Author | LuLu
Source | Lu Lu said (Public number: lulu_blog)
First of all, the heroine of this story, Wang Jia, is a native of Yan'an, Shaanxi.
She first appeared in April 2011 as a female guest in the 126-129 issues of "Do Not Disturb", standing on the number 2.
Her Weibo profile shows that she was born on December 5, 1979, and when she participated in "Do Not Disturb", especially in 2011, she was already a "leftover girl" in the world, and she did not have a boyfriend at the age of 32.
However, Wang Jia's family conditions are good, her parents are intellectuals, her father is an employee of a state-owned enterprise, and her mother is a nurse in a factory hospital.
Wang Jia himself was also angry, at the age of 18, he was admitted to the department of Chinese of Northwest University, and during his time at the school, he held important positions such as the president of the student union and the editor-in-chief of the school journal, which can be called the goddess of the school.
In the 90s, when the academic qualifications had not yet deteriorated, the gold content of this 211 academic degree was not low, and Wang Jia's awards were not low, and he won the championship of provincial and municipal competitions many times.
After graduation, Wang Jia was hired as a book editor by the World Book Publishing Company and Xi'an Branch, and her life was bright, and her parents also sold their house in Yan'an to settle in Xi'an.
Wang Jia also wrote an article commemorating her 7 years in the company
Wang Jia, who is engaged in the editing of the publishing house, has many media friends, and everyone's impression of her is that she is particularly fond of reading, beautiful and temperamental.
But in the eyes of Wang Jia's parents, Wang Jia's life is not very bright, because at the age of 32, she is not yet married, has no children, and has no boyfriend.
Wang Jia, who was overwhelmed by the disturbance, under heavy pressure, saw the savior - the blind date program of "Do Not Disturb".
After experiencing the screening of resumes and background investigations, she has performed well in image, education and appearance, and has won the opportunity to appear on "Do Not Disturb".
As soon as she appeared, Wang Jia introduced herself as a very literary young woman with goosebumps, and was complained about by LeJia and Meng Fei.
Wang Jia confessed that she was rushing to get married, and her biggest filial piety was that when her grandfather died, she could not see herself married.
Judging from her few speeches, as a highly educated woman, Wang Jia only cares about two points, that is, family affection and love.
Only these two points can reach her so-called depth of life.
Therefore, Wang Jia hopes that getting married and pregnant within half a year is what her parents want to see.
The idea of tying one's own happiness to one's family's expectations is pathetic, pitiful, hateful, and also set the goal within half a year, and can only say, has the little princess taken over the earth?
On the show, she successfully held hands with a 30-year-old boss from Beijing, Zhang Tianyi.
From the perspective of the mate selection criteria advocated by the man, this is not a man who makes people very impulsive to get married.
1, the woman is required to be 1.68m tall, which is good for the next generation;
2. Bachelor degree or above, with connotation, able to educate the next generation;
3, can not be too beautiful, insecure, can not be too ugly, do not like;
4, do not smoke, do not drink, no tattoos, go to the hall, go down to the kitchen;
5, like him more than she likes;
6. Get married and have children within half a year.
To put it simply, this is a marriage without love, only the pursuit of speed and efficiency, and Wang Jia's condition is to meet the man's requirements.
Wang Jia is very satisfied with Zhang Tianyi, and the successful ceremony of "Do Not Disturb" is that the male guest takes the initiative to go to the position of the female guest and hold the other party's hand, and when Wang Jia arrives, it is she who trotted all the way and took the initiative to embrace Zhang Tianyi, which is destined to be an unequal beginning.
Because of Wang Jia's heartfelt words, coupled with excitement and tears, netizens also gave her a nickname of "the most sincere female guest in history." ”
Just when everyone thought that this woman, who regarded love and marriage above all else, finally found happiness, two years later, a bad news struck.
In January 2013, someone broke the news on the Internet that Wang Jia, a former female guest in Xi'an on "Do Not Disturb", had killed her husband who was sleeping in two months after her new marriage.
In order to escape punishment, she also cut herself twice, creating the phenomenon of domestic violence, trying to fool through the customs, but the police recognized her lies and took her away.
At this time, only a month before she was in the basin, after being taken away, in August, she gave birth to a baby boy under the supervision of the police.
