Text: Yu Yu
preface
Recently, Xi Mengyao's 36th birthday.
He Youjun posted a family photo taken at home on social platforms,
The two of them were holding a son and a daughter in their arms, with giant pink roses behind them and two large cakes in front of them, with happy smiles on their faces.
Looking at the happy smiles of the two, I had to think of what He Youjun once said, "Listening to his wife's words will develop".
1. Love at first sight
Xi Mengyao and He Youjun's sister He Chaoying are good friends and best friends, so in Xi Mengyao's eyes, they have always regarded He Youjun as their younger brother, but He Youjun fell in love with her at first sight and always wanted to pursue Xi Mengyao.
At that time, he was successful in studying abroad, and after returning to China, He Youjun heard that the variety show with the strongest brain was particularly hot, and there were many strong people in it.
He was talented in mathematics and took the initiative to participate in the show, and he shined in the show.
He suddenly announced his withdrawal from the recording of the show, saying that he fell and injured himself in the bathroom while taking a shower and was unable to participate in the competition, which disappointed the audience who followed the competition.
But in the love variety show that turned his head, he was seen.
Many people are puzzled and ask, "Is the gambling king's son short of money, how can he go directly to the love show from the strongest brain?"
He was wearing the mask of Iron Man and dancing with He Mengyao in the show, and everyone reacted, it turned out that he was chasing his girlfriend.
When He Youjun was asked in the show, "Why did you come to this show", He Youjun expressed it directly
Insiders said that Xi Mengyao was going to be on this show, and there would be many different boys dating her, and he would feel a little jealous.
And what about Xi Mengyao? is still dreaming of dating a handsome foreign guy with blonde hair and blue eyes and 185 in the show.
In order to maintain a sense of mystery, she covered her eyes, and on the way to the dating address, there were different gifts for her, which made her look forward to the recording of this show even more.
But when the male guest with Iron Man took off his mask, Xi Mengyao was shocked and thought: "How can it be my best friend's younger brother, how can I explain to my best friend." ”
And Xi Mengyao also said in the variety show after that He Youjun looked very attentive, and after watching the previous news, he felt that this person was tsk.
So when they met for the first time on the show, Xi Mengyao was actually resistant to He Youjun, and even thought that he was deliberately doing things in the show and making a joke.
When Xi Mengyao was facing He Youjun, who was her best friend's younger brother, she really couldn't start dating.
But He Youjun's words in Hou Cai completely interrupted Xi Mengyao's back road.
He Youjun said that Xi Mengyao signed a contract with the show, and there was no way to quit the show halfway, so she