Some time ago, the diplomat spoke, and this diplomat was Hua Chunying.
When foreigners ask questions in a very bad tone, Hua Chunying at this time is not in a hurry, but very gently gives the other party an answer. At the same time, with reasoned language in gentleness, the foreigner was dumbfounded.
So sometimes the really powerful person does not say how tough the tone of this person is, nor does it mean that this person has to show it to fight and kill or be hot and furious, and sometimes it is more appropriate to say something reasonable and well-founded in a gentle and gentle tone.
In life, some women teach their daughters to be fierce in the future, so that they will not suffer losses, in fact, sometimes when we become more fierce, we will often suffer more losses, because at this time we are an unreasonable person, so we are not welcomed by this society.
A successful parent will teach a child not to be angry, and will also teach the child to be gentle with society, because they all know:
The women who are strong are gentle and soft.
01.
Take Jok Gang
In fact, women in love, if they know how to be gentle, they will often live very happily, because manhood is generally more masculine, unless the man encounters difficulties and bumps in the process of growing up, so some changes make this man lose his masculinity.
Otherwise, under normal circumstances, men are more masculine.
So sometimes when men and women get along, if the woman comes out with a very tough attitude, don't think that you do this, your man can be in the palm of your hand.
Just like Qiu Qianzhi in Jin Yong's novel "Divine Eagle Hero", he treated his husband the same way, because he was particularly tough at that time, although this was also for the good of his own object, at that time, he wanted to let his object practice, hoping to let the other party appear.
But the other party does not appreciate, after the two people are together, in the end it is still themselves who are hurt, and the other party knocks off the meridians on his hands and the pulse of his feet, so that this person who is obviously thinking about the other party has become a disabled person.
Therefore, if a woman is very strong in marriage, she may not be able to get happiness, but will be abandoned by others, if you are a very gentle person, to be soft may not be a special place for you to hold.
Just like this scene in Jin Yong's novel, it just explains this truth for us.
Women are gentle, will be happy in marriage, and in the eyes of men are also a very powerful person.
02.
Gentle tone, shocking
In life, if a woman is more gentle and the more gentle a woman talks to a boy once, the man will feel that this woman is not beautiful, but it is not bad.
But if this woman looks good, but when she speaks very rudely, the influence of men on women will be greatly reduced, not only that, if a woman is rude in life, then many people will feel that this woman has a manly tendency.
But if when a woman and a man chat, the tone is particularly gentle, and sometimes even if the tone of the other party is blamed, it is very gentle, so the effect is not the same.
And sometimes if you work in the unit, if you are a particularly gentle person, so that the people around you will be willing to get along with you, you will also live very well, sometimes you encounter things, the people around you will also vote for you.
This is a gentle tone, often can shock people's hearts, sometimes you encounter something important between you, or encounter some contradictions, at this time, if you are not so gentle, the other party to you to say a word, you are also angry, you two may quarrel endlessly.
But if you explain it to each other very gently, then two people may become good friends in the future, and one more friend has one more way, so women must understand.
But in the face of life, those who must bully us, at this time, women are not willing to show weakness, at this time we also have to show their own prestige.
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A woman may not be able to live well
Women in life are not necessarily happy, in fact, sometimes when we have high requirements for others, the pressure in our hearts is also very large, and the pressure in the hearts of others is also very large.
And when you are a woman, when others get along with you, it will be particularly difficult and tired, because others will feel that you are not so understanding of people sometimes.
Therefore, some women want to make themselves into women, so that they can protect themselves, but when we think about it, when we can protect ourselves, often we still have to protect others, which will only make us more and more tired.
So the women in life are not necessarily living well, living well in life, often those more gentle women with others, on the surface seem to be particularly gentle, I actually have a lot of ideas.
And if a woman is more gentle, it is also very popular after marriage, because everyone in the family will take care of themselves, and this woman is simply innocent, so others will also have compassion.
And sometimes if a woman is particularly strong, the mother-in-law will not like this woman very much after seeing her. If a woman is very gentle, it seems that some things will be done, some things will not be done, people in the family will also help to do, and many things women will be much easier.
Everyone wants to be a woman, want to rely on themselves, but sometimes we have to have the ability to have the ability, and then after encountering something that we can rely on ourselves, we must learn to be gentle, so that more and more people will help you, and you will worry less.
The water looks particularly docile, but sometimes it can flood the crops. Water looks particularly docile, and sometimes people touch the water in the palm of their hands, and the water will slide down with the palm of the person's hand.
But water can also give birth to foreign things, no one in this world can leave the water, if a woman is made of water, can not say that this woman is particularly weak, can only say that although this woman looks gentle, but can do a lot of things.
Really powerful people, gentle as water, look dirty, very simple, and sometimes vulnerable. However, he can walk through thousands of dangers, cross thousands of mountains and rivers, and finally reach the place he wants to be and meet the people he wants to meet.
The really powerful woman is not how fierce she is, but knows how to be gentle and kind to others.