Once a woman in the world is married, the most worried and most reluctant to face is probably the betrayal of the lover and the disintegration of the marriage.
Whether it is an ordinary mediocre woman or an extraordinary woman, if you really have to face the changes in marriage, you often either blame all the mistakes on the man, or use the result of failure to punish and torture yourself, the light will lose some self-confidence, and the heavy will have long-term self-doubt.
During the Republic of China period, Zhang Yunying, the third daughter of Nanxun's huge rich Zhang Jingjiang, can be said to be a fairy who has been living in the clouds, and Zhang Yunying, who combines talent, appearance, wisdom, kindness, elegance, and nobility, entered into marriage through free love, but even so, as a famous noblewoman, she still encountered her husband's cheating in middle age.
Shortly after the marriage change, Zhang Yunying once had serious self-doubt in her heart, but in the open arms of her family and with warm encouragement, Zhang Yunying finally succeeded in walking out of the haze in her heart with her full of talent, once again living a confident and independent self, and regaining a decent and calm life.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="2" > Zhang Yunying: The third daughter of Zhang Jingjiang, a huge rich man in Nanxun, and a typical famous nobleman</h1>
Nanxun Town in Huzhou City, Zhejiang Province has always been a particularly remarkable place, here in ancient times it was "Nine Li Three Pavilions Old, Ten Li Two Shangshu", and in modern times, there have been many celebrities such as Shen Jiaben, Zhang Naiyan, Zhang Rongchu, Zhou Bainian, Xu Chi and other celebrities and scholars, literati and scholars, it seems that the use of "brilliant spirit" to describe Nanxun is the most appropriate adjective.
Nanxun not only produces celebrities, but also "rich" rich people. It is the birthplace of Shen Wansan, the richest man in Jiangnan in the Ming Dynasty, and the hometown of Zhang Jingjiang, a "revolutionary saint of the Republic of China" and a legendary merchant in Nanxun.
Speaking of Zhang Jingjiang, a huge rich man in Nanxun, he can be said to be a big figure in the whole country during the Republic of China period, and Zhang Jingjiang, who was born in the home of a silk trade giant, was good at business, generous and enthusiastic, and could support the revolutionary cause with righteousness and wealth, and thus became close friends with Sun Yat-sen and Chiang Kai-shek.
This generous and reasonable rich businessman of the Republic of China later became a political elder figure, and his life was full of merit and patriotism.
Zhang Jingjiang has a total of 10 daughters and 2 sons in his life, as a giant and rich man, Zhang Jingjiang is very diligent in cultivating and educating his children, not stingy with wealth, many of his children have studied abroad and have a lot of ability and achievements in the fields of art, business, diplomacy and so on.
Especially Zhang Jingjiang's daughters, it can be said that they are all "chinese and Western combination" of everyone's bridesmaids and famous nobles.
Zhang Jingjiang's third daughter is named Zhang Yunying, who was loved by her father since she was a child, born in France, grew up in the United States, and fell in love with music and piano at a very young age, Zhang Yunying has an unusual talent for playing, and when she graduated from high school, she already had the professional standard of opening piano concerts.
In 1924, Zhang Yunying's birth mother died in an accident, and his father, Zhang Jingjiang, did not want his daughters to lose their shelter and care, so he asked his brother-in-law to escort them back to China. On the returning steamer, Zhang Yunying met Chen Shouyin, who had just graduated from the Massachusetts Institute of Technology in the United States and returned to China.
Chen Shouyin was full of style, dignified appearance, and knowledgeable, while Zhang Yunying was lively and beautiful, talented, elegant and generous, and the young people soon developed an extraordinary liking for each other. During the long journey back home, the two young people had the opportunity to contact and communicate almost every day, and soon, Chen Shouyin boldly expressed his admiration for Zhang Yunying with love letters, and Zhang Yunying was impressed and began to communicate with Chen Shouyin.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="4" > talented women fell in love and entered the temple of marriage hand in hand</h1>
The news of the return of the third lady Zhang Yunying soon disappeared, and attracted a group of young talents and rich children to pursue and show love, hoping to marry this rich lady into the family. Zhang Yunying is young, fashionable and talented, and there is no shortage of dignitaries and celebrities in the men who chase her, among them, there is a fanatical suitor known as the "uncle of the country" - Song Ziwen.
After the marriage of Jiang and Song, Song Ziwen became the "uncle of the country", song Ziwen returned from studying in the early years, because of his rich political background, he was able to smoothly enter the government department, and in 1925 he became the minister of finance of the National Government, who was well-informed and experienced. When Song Ziwen learned that Zhang Jingjiang's third daughter had just returned to China and was not yet married, he immediately launched a passionate pursuit of her.
When the news of Song Ziwen's fierce pursuit of Zhang Yunying reached Shanghai, Chen Shouyin began to fidget, he knew that his family background and wealth strength were not very prominent, but he always loved Zhang Yunying, the third lady of the Zhang family. Compared with Song Ziwen, a powerful figure in the political circles, Chen Shouyin is only a film director who has just gained a little fame, but in the face of love, Chen Shouyin is unwilling to be a coward, he thinks about it and decides to use a telegram to test whether Zhang Yunying is willing to continue with him.