As soon as the news broke, public opinion was in an uproar, and true and false materials on the Internet appeared in an endless stream.
The first is the well-known whistleblower "Changchun International Trade", who spoke for Wang Jia on Weibo:
"Wang Jia married her husband (not Zhang Tianyi) in April last year, in August the two did fight and moved the knife, both sides were injured, and then Wang Jia called the police, the police sent her to the hospital, the husband went to the hospital for treatment, and the two did not contact after that.
In September, Wang Jia gave birth to a child with her husband, and later the police looked for Wang Jia once, but they did not look for the situation again. At present, Wang Jia is taking the child at home and has not been arrested! ”
Changchun Guomao was also a person comparable to Zhuo Wei ten years ago, and it was sealed later because there were too many true and false materials.
Changchun Guomao specially emphasized that the husband of this online rumor is not Zhang Tianyi, the general manager of "Do Not Disturb" in 2011, but someone else.
He also said that he had just talked to Wang Jia on the phone, the other party was still fine, and after such a long time, he was turned over, he must be hyping!
Subsequently, the Weibo of Wang Jia himself also issued two clarified Weibo posts, claiming that he was deliberately framed by someone, and he had depression and lost confidence in life.
And also exploded a series of materials, began to talk nonsense, took the initiative to reveal the name and job of her husband, Sun Guangwen, an employee of xi'an Bank.
In order to hide the true information of the victim, the online reports are all given her husband a pseudonym He Jiawen, and we will write Wang Jia's husband, or Wenwen, in the following.
After a while, he forwarded it again, and stressed that he still loved his husband and did not respond because he did not want to hurt the other party's family.
There is really a kind of silver three hundred and two here, if you don't respond is not to hurt your family, then why do you have to burst out the specific name and professional information of the other party, if it is not hurt, it is really ridiculous.
There is no impermeable wall in this world, and even if you deny it, the police still come out and punch her face: Wang Jia's is indeed killing her newlywed husband.
At first, the Internet said that they got married in May, and then looked it up, it was April
Wang Jia's marriage came and went quickly: married in April, killed her husband in August (the initial report said that July, because when the news came out, it was more than half a year, the media could only forward the breaking news), gave birth in August, and her husband was cremated in September.
In less than half a year, it has completed the three most important things in a person's life.
But what we need to understand is how a seemingly happy family of three fell from heaven to hell, from perfection to rupture?
It turned out that after the end of the show, Wang Jia was snubbed by Zhang Tianyi, a male guest holding hands.
After two weeks of playing together in Xi'an, on April 22, Zhang Tianyi said that he was going to go abroad and suddenly disappeared.
A sad Wang Jia wrote on Weibo on May 9: "I held hands with a male guest, he went abroad on the 22nd, and then could not be contacted." ”
On the same day, another message was sent: "He seems to be missing, and I am very hurt and sad." In the comments, there were still people who came to comfort Wang Jia.
On May 11, after hearing that the male guest who successfully held hands on the show had returned to China, Wang Jia happily sent a Weibo.
"Do Not Disturb" is a recorded program, the episode where Wang Jia holds hands was recorded in April, the broadcast time is May 15, and on the day of broadcasting, the program also takes her as the title, writing that Wang Jia is happy to tears because of the success of holding hands.
After knowing that she successfully held hands, netizens and relatives and friends flocked to her Weibo to congratulate her, but at this time, she had been missing with the male guest Zhang Tianyi for a long time.
Moreover, he was so angry that he sent a Weibo that almost made his name: "I need to be respected, why disappear." "There's no news again, I don't understand!" "There's no choice, I have no choice."
This dewy love affair ended abruptly with the man's cold treatment, and a bad relationship also quietly unfolded.
After all, Wang Jia is also a small celebrity who has been on the show, which naturally attracts many fans, including a fan with the pseudonym "Wenwen", that is, Wang Jia's later husband.
The plot of the two people is probably when the goddess is low, and what happens to accompany her is a spare tire.
Wen Wen and Wang Jia are fellow countrymen, but also especially like to watch "Non-sincere Do Not Disturb", when watching the show, they like Wang Jia, with his intuition, Wang Jia and male guests will not come together, because he is not suitable for Wang Jia.
