In this life, all the roads traveled and the things that have been experienced will become the past.
Everything will pass, with the passage of time, a lot of people, many things, we will no longer remember, as if we have never experienced it at all, but there are always some people, and so many things, time can not let us forget.
Day by day, memories not only do not blur memories, but they only make everything clearer and clearer.
It's not that the memory is too good, but that the past is too memorable and is destined to become the scenery of our lives.
Speaking of which, whether you miss someone or always think about something, it's nothing.
We can think that let those experiences become the spice of life, but at the same time, we still don't have to worry too much, let the past delay the present and the future, and learn to let go.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="13" > let go of unwillingness and accept the fact of separation. </h1>
When we are together, people often have no fear, do not know how to cherish each other, and do not feel that they will lose.
When one day, we really broke up with each other, looking back on the past again, knowing that it was over, but we would still easily become particularly unwilling, always feeling that each other should not end like this, and there was still a lot of attachment in our hearts, and a lot of anger.
As a result, some of those emotions not only did not gradually disappear later, but only became more and more impossible to breathe.
We always hope that we can have the opportunity to start again, to make up for it in the future, but we never get that opportunity, so we have been trapped in this, and there is always no way to get out.
Come to think of it, not willing to accept a relationship, it is because they still have attachments, and in fact, no matter what kind of obsession, there is no meaning, rather than always thinking about it, we should accept the reality that the other party has already left.
The more unwilling we are, the more messy we will be, always because that person affects life and mood, a moment to see away, no matter what kind of past, we can also become light, which is definitely a good thing for ourselves.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="66" > let go of curiosity about him and return to strangers. </h1>
For some time, they have been separated for a long time, and there is no longer any intersection, but many people are still quietly paying attention to the dynamics of a person and all the clues as always.
Will go through all the dynamics of the other party, do not leave any traces, will always be in various places, looking for the other party's traces.
Every bit of that person makes us feel curious, we always want to secretly pay attention to everything about each other, even if all this has nothing to do with ourselves, even if the other person's side already has other people.
Silent attention, not disturbed, this seems to be deep love, but in fact it is just trapping yourself in the same place.
A person who has no longer had anything to do with himself, we really don't always have to spend too much energy on each other, that is, in addition to letting yourself always be affected by the mood, there is no way to live well, there is not much meaning.
Since you can't be together, even if you regret it, but you can go through a trip together, it is already enough, and in the future days, let him live his life well, don't have to know whether he's living well or not, and don't have to think how important he is.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="67" > let go of your inner reluctance and love others. </h1>
After experiencing a relationship, some people quickly came out and started a new relationship, and some people have been reluctant for many years, because that person has closed their hearts.
It is indeed very touching to always love only one person and be single-minded about a person, but we really don't need to put in the love and happiness of our lives because of the past.
That man, he only appeared briefly, he was gone, we still have decades of years, and we have a lot of life.
In life, no matter what we have experienced in the past, whether the other party is wrong or whether we have regrets in our hearts, it is not so important, what is important is that in the future days, we must make ourselves happier.
The years are moving forward, and looking back, that should not be our attitude towards life.
In fact, when we look around, the person who remains in the memory, he may not be so good, that past, may not be so brilliant, there will be more good people, waiting for us in front, there are more wonderful stories, waiting to happen.
When we encounter emotional things, we must know how to fight, and in the past, we must also learn to let go.
The people who will be lost are, after all, just passers-by, and it is not worth our excessive time and energy to miss.
Nothing, to let go of a person, that seems to be a kind of lack, will take something away, and when we really let go, we will find that that person can not take away our world at all.
Letting go not only does not make our hearts empty, but it only makes us feel more relaxed.
From now on, no longer missing that person, we will be able to enjoy the current life better, and we can better love another person.
We always have to forget a person, so that we have the strength to let the person who is really right come to our lives.