The end of the honorable family and filial piety

Traditional Chinese culture has two extremely important concepts of filial piety and loyalty in terms of ethics and morality. Chinese believe that honoring one's parents and elders is a matter of course. Loyalty to the king and patriotism are generated on the basis and premise of filial piety. Many dynasties in successive dynasties have preached filial piety to rule the world, equating filial piety with the way of governing the country, and punishing children who do not filial piety extremely severely. Chinese traditional concept also believes that those who are not filial piety will be punished by heaven and will be struck by thunder from heaven. And firmly believe that the son of filial piety must be an unfaithful person. Infidelity and filial piety are the most vicious curses and the worst evaluations of a Chinese. As long as a person bears the notoriety of infidelity and filial piety, his heart is extremely painful and struggling, he is ostracized among the family and the crowd, and it is difficult to truly gain a foothold in society!

Parents who receive the skin of the body do not dare to destroy it, and the beginning of filial piety is also the beginning. Meritorious service, fame, filial piety. This passage explains the ins and outs of filial piety clearly and thoroughly. How does filial piety happen to a person with filial piety? The most simple thing at the beginning is to think that every part of the body, hair and skin these tangible bodies are given by the father and mother, absolutely should not be destroyed and damaged privately, so the ancients grew long hair, there are also Cao Cao Horse Qingmiao cut hair instead of the allusion. Does filial piety stop there? Not yet. The ancients believed that a person's greatest filial piety lies in hard work, forge ahead, and make meritorious achievements, on the one hand, to give parents and elders rich material wealth support, so that they can have no worries about food and clothing, and can live a dignified and happy old age. On the other hand, through their own meritorious names, they should make their parents and elders and family members feel honored and have a face, so that while the society spreads their own merits, the great names and virtues of their parents can be manifested in the neighborhood, in the hometown, and in the society. Eminent family and fame is the ultimate pursuit of filial piety. It is precisely based on this that when filial piety and loyalty conflict, they often choose to transfer filial piety to be loyal, and when loyalty and filial piety are difficult, they often choose loyalty, and put loyalty and patriotism above filial piety for their parents. And parents often encourage their children to put loyalty above filial piety, typical of which is that the mother-in-law tattoos the four big characters of loyalty to the country on Yue Fei's back, which represents the best expectation of Chinese parents to be loyal to their children.

How can we achieve filial piety in the true sense? Filial piety is not to be done, and there is no filial piety in the poor and unworthy. This is the culture of filial piety. It is the first thing to have filial piety to parents and elders and to obey the reasonable wishes of parents. Instead of just meeting the needs of parents materially, just giving money and things is filial piety. If it is limited to this, it is often difficult for those children in a state of poverty to keep their parents and elders without worry, so it is difficult for poor children to meet the standard of filial piety just by giving money and things. In fact, many children who are temporarily in a state of distress, because of their filial piety, often interpret moving stories of filial piety, and there is good evidence in the twenty-four filial pieties, such as lying on the ice and asking for carp. It may be relatively easy to do specific things such as serving soup medicine and serving tea and water in filial piety, but the biggest problem in filial piety is the difficulty of sex. As the saying goes, there is no filial piety in front of the bed for a long time, and it is very difficult to last after doing all the filial piety and respect for the elderly.

The crow has the righteousness to feed back, and the sheep have the grace to kneel. Animals are still like this, but what about people? Chinese relocate to the land, attach great importance to filial piety, and emphasize that parents are not far away, and the tour will be good. Traditionally recognized in China is the first-class loyal servant filial piety. Traditional families are about filial piety. Lin Zexu said in "Ten Unhelpful": If you do not filial piety to your parents, it is useless to worship God. My parents are two living bodhisattvas in the family. Filial piety to one's parents is the greatest practice in life. As a child, one aspect should be filial piety, and with the heart of a child, we should respect and filial piety to our parents from the bottom of our hearts. On the other hand, we must do our best to achieve a career, be a person who is beneficial to others and society, and achieve the ultimate goal of filial piety. Only in this way can we be truly filial piety, a truly filial person, and can we achieve the proper standards and ideals of loyalty and filial piety.