, he could tolerate it in character.
In order to miss this son, the old lady gave up working in order to take care of him, and began to save money for this son in her later years, just to let her son not worry too much about money after a hundred years, but also to reduce the burden for her granddaughter and granddaughter-in-law.
Those who suffer losses are always blessed. This is well demonstrated in the father-in-law.
My father-in-law, although he did not rush out of the dragon gate, let me understand: although it is difficult to change my destiny without culture, my generous personality can warm life.
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