Author: Fox Fairy
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="4" > love: it's better to play than to rescue</h1>
Su Xiao asked: "If our project encounters an uncontrollable situation that is 20% and cannot complete the project on schedule, what should we do?" ”
Xia Ming said, "There is no way, it can only mean that the door of heaven is broken." ”
Su Xiao asked again, "What is the broken door of heaven?" ”
Xia Ming said: "The door of heaven is broken, find someone to repair it, Wang Er will have to spend two thousand, build a thousand, and earn a thousand yourself."
Zhang San said he wanted four thousand, and he gave God a thousand, built a thousand, and earned two thousand himself. Li Si said no, he wanted nine thousand, he gave God three thousand, construction three thousand, and earned three thousand himself. In the end, God gave the task to Li Si. Sometimes we have to do this, and only if we use their rules to beat them, we can make our own rules. ”
Su Xiao said: "I also tell you a Russian fairy tale, many years ago, there was a dragon in a village, and every year there would be warriors to strangle it, but most of them were gone." This year another warrior went, on the way there was a teenager quietly following behind him, he watched the warrior fight with the dragon in blood, and finally killed the dragon, when he faced the gold and silver treasure left by the dragon, the body began to change, slowly growing dragon scales, tentacles, dorsal fins... It was a dragon again. So can you guarantee that you won't become a dragon? ”
This is a conversation from the recent TV series "Ideal City". The reason why I wrote this conversation was that the dialogue of the two touched me at the same time. On the one hand, I appreciate that Xia Ming is not only talented, but also understands the complexity and subtlety of interpersonal relationships, but such a person will eventually "go along with those who abuse their power, are solipsistic, and frame others." On the other hand, I admire Su Xiao's insistence on principles and maintain the natural virtues of honesty, self-motivation and open-mindedness, but when I see that she is being directed by others and as a "scapegoat" and still knows nothing, she has to be pinched by the complex and human customs of society that she does not understand.
Fortunately, the clever Su Xiao quickly realized this level, not only understanding the subtleties of interpersonal relationships, but also adhering to his self-motivation and the bottom line and principles of his work.
Su Xiao is a girl in a third-tier city, graduated from the 985 school and went to work in Shanghai, she excelled in her work, but she was not good at pondering human psychology, which led to her running into walls everywhere in her work, and she was also dismissed by her superiors who admired her. At the same time, she finds her boyfriend stepping on two boats, preparing for marriage with her and falling in love with his female boss. He said that the female boss has a background and connections, as well as a house and a car, which can make him struggle for many years less.
Not only that, the female boss knew that she was the boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, and used the power in her hand to withhold Su Xiao's first-class cost engineer certificate and put her on the blacklist of the construction industry.
Lost love, unemployed, and untrustworthy, this is almost fatal for a girl who has not been employed for too long without a background.
People look at a person's achievements, often ignore the hardships of its success process, except for the closest people, no one will care about your self-esteem, nor will they care about the grievances you have been wronged, leaving only the embarrassment and sorrow of having nowhere to speak after being wronged.
The "grievances" of the same industry for Su Xiao are well known, but no one speaks for her, and even laughs at her behind her back as just a fool. When Xia Ming reminds her that it is her boss who "weighs" her on her back, what can she do but be angry? Without the ability to fight back, she tore her face and scolded the other party, but she asked for more ridicule.
Therefore, it was her luck to meet Xia Ming. They are all people with the same ideals and ambitions, the difference is that he has a background and conditions, and will not suffer from Su Xiao's suffering, but in order to be invincible in the real estate industry, it is necessary to consider more comprehensive and specific. Therefore, he is not a loving god of anyone, he just does not want to see a girl desperate, kind side of the side to remind her. More importantly, he is helpful and guided to Su Xiao, but has his own purpose, and he needs her not to help Xu Feng, the assistant of the head office, when auditing the head office.
When you have an effect on others, you can communicate equally.
This is also the valuable point of this drama, the heroine is not Cinderella, the male protagonist has not incarnated as a domineering president, standing up when she is frustrated, but only good at reminding each other, so that they wake up, and then change the adversity to a good situation.
It is better to teach people to fish than to teach people to fish.
When we are young, there will be some setbacks in the workplace, and we will also encounter or witness some people becoming distorted and deformed under heavy pressure, but most people have no power to fight back, can only compromise, compromise again, and eventually become a loser, a frustrated, and then self-deprecating way to comfort themselves, admit that they are just a mortal, and how to fight against fate? In this way, it is easy to be captured by life.
