At the beginning of life, relying on struggle and skill, after reaching a certain realm, if you want to keep improving and go to a higher level, you must abandon both and enter the mental method.
Enlightened people, without competition, after reaching a certain realm, use their hearts to win. The superior mental method can be realized from the Tao Te Ching.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" >1, do small things well, naturally can become big things. </h1>
In the past, a colleague in the marketing department used "the heart is higher than the sky, and the life is thinner than paper" to describe himself, which impressed me.
In work and life, it is not difficult for us to find that those who have a high heart and want to do great things will live a very tangled life. Because high is not achieved, low is not enough; dreams are big, strength is very small.
When young, spirited people, after middle age, often begin to confess their fate, and reality is frustrating. In the adult world, there is no easy word because of the law of disobedience.
Only those who understand the law and conform to the law will have a smoother life and a more relaxed life.
Conforming to the law is: from scratch, from small to large, from weak to strong.
Lao Tzu of the Tao Te Ching said: "The wood of the embrace is born at the end of the millimeter; the platform of the nine layers begins from the earth; and the journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." ”
Tall trees start with small tree buds; nine-story high platforms are built up of one piece and one earthen brick; and a journey of a thousand miles begins with a small step by oneself.
This simple law, everyone understands, but when it comes to really doing things, many people leave it behind and rush to achieve results.
Doing small things well can naturally become big things. Keep this sentence in mind.
What we have to do is to give ourselves a direction, and then go in this direction, encounter problems, solve problems, step by step, you can go out of your own path.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" >2, not rushed, calm and calm, is the mentality of becoming a big thing. </h1>
In a group, the people who love the limelight and make noise are the pistachios of everyone; and their leaders are often calm and calm people.
There is a pattern behind this.
Lao Tzu said, "The weight is the light root, and the quiet is the restless king." Light is rootless. Restlessness is a loss of power. ”
Tranquility can restrain restlessness.
Not rushing, calm and calm, is the mentality of becoming a big thing.
Some people, usually very smart, can do things, but when they encounter unexpected situations, they panic, their emotions are out of control, and they can't stabilize the overall situation. Such a person cannot achieve great things.
Don't panic when things happen, calm and calm mentality, not born, to practice in things. After a long time in the battlefield, I have experienced more things, and it has naturally become a habit.
Wise people do not complain about unexpected situations, do not complain about too much pressure, but use them as opportunities to exercise themselves, hold back, hold on, and find ways to overcome them.
If you break through the level, you will not encounter the same level in the future; you will escape the difficulties and will encounter the same difficulties in the future.
All the experiences of life, whether good or bad, are wealth, this sentence is not chicken soup, if you have the opportunity to awaken, you will naturally understand, do not mind, do not escape.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >3, no need to compete, do yourself, you are the winner in life. </h1>
Some people like to be competitive and competitive, thinking that only by beating others and surpassing others can they become winners.
In fact, man's greatest enemy is only one, and that is himself.
If you pass the level of yourself and solve your own problems, there will be no more problems in life.
Lao Tzu said, "Goodness is like water." Water is good for all things without dispute. The evil of all men is therefore more than the Word. Live in a good place, have a good heart, be kind and kind, speak well and believe, govern well, do good deeds, and move good times. Husbands are indisputable, so there is no special. ”
Because there is no dispute, there is no special, no fault.
How can we not argue?
It is to let go of the self and let the energy of life flow freely like water. Water has no self, and it must flow nowhere without attachment, but just goes with the flow.
If there is an ego, there will be self-grasping. Where there is self-grasping, there will be disputes. Where there is strife, there will be competition and conflict. And then there's the bad.
Let go of the ego, and there is no self-grasping. Without self-grasping, there is no conflict. There is no conflict, everything goes well.
Avenue to Jane. Logic, it's that simple, and things are so reasoned.
Do yourself well, have a clear conscience, no need to compete, go with the flow, do your own thing, you are the winner in life.
Of course, the reason is broken, it is better to practice one. Only when you become enlightened will you find the preciousness of Lao Tzu's Tao Te Ching.
If the heart awakens, from then on, bid farewell to the past and enter a new stage of life.