Especially looking at Wang Jia's eyes, wandering and erratic, it is obvious that they are perfunctory.
I agree with that very much.
In the interview between Wang Jia and male guest Zhang Tianyi holding hands in the background, Wang Jia looked at each other almost adoringly, like a little girl, holding her cheeks with her hands.
When the male guest was interviewed by Wang Jia, the look he showed was clear at a glance.
Wen Wen is 2 years younger than Wang Jia, but he has also reached the age when he should get married, and his family is tight, he admires Wang Jia's independent, confident and beautiful appearance, and wants to pursue Wang Jia.
At first, Wang Jia rejected him until May 27, 2011, when the two met.
To tell the truth, the real Wenwen is a good marriage partner, 1.8 meters tall, bank customer service manager, Xi'an Jiaotong University is studying for a master's degree, and a proper 985 college.
His parents are also intellectuals, his father is the vice principal of the middle school, a provincial special teacher, and his mother is also a teacher, and he and Wang Jia can be described as the right blind date.
As soon as Wen Wen came, he expressed his liking, bluntly saying that the two of them would be good to Wang Jia for a lifetime if they were in a relationship based on the premise of marriage.
Wang Jia rejected him again, bluntly saying that she would have to wait for the reply of the male guest.
However, on the same day, Wang Jia sent a Weibo message saying that he was in love. My guess is mostly to let the male guests see it, to arouse the jealousy of the other party.
However, what awaited was a tragic reality, and the other party entrusted the reporter to bring a message, because of regional reasons, one in Xi'an and one in Beijing, under consideration, it was not appropriate.
From then on, Wang Jia resolutely and neatly threw herself into Wen Wen's arms.
Her Weibo also recorded the bits and pieces of their love for each other, which was very sweet.
It can be seen that in July, Wang Jia and Wenwen made rapid progress, and they have reached the link of meeting their parents, and the parents of both sides are also very satisfied with this family affair, so it is settled.
Wang Jia also stopped his microblogging, believing that life is life, the internet is the network, and there is no need to present everything naked in front of others.
Started to work on the marriage house of Wenwen mortgage, looking for decoration companies, buying materials, supervising workers, a large part of this strength is Wenwen personally out, wang Jia is very distressed to see.
During the renovation, there is no quarrel, how to see is a good match. Pushing the boat along the water, the two set the affair on the New Year's Day of the next year.
At this point in the story, it is still a very happy ending.
But in this world, the most feared thing is that there is an accident, and Wang Jia has to face his sudden heart demon.
Leaving the stage of "Do Not Disturb", Wang Jia saw the sisters who had stood on the stage with her in the group, some of them found a rich second-generation boyfriend, some people came out with a new album, and earned a lot of money, only she, married a banker who bought a mortgage house.
Because they are all pseudonyms, I checked along the information, indeed, someone is out of the record, that is, the No. 3 female guest standing next door to Wang Jia, Luo Aixuan, is also from Shaanxi.
She also wrote a book with "Do Not Disturb" as a gimmick, looking at the catalog, at best it was a gossip diary, but at that time the program was so hot that everyone wanted to watch gossip.
This made Wang Jia very frustrated, on the occasion of the wedding, she actually wanted to repent of the marriage, her parents discouraged, she insisted on going her own way, canceled the banquet, and informed relatives and friends.
Not long after the cancellation of the wedding, Wang Jia found out that she was pregnant, and at this time, she was already 33 years old, which made her start to worry, if the miscarriage would not cause harm to the body?
Wen Wen, the fiancé on the side, in the face of the capricious Wang Jia, chose to use love to resolve, while silently taking care of each other, while promising: "Let's try first, it is not suitable for you to miscarry, I can also accept the breakup." ”
Finally, on the eighth day of the first month of the first month, the first day of work in the Civil Affairs Bureau, I received a marriage license, and on April 8, the two held a belated wedding, and Wang Jia saved the tire in the renovated house.
A marriage, before it has begun, already has a rift, just blindly evading, and eventually burying hidden dangers.
After pregnancy, Wang Jia's figure is out of shape, her face appears pregnant spots, her stomach has stretch marks, and the light emitted from her body is no longer there.
In May, she received the wedding of another little sister of "Do Not Disturb" and took maternity leave to attend.
