After her friend discovered her husband's secret, she became a masseuse, and she once again had a happy marriage
Yang Yi \ original
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First, my friend consulted me about her husband's words less, her smile was less, and she would only have unlimited scenery when playing with her mobile phone, what was the reason for this?
Tingting is a good friend of mine, she is a famous masseuse, she has a happy home, they can be described as a model couple often praised by the neighbors, but not long ago she found that her husband said less to her, smiled a lot less, and the old open joke, he was either not interested, or nervously asked Tingting: "What do you mean?" Or ask if you've listened to what people say? One weekend evening, this friend came to me and said that I had obtained the "Psychological Counselor Certificate" and the "Marriage Emotional Counselor Certificate" and must be able to help her analyze what happened to her husband recently.
Second, help a friend discover her husband's secret
Listening to my friend's story, the first answer I gave her was that I wasn't sure if she was cheating, but at least she already had a very good confidant. In order not to let my friend mess things up, I first reassured her not to worry, but I must pay attention and figure out the situation behind my back, so that I can help her how to save the marriage. Later, she went to the advice I gave and found that her husband and the same beautiful woman had quietly met, but only chatted, drank tea, and did not do anything out of the ordinary, not even holding hands. She also believed that nothing outrage had happened between her husband and the beautiful woman, at least so far. I told my friends that there was only spiritual communication between them, which is called spiritual derailment, but if it is not saved in time, it may further develop into a physical and mental derailment together.
Third, I use the relationship between my husband and my friend's husband to explore his truest thoughts in his heart
Friends told me that during a week, her husband and the beautiful woman always met once or twice, chatting and drinking tea at the tea house, or just walking around the park, and after each chat, her husband's mood would remain relaxed and happy for several days. She said that her heart was sour and slippery, and the vinegar was getting stronger and stronger, and if she hadn't listened to my advice, she would have already beaten it, and maybe she would have pulled the girl's hair out of hatred. That time, I asked my husband to ask him to go to the sauna and teased him: "Your wife is a masseuse, your life must be very cool!" At that time, my friend's husband smiled and did not answer the question, so my husband asked again: "Doesn't your wife give you a massage?" He finally said solemnly: "She often massages me, but sometimes, I don't want her to massage!" My husband felt strange, is his wife's massage kung fu not enough, no, his wife is a famous masseuse, the massage level is recognized by many people!
Fourth, the friend's husband finally said his appeal.
Later, under the curious questioning of his husband, he finally said the most authentic words in his heart: "My wife only massaged my body, and what I needed was a gentle red confidant to massage my heart." Listening to him say this, my husband opened his mouth and could not speak. It turned out that what he needed more was spiritual comfort, and it was better to massage a man's body than to massage his heart. After my husband came back, he told me all this, and I was also reflecting, will my husband be like a friend's husband who lacks spiritual comfort and needs a heart massage?
Under my guidance, my friend began to save her lover with gentleness and sincerity
My friend said that if it were not for my repeated advice, she could not help but want to have a big fight with her husband several times, but she remembered the advice I said: "If you make a big fuss, it will speed up the development and deterioration of your husband and confidant." She didn't want to always lose to that red-faced confidant. Her own husband is still caring and considerate. Blindly complaining and blaming will only increase the husband's sense of loss in life. It just so happened that during this time, her husband encountered some trouble at work, and at this time, he needed the understanding and comfort of his relatives. So she put away her anger, like a wounded bird, and comforted her husband's anxious heart with the warmth characteristic of his wife.
When her husband was angry, she always smiled at him, although sometimes her eyes were full of tears of grievance. Her husband may also find himself out of shape and bow his head guiltily. She silently made him a cup of tea and began to slowly do his thought work. Tell him the distance between God's will and man's satisfaction, where the fire of anxiety comes from, tell him not to be hasty in everything, tell him that everything is not satisfactory, and seek truth that is worthy of the heart. Comforted by her soft whispers, her husband gradually calmed down and looked at his wife with gratitude and guilt, and he held her tightly in his arms.
After that, the first thing her husband told her was that he had something to worry about. She analyzes and solves problems with her husband from a woman's point of view, from a generous and tolerant point of view. When neither spouse can solve some problem, she tells her husband to face it with a calm heart. "If you don't care what you get, you don't care what you lose?" Every morning Tingting saw her husband happily walking out of the house with ease, which was her most gratifying moment. Since Tingting became his husband's psychomasseur, her husband has not been in contact with his red-faced confidant for a long time. Because now, as her husband's psychological masseuse, she no longer has to secretly eat the vinegar of beautiful women.
Conclusion: Smart women are masseuses for men.
In fact, man is an animal that is most different from the outside world. When a man says "no problem" in his mouth, his thighs may tremble. Men say they can stand it, may have reached the limit, and a light touch will break. Men's hearts are not as strong as they seem. Therefore, men have no obvious advantage over women other than they are better than women. A woman can be proud of being married to a good husband. It would be a shame for a man to be attached to a woman, to be rejected, and today, in today's fierce competition and materialism, men are like a horse on a leash. Whether you like it or not, whether you're a maxima or not, you have to open your hooves and run forward. When a physically and mentally exhausted man returns home, what he needs most is not only a physical massage, but a spiritual comfort. Every smart wife should be a psychotherapist for men. You tell me? Welcome to leave a message, thank you!
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