Look at Xia Ming, a well-off family, he has a headmaster's father, a surgeon's mother, but they are busy at work, there is no time to accompany him, and the uncle who guards him every day is the uncle of the contractor. As a result, he received the influence and training of the Kochi family on the one hand, and on the other hand, he dealt with a group of people who were most complex and urban servants in society. Making him young, he navigated his relationships with ease, became a "human spirit" elite, and in just two years, he brought his uncle's company to life.
Su Xiao, who lives in the ivory tower, only knows how to immerse herself in hard study, and after work, even if she is very capable, she has not gained a firm foothold, the main reason is that her abundant ideal and the reality of bone sense need a bridge, and Xia Ming has become this bridge.
In Xia Ming's body, in Chen Simin, who was embarrassed by her everywhere, she grew rapidly, and her outstanding performance was appreciated by her superior Wang Jiong, although Chen Simin was small and had "kindness" to him. Chen Simin thought that he would definitely be able to drive away this young man who did not know the height of the sky, but he did not know that his embarrassment had instead taught Su Xiao a lesson.
Chen Simin, who constantly created wealth for the company and punched himself in the face, successfully squeezed him out, and did not let her stop, but continued to create a set of management methods that are more suitable for the development of the company.
Only when you succeed can you be qualified to stick to your own opinions; only when you have achieved others, can you achieve yourself. When she understood these truths, she could stand in front of the excellent Xia Ming without humility and accept his love.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="120" > Sun Li: Don't rely on acting skills</h1>
The number one heroine in the play is dressed simply and concisely, and compared with the beautiful women around her, it is simply a bit earthy. But she didn't mind that, and all her energy was focused on her work. However, in Xia Ming's eyes, she was still very beautiful.
At the annual meeting, Xia Ming's uncle pulled Su Xiao to the room and scolded her fiercely: What qualifications do you have to like Xia Ming, no background, no family situation, in addition to a face, what point can you deserve to be in my family Xia Ming? ......
Although the play emphasizes that Su Xiao is a beautiful woman, Sun Li at this time is not beautiful, at least not compared to her beauty in her previous early works such as "Jade Guanyin", "Happiness Like a Flower", and "The Biography of Zhen Huan". However, Sun Li did not deliberately dress herself up very beautifully because of her age in this play, on the contrary, she was not young herself, and she dressed in a dirty and ordinary way, but it did not affect the excitement of the play, the reason is that she is integrated with the angle, or she gives the role a deeper meaning: that is, beauty can not be in the workplace, but the ability to work can be.
When people mocked her as Su Daji, she didn't care at all. Because she was strong enough inside, she didn't have time to pay attention to it, and she had more meaningful things to do.
Her behavior, in a way, was very appropriate for female friends now. Looking around, the plastic surgery industry has not only not decreased, but has become more and more popular. Some people are even addicted to plastic surgery. Of course, there is nothing wrong with loving beauty, who does not want to have a 360-degree face without dead angles, but if you put a lot of energy on beauty, when she is old, she is left with only a gullyed face, what else?
If we compare youth and beauty to the stock market, then it is high and low; but ability and wisdom are low and high.
Even if we don't look as good as we want, we can live more and more uniquely, and we can establish our own unique taste from the inside out, which is either the elegance of reading poetry books, or the wisdom of extensive knowledge, or the calmness that has gone through vicissitudes...
Therefore, when Su Xiao in the TV series is simple, has light makeup, and appears in front of the audience in the image of ordinary people's lives, those who complain can think about it, we look at the wonderful plot, or just look at the beauty of beauty?
In fact, the beauty of the entertainment industry is not rare at all, focusing on acting skills, otherwise why let the mother who already has two children play the young Su Xiao, instead of letting Yang Chaoyue around her play this role.
What people want is that the actor can present the characters in the play to the audience with the most evocative side, so that the audience has a more accurate understanding, positioning and consideration of the role.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="121" > girlfriend, not an enemy, but a partner</h1>
Su Xiao's girlfriend Wu Hongmei has been with her when she is most frustrated. He also spoke for her in front of her boss, Mary, several times, to help her out of her predicament. Under the last resort, she was persuaded to change her profession, but Su Xiao refused, saying that where she fell, she would get up. She still threw her resume into the construction industry, but unfortunately no company wanted her. Worried about her, Hongmei quietly contacted her ex-boyfriend and arranged for her to work in a construction industry that was not standardized.