The other party married a rich second generation, greeted by more than 30 Bentleys, Mercedes-Benz, more than two hundred tables at the banquet, very grand, and their own wedding a comparison, others swans, their own ugly duckling.
Wang Jia, who was stimulated again, was sullen and unhappy, and put on a stinky face at her husband. But the other party advised her to calm her mind and not speculate, and the two had a serious quarrel.
Until the other party left the harsh words: "If you always live in the 'comparison' with people, then I advise you to do not disturb again." "It led to the couple falling into a cold war.
In the end, the parents of both sides persuaded for a while, and the man took the initiative to apologize, and Wang Jiacai gave the steps down.
In the second half of the year, the task of bank deposits increased, and the husband's literature became busy.
Wang Jia, who is pregnant, is extremely sensitive, and her emotions fluctuate greatly, one moment suspecting that her husband is having an affair and supervising the salary card, the other suspecting that the money on the salary card is less, suspecting that the other party has transferred the money away, and asking for explanations.
Under the dual pressure of work and family, Wenwen chose to escape, drilled into the computer game, and responded silently, but got the opposite effect, and Wang Jia was even more angry.
The father-in-law who found the abnormality reminded his son to take more care of the emotions of pregnant women and recommended to take it with him to see a doctor.
The diagnosis was that Wang Jia suffered from mild prenatal depression.
At this time, the husband finally got into his heart, and walked with Wang Jia without anything, so that Wang Jia's anxiety was alleviated a lot, but only temporarily.
On the morning of July 31, her husband, who was on leave, decided to spend the day with Wang Jia and got up early to make a love breakfast.
Wang Jia just flicked the mouse against the computer, did not respond, and then suddenly said: "I don't want to live anymore!" ”
The husband was angry, grabbed Wang Jia's notebook, found that she was admiring the life of the goddesses of the little sisters in "Non-sincere Do Not Disturb", and shouted: "It is "Non-sincere Do Not Disturb" again!" Female guest again! Do you have an end? ”
He smashed the computer in frustration and continued to yell, "You are 34 years old this year, goddess, are you living on the stage forever, and you can't return to the human world?"
Because of this incident, the two of them quarreled all day, and neither of them wanted to pay attention to anyone.
On August 1, looking at Wang Jia, who was black-faced, her husband ignored it and went directly to work. When she got off work, Wang Jia was still cold and blurted out that she wanted to commit suicide and did not want to live.
The angry husband was furious: "Well, you want to commit suicide, I'll get you a knife!" After saying that, he rushed into the kitchen, shoved the knife into Wang Jia's hand, and then turned on the computer and responded silently by playing a game.
Wang Jia, who was also angry, decided to go downstairs to be calm and calm, but the more he thought about it, the less it was a taste, and his mind was full of suicidal thoughts, but he could see the child in his belly and softened again.
Back at home, her peaceful husband played a game and asked Wang Jia what she had eaten in the afternoon.
Wang Jia replied that she had no appetite, so she ate some rice noodles and cold skin.
The husband immediately thought of what he had just said, and became even more angry, saying: "You are about to give birth, and then eat this kind of nutritious thing, snub the baby in the belly, I will not give you a penny!"
After saying that, I started playing the game again.
Wang Jia looked at this pillow person, full of hatred, and attributed the tragedy of her time to choosing the wrong marriage partner.
This time, Wang Jia did not intend to commit suicide, but killed her husband first, and then committed suicide.
In the early morning of August 2, her husband fell into a deep sleep, and Wang Jia, who had not slept all night, entered the kitchen, took a watermelon knife, and slashed at her husband, with a stab.
The husband, who was awakened by the stinging pain, was covered in blood, and instead of fighting back, he ran out of the door in his pants and slammed on the neighbor's door to call for help.
Wang Jia, who killed the red-eyed, chased him out and slashed at the other party's back. In the face of her husband's crying, Wang Jia was indifferent and cut a second knife.
The husband, who was struggling to run to the elevator, fell inside because of excessive blood loss.
At this time, Wang Jiacai came back to his senses, hit 110 and 120, and then used a kitchen knife to cut off the abdomen and left chest, faking domestic violence and legitimate defense.
