1. Volumehead
Reading history, in order to serve the present, to observe history cattle people, to strengthen themselves - this view is probably believed by the vast majority of people. After all, reality is nothing more than an extension of history, and history is a mirror image of reality, and the two cannot be separated.
It is also known that since ancient times, those who can achieve great things are all people-oriented. In other words, there must be a great way to explode. Cao Cao is a typical example of this.
Knowing the hero - Qingmei said to the downcast Liu Bei when cooking wine: Although the world is big, we are called two brothers and two heroes. You can also read talent better – understand what kind of people are trustworthy. So what are the characteristics of Cao Cao's knowledge of people?
The author believes that Cao Cao knows people and mainly looks at each other's habits! As long as he has one of these two habits, he is worthy of his trust or reuse.
Second, those who dare to break the rules
We all know that Cao Cao's biggest habit is: marry a young woman! However, the attack on Cao Cao's habit has not only been rare, but also has become a big weight for his grounding. At least because of this, many people think that Cao Cao is more cute than Uncle Liu Huang, who is full of benevolence and virtue and loses his daughter-in-law when he has nothing to do. This is probably the best annotation of "people have no fetish and cannot be intercourse".
Therefore, for people with outstanding characteristics, Cao Cao naturally looks up to him, such as the most famous ghost talent Guo Jia! As we all know, Guo Jia is very bullish, and he concludes that Sun Ce in his heyday will die. Ten strategies laughed, and Yuan Shao, who was so bullish that he exploded, would defeat Guandu miserably. But it can be seen that Guo Jia is also a person with a fetish.
According to the Chronicle of the Three Kingdoms, Chen Qun hated Guo Jia very much, and ran to Cao Cao to complain when he had nothing to do: Guo Jia always did something that did not conform to etiquette, why don't you care about the boss? Let's just say that yesterday, he lost his temper after drinking, pinched the "nun's face", today should have been a meeting, but he slept at home... Such people are not trustworthy and reusable.
Cao Cao said: What you said is very reasonable. But as soon as Chen Qun left, Cao Cao didn't hear anything at all.
This is the biggest feature of Guo Jia, and of course it can be said that he is a fetish: he likes to break the rules! So why didn't Cao Cao stop it, but still trusted him so much?
Just one: people who usually dare to break the rules often have extraordinary insight and creativity!
In the same way, Zhuge Liang is also very prominent in this regard. Liu Bei came to please, but he played Liu Bei three times before he came out of the mountain. Nowadays, people feel normal, but under the historical conditions of the time, this is definitely a different kind.
So tolerance and appreciation, those who are addicted to breaking the rules, has always been a major quality of cattle people, reflecting their inclusiveness or open-mindedness. The reason is very simple, if a team is a standard standard, this is not an excellent team, the boss of this team, or the big brother?
Third, people who dare to insist on themselves
On this day, Cao Pi feasted on his subordinates in the palace. Drinking and drinking, Cao Pi was a little fluttery, and suddenly asked a question: If the boss and the father are now sick and dead. But you only have a elixir in your hand that can revive the dead, and you say, who to eat, who to save?
Suddenly, the feast became a "horse ass field", and each shouted: Give the boss to eat. The reason is even more grand, what "loyalty and filial piety can not be two perfect", what heaven, earth, king, relatives, teachers, this is the law of the world, can not be violated, must be given to the boss to eat!
But Feng Yuan suddenly shouted: What is there to ask? Of course I gave it to Dad!
In a word, Cao Pi's face turned green, followed by wild praise - no way, now Daddy Cao Cao is still alive and jumping, hurry up and take the opportunity to step down, otherwise dad Cao Cao will learn about it, not smoke me!
So what was Cao Cao's attitude towards Yuan? Two words: trust! So before the expedition, he specifically mentioned that he had slipped over to Cao Pi and said: Cub, daddy went out to fight the world for you, you have a problem at home, go find two people, one is Xun Lingjun, the other is Feng Yuan, be closer to them!
The reason why Cao Cao elevated Feng Yuan to the same status as Xun Yu was obviously because of His habit of daring to insist on himself! Perhaps, some people think that this is nothing, but put you in that kind of environment, do you dare to speak out in a straight face in a piece of horse fart? I'm ashamed, I don't dare!
People who dare to insist on themselves are often people who cherish feathers, and they cannot be killed! It's harder to get them to betray themselves than to ascend to heaven! Doesn't Xun Yu have this trait or a habit? Finally, in order to maintain the dignity of the Han Dynasty and prevent Cao Cao from becoming king, his life can be lost! But who can deny that he was not trusted or even respected by Cao Cao?
People with this kind of fetish often represent the cohesion of the team, and of course, it can also be said to be an image.
The reason why Cao Cao was a traitor was because he finally regarded Xun Yu and Bing Yuan as a team image. But in any case, real cattle people have great trust in those who dare to insist on themselves. People who do not have this kind of recognition, or who cannot accommodate people who have this kind of habit, do not have the qualifications to be the boss at all.
Fourth, the general analysis
Breaking the rules represents creativity!
Insisting on self represents cohesion!
Although he looked at the contradiction, it precisely reflected the essence of Cao Cao's art of knowing people. Because these two are necessary to build a good team, and can even be regarded as two pillars - creativity, outward development. Cohesion, energy!
Therefore, from this point of view, there is actually nothing mysterious to speak of, and Cao Cao has proved this with facts. In fact, it is still the old saying that "people have no habits and cannot be friends", Cao Cao himself is so, and so is the knowledge of people.