Even at such a small company, Su Xiao's high education has not been noticed, and she will be arranged to work at the desk next to the bathroom, and she will not be given any work to do. If it were not for her achievements, no matter how high the academic qualifications were, it would be in vain. Su Xiao, who has experienced the setbacks of job searching, does not feel that the self-esteem of sitting in the toilet is hurt, she understands that people who fail are not qualified to emphasize their self-esteem, and only getting back up is the best proof.
Just getting back up in the place where she fell is more difficult, more difficult than the beginning, which is why Hongmei advised her to change careers.
The family environment of Su Xiao and Wu Hongmei has caused the two people to pursue completely different pursuits. Born in a remote mountainous area, Hongmei is a high-achieving student who graduated from the National People's Congress, but her ideal is to have a boyfriend who is good to her, but to become a white-collar worker; Su Xiao, who also graduated from the Harbin Institute of Technology in colleges and universities, does not have too many worries, and she only wants to realize her ideals from a carefree life.
The South African writer and Nobel laureate in literature Coetzee has a saying in his autobiographical novel "Youth": "When you are in your early twenties, please put yourself in your early twenties." You have no reason or ability to have the experience and wealth of a forty-year-old. You have nothing but the youth at hand, but it is the few things you have that determine what kind of person you become. ”
Choosing what kind of person to become is also choosing your own direction and future.
Although Su Xiao and Hongmei were born and grew up in different environments, if they also have ideals and work hard for them, they will not only become important partners in each other's lives, but also be able to support each other and become girlfriends for a lifetime. If they pursue different goals, they can also bless each other to be what they want to be the most. Only you can't infinitely enlarge the "small one you left behind". In the play, when Su Xiao is constantly promoted and her income is greatly improved, the red rose that is hit by Maria everywhere begins to have red eyes. Instead of reflecting on how she has made progress in her work and how to improve her ability to work, she is jealous of her girlfriend's success and is the unfairness of fate to herself.
This is probably why she, who is also highly educated, is not evil. To understand that life also requires a lot of hard work, to understand its deep meaning, that is, when a person has enough heart to tolerate the excellence of others, in fact, it is also their own excellence; when they pull others into the quagmire, they will also fall into the quagmire and get a sludge.
It's a mistake for everyone.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="122" > lines are the soul of the character, and acting is the soul of the character</h1>
"Ideal City" is very full of both plot evolution and character personality, which is rare in many urban dramas. In recent years, urban dramas have gradually departed from the plot of pure love as the main line, focusing on the background of the times, the fate of the characters, complex human nature and anxiety in the workplace, etc., but there are still few with a certain depth and breadth and practical significance.
Love dramas without nutrition are really tired of watching, and they are really boring. Even in "Ideal City", the love between Xia Ming and Su Xiao is obviously not as good as their tempering in the workplace and the competition between the characters.
In the past few years, love has been infinitely magnified by film and television works, and in fact, love is invisible in life. Where are the first sentences of the two meetings: Do you love? Topics are generally implemented to children, work, education, health, etc., which are the main ingredients of life.
Just like in the play, ordinary girls like Su Xiao in the adversity, after setbacks in the workplace, how to grow and experience step by step, so as to make a profit in the first-tier cities, is what everyone wants to see more.
Slightly regrettable, people like Xia Ming in the play still have an aura, superior family situation, handsome appearance, and single-minded emotions, and this person is still set to meet women's dreams. Although Hongmei and Xiaobei are the real situation of ordinary young people living in first-tier cities, they are a couple in the play. Or, from another point of view, through them, let more people clearly understand the difficulties and difficulties of surviving in first-tier cities, and at the same time be mentally prepared, they also strive not to become people like them and live into a group that everyone hates.
In addition, this drama is quite highly evaluated, and I have to mention the excellent performances of a group of old drama bones. For example, Xia Ming's uncle Huang Lilin, who is a rough, shrewd, sleek and worldly upstart, is alive and well; Su Xiao's boss Wang Jiong (Chen Minghao), like him, has many layers, seemingly rough and unrestrained, but in fact, his heart is as delicate as dust. There are also Zhao Xiankun (Yu Hewei), Chen Simin (Qian Yi), Maria (Zhang Shu), Wang Mingyu (Li Hongtao), etc., each with exquisite acting skills, accurate lines, chewing taste, each actor is tailored as if "giving shape to things", they interpret the confrontation between the middle and upper leaders of the company to the fullest, and the smoothness and wisdom, throwing pots and hiding clumsiness, as well as the language blade of clever words and clever words and clever tongues, which can be called a model of modern urban drama.
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