Although 120 arrived in time, it was unable to return to heaven. Forensic reports showed that Wang Jia's husband was injured by a sharp weapon in multiple places on the whole body and ruptured in the right side of the heart vein, causing acute hemorrhagic shock and death.
Wang Jia's in-laws were devastated and white-headed overnight. Because of her pregnancy, Wang Jia was released on guarantee pending trial and awaited trial by law.
According to the speculation of the police who rushed to the scene, the 180-headed Wenwen, even if the other party is a woman holding a murder weapon, can be quickly subdued, not to mention, Wang Jia is still a pregnant woman who is about to be born, and the only possibility is that he does not want to hurt this soon-to-be-born child.
Unfortunately, he could see the birth of his child in less than a month, and he could no longer hear it.
Because Wang Jia was pregnant and breastfeeding, she was not taken into custody for a while, which is why at the beginning, she was able to post on Weibo and talk to friends on the phone to "prove" her innocence.
But she was mentally tortured, and she did not feel better, and repeatedly tried to hit the wall to commit suicide, thanks to her parents, she successfully stopped it.
As soon as her lactation period ended, she was immediately imprisoned.
On December 4, 2013, Wang Jia's murder case was heard in private at the Xi'an Intermediate People's Court.
The court held that the defendant Wang Jia killed her husband due to family conflicts, the method of committing the crime was cruel, and the consequences were particularly serious, and he should be severely punished.
However, Nian Zai Had a good attitude in confessing guilt and took the initiative to compensate Wen Wen's parents for 30,000 yuan, and the old man, for the sake of his grandson, wrote a criminal understanding and withdrew the civil prosecution against Wang Jia.
Coupled with Wang Jia's depression and poor mental state, the Xi'an Intermediate People's Court eventually sentenced him to 13 years in prison for intentional homicide.
Wang Jia was not convinced by this result and appealed to the Shaanxi Provincial High Court.
Regarding Wang Jia's sentence in the end, there are different opinions on the Internet, some saying that after the court approves it, the sentence can be reduced to 10 years, and some saying that the appeal is rejected and the original judgment is upheld.
However, whether it is 10 years or 13 years, it cannot make up for a living person.
Looking back, let's take a look at how Wang Jia's tragedy happened.
I see the most agreeable statement on the Internet is that Wang Jia, as a member of "Do Not Disturb", like those female guests who have been insulted, is too vain, taking cars, houses, and tickets too seriously, clearly marking prices, and materializing men.
Indeed, the female guests who came to the stage of "Do Not Disturb" involuntary, especially the beautiful female guests, were very picky about men's eyes, and they were eager to marry them.
But who in this world is not vain? Who hasn't had the spring dream of "marrying a good man and marrying a beautiful woman"?
Even "Do Not Disturb", which provides a platform, divides women into three, six, nine, etc., the most beautiful station in the middle, and the general looks are placed on both sides.
The 13th position at the center of vision has given birth to many heart goddesses.
Even women who do not go to the platform of insincerity and do not disturb want to choose men according to their own level and level, after upgrading one or two degrees.
Just talking about women, men are not vain?
Those men who are selected, when choosing a girl, do not they also look at their appearance, look at their figures, and look at their age?
In fact, in this world, everyone has vanity. Therefore, a person's more precious quality is to be able to maintain the sobriety of life at all times in a strange world.
Wang Jia's mistake is that too many surrounding voices have broken into her world, disturbed her original cognition, and her personality is too paranoid to turn back.
From the concept instilled in her by her parents, grandfathers and relatives in her original family, what measures a woman's happiness is a happy marriage.
The only two criteria that can measure life are family affection and love.
In addition, in the female guest group of "Do Not Disturb", there is a sentence, not a word of comparison to show off, making her really difficult to calm.
But everything in the world has two points of view: subjective and objective. She only saw the prosperity of others floating on the surface, it was all full of dreams, huge bubbles, but she couldn't see herself, where was she? What kind of days can you touch with your own ability?
The water goes down, people sharpen their necks and want to climb high, this is human nature! When you can't climb to the height you want, most of the time, the difference is not that little luck, but a little self-knowledge!
How much appetite do you have, and how much can you eat? Advantages, disadvantages, how to improve yourself to the height of your own "ambition"? Therefore, the noble person who can turn a stone into gold and save you is actually only yourself!