Zumisina said: "Love is like a long river, while gathering the various tributaries, its river Xiangjiang is getting wider and wider, and the bottom of the river is becoming more and more unfathomable. ”
In this long river of love, we can never guess our hearts. Even if you have a lover around you now, you are not sure that you will not fall in love with other people in the future.
After all, along the way, we will meet all kinds of people, and it is inevitable that we will meet a person who will make our hearts move again.
If a man cannot strengthen his heart, it is easy to shake his heart in love.
For them, in the relationship, generally will meet two women, when meeting the first heartwarming woman, men do not know what love is, in the process of getting along slowly learn how to love, learn to judge what is the real love.
When men do not understand what love is, they will simply think that liking is equal to love.
Oscar Wilde said: "Some people say that women fall in love with their ears. But if a man will have love, he will fall in love with his eyes. ”
For men, when they see a woman, the first impression is definitely what the woman looks like. Seeing a beautiful woman, it will naturally produce some good feelings, and this good feeling will also lead men to take the initiative to talk to women.
In such a situation, in fact, men have not thought about what is true love, and they feel that as long as they have a certain good feeling for this woman, they have already moved their hearts for this woman. Men simply think like this, and then they take the initiative to get close to this woman and create opportunities to get along with this woman.
Even if the two start a relationship, it does not necessarily mean that the man is truly in love with this woman. Like and love is actually a big difference, like a person, that is, when together will feel very happy, but also very much look forward to the next meeting.
And loving someone, whether the two are happy together or not, will want to be with this person, even if the pain will be willing to bear.
Many times, when men meet the first woman who is passionate, they actually just like it. It's just that men don't make a clear distinction between like and love, so they simply think that this like is love, so they treat it as love.
In the process of falling in love, men continue to feel this "like", and they understand what love really feels like.
Montaigne said, "Whoever loves according to the rules will not receive love." ”
When men first like a person, they don't know how to face it, and they will treat this feeling according to the experience of others.
True love is actually not to learn from others, as long as you really love a person, you will naturally take the initiative to understand each other, to pay for each other, and to spend time to make each other happy.
If you don't love someone so much, you naturally don't know how to treat it, so you can only rely on the experience of others and love someone according to the regulations. Such a way of love, over time, everyone will feel bored, feel that love is not warm enough, not like their own fantasies.
In the time of getting along again and again, men gradually have their own ideas, and finally understand that they just like this woman, not real love at all. Understanding this, men also know what love is and what is the love between the opposite sex.
Having had an emotional experience, I have a deeper understanding of love.
Marlinsky said: "Inexperienced first love is charming, but love that can stand the test is priceless." ”
For men, first love is wonderful, but also the most uncertain. After all, at that time, I didn't have a deep understanding of love, and I didn't know whether liking a person was love or a good feeling between the opposite sex.
We miss our first love, but we think that the feeling is pure, very simple, and we don't think too much about it. This heartbeat comes and goes quickly, so many people's first love is only a short period of time.
Those times were beautiful, but only because I was very ignorant at that time, and I was even more helpless in the face of feelings.
Although this relationship is short-lived, it is also a valuable experience for men. It makes men more aware of what love is; how to manage a love; more aware of their own hearts to judge whether it is love or not.
Because of the beauty of the regrets, men also want to meet a real love, a love that can stand the test. Emotionally, men will be more cautious and more willing to consider future relationships.
Although men often lose their minds in the face of love, before encountering love, men will be very sure what kind of relationship they want to have.
Men often meet two women in their relationships, and these two women also record the emotional growth process of men. For women, although they will hope to be the only woman that men fall in love with, they also hope to be the last woman that men love.
That's why many women will like men who are more mature, because they will be more certain about their hearts and what kind of love they want.
If men are emotionally ignorant, it is likely that they will not be able to distinguish whether they are love or like in their hearts. If you just like it, then it hurts the woman's heart.
Zhang Ailing said: "Maybe every man has had two women like this, at least two." Married to a red rose, over time, the red changed a touch of mosquito blood on the wall, the white is still "the bright moonlight in front of the bed"; married to the white rose, the white is a grain of rice sticky on the clothes, but the red is a cinnabar mole on the heart. ”
In love, men must see their hearts clearly and choose the woman who truly loves. After making a choice, you must strengthen your heart, go down well with your loved ones, and record your true feelings with the years.