Zhang Yunying received a telegram from Chen Shouyin, and the tone of the telegram made Zhang Yunying feel particularly nervous, because Chen Shouyin said that "if you do not return to Shanghai quickly, you will commit suicide." Zhang Yunying, who had long been in love, rushed back to Shanghai for love and happiness and discussed her marriage with chen Shouyin with her father.
Although Zhang Jingjiang did not like Chen Shouyin, who made a living in the literary and art circles, he did not have a stubborn Zhang Yunying after all, and in the end, Zhang Jingjiang nodded and agreed to the marriage, and also took out 10,000 pieces of ocean to give his beloved daughter Zhang Yunying a dowry.
In 1927, Zhang Yunying married Chen Shouyin as she wished, and entered the palace of happy marriage. After marriage, the two were sweet and obsessed, and became a pair of fashionable couples who were loved by everyone.
Soon, Zhang Yunying gave birth to the eldest son Chen Ping, the second son Chen Peng, and with his wife and young son, Chen Shouyin thought about how to make his career flourish so that he could give the family a solid financial support.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="6" > father's support and son's understanding have become the warmest and most inclusive life background for Zhang Yunying after divorce</h1>
As the saying goes: when a man has money, he becomes bad. Chen Shouyin, while busy with his career, gradually became interested in the warblers and swallow-like actresses around him, and in the 19th year of his marriage to Zhang Yunying, the ambiguity between middle-aged male director Chen Shouyin and a young actress turned into an open lover relationship.
When Zhang Yunying personally heard her husband admit that she had cheated on her, she often shed tears of sadness during the day, and began to become difficult to sleep at night, she was such a proud and noble famous lady, this sudden change of love made her can't help but lose confidence in this marriage.
Soon, Zhang Jingjiang also heard about his son-in-law's cheating, and he wanted to comfort his daughter, but in the end, what he said to Zhang Yunying was very strong and powerful: If you think that this marriage is not necessary to continue to retain, then you bravely make a choice, and other things, as long as I can do it, will certainly not make you half a grievance.
In the spring of 1946, Zhang Yunying and Chen Shouyin formally went through the divorce procedures and ended the loveless marriage.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="8" > face up to his intrinsic value, Zhang Yunying slowly found herself and embraced a happy life</h1>
After the divorce, Zhang Yunying and her 2 sons lived in the Zhang mansion in Shanghai, and she originally loved to talk and laugh and socialize gradually began to become autistic, not only did not like to go out to meet people, but also did not bother to take care of her makeup seriously.
The change of his daughter Zhang Yunying was silently watched by Zhang Jingjiang, who was very distressed about the third daughter and gently advised her several times: Everything is caused by his heart, it is not your fault at all, let everything pass!
In the summer of 1947, Zhang Yunying's always excellent eldest son Chen Ping was admitted to Tsinghua University, and this considerate mother's filial piety did not want her mother to be immersed in sad emotions anymore, so she proposed to take her mother Zhang Yunying to Beijing to study and live together. Zhang Yunying did not object, simply packed his bags and embarked on a new journey of life with his eldest son.
After coming to Beijing, Zhang Yunying and her son rented a small house and settled down, and from that day on, Zhang Yunying chose not to reach out to her father for money, but to strive for self-reliance, labor and talent to make a living.
Speaking of talent, Zhang Yunying, who came from a rich family, is really a talented woman who is unique in all. At first, she earned a little living by teaching children to play the piano at home, and later, Zhang Yunying's excellent piano playing skills allowed her to take on the work of performing accompaniment for ballets and folk orchestras.
Many children who followed Zhang Yunying to learn piano have fallen in love with piano playing, they have studied the music theory of music in adulthood, and many have become well-known expert professors, such celebrities as Wu Shiquan, Wu Shikai, Dai Yuwu, etc., all of whom are well-known pianists in Beijing.
Since 1955, Zhang Yunying, who can speak pure and fluent English and French, has been introduced to the Central People's Radio, and whenever there are Chinese manuscripts that are eager to be broadcast but have not yet been translated into foreign languages, everyone is often the first to think of letting Zhang Yunying solve it.
Her talent and calm personality have made Zhang Yunying well received for her 15 years at CCTV, where she was passionate about editing and broadcasting and achieved her retirement day.
After retirement, Zhang Yunying has been living in the house allocated by the unit, and she has entertained herself by playing the piano in her spare time, and has also trained her sons and grandchildren to become piano artists, and her later life can be described as colorful and happy.
In 1998, Zhang Yunying died peacefully at home in Beijing at the age of 95. The third lady of the Nanxun super-rich family once had the life experience of unmarried and making a living in a different place, but with the support and encouragement of her family, Zhang Yunying bravely walked out of the haze of life and spent the second half of her life with great ease and elegance.
Zhang Yunying's carefully cultivated children and grandchildren have all come out, and she has also made immortal contributions to the broadcasting and piano cause of New China, which is the light and aroma that a talented female celebrity should bloom, and it is also the value of life that an independent new woman must show!