In the difficult choice of love and dreams, what is the right pursuit of men? Compared to the special effects and extravagance of current movies, past movies show people more of a real past!

It's a very Chinese film, Chinese people feel extremely shy, and the emotions that have been cultivated by the feudal monarchy farming society for thousands of years are still in their bones.
In a lifetime, you can always block something, and you can always have strong emotions in your life.
Grandma waited for Grandpa all his life, and Dad hated Grandpa all his life. Father and son sat together, neither drinking nor talking. Finally, the father talked about his mother at that time. When someone asked her to press her fingerprint on the divorce papers, she didn't. Then the man forced the mother to press the handprint, and then the mother passed out.
The third grandfather and the grandfather brother sat on the donkey cart. Grandpa said he really envied his third brother so happy. The third grandfather said, I should not think too much about what I have done. I already had to thank God for allowing me to exist in this world. Before leaving, Grandpa Three said it was the last time I would see you. Grandpa said, according to your statement, it is easy to go to Beijing now, Grandpa's words are not finished, the third grandfather said you don't want a sister-in-law, so you can't marry her to me? The only time in my life that I spoke my heart.
This is still true of many family relationships today. Whose family doesn't have such a shadow?
There are such things in Chinese families, you can't be reasonable, you don't have reason. There is such stubbornness in the heart that it is a helpless compromise. This kind of thing is really love-hate.
However, in today's movies, there is very little attention to this kind of thing. Exquisite Chinese emotions such as "Bathing" and "Eating Men and Women" seem to have been labeled in the 90s, and they are gradually moving away from us.
Society is progressing, communication is promoting. The modern girl in Do Not Disturb can talk without hesitation about her likes and dislikes. No matter how short the emotional duration is, the kind of thing that has been waiting for a lifetime will never happen again. Is this a good thing or a bad thing?
Everyone has principles and choices that everyone cannot understand, and a subjective desire for his own expectation that others will understand, but he does not know that this truth is an embarrassing and contradictory self-referent in the eyes of others. It seems that no one is wrong to leave a particular situation, but when placed in a particular situation, it obviously causes a lot of misfortune. Nameless monuments, songs, and the words of an old man with a white beard are all expressions of this contradiction and ineffable. Maybe this is what Hegel called the tragedy of life! Years later, looking at it can still make people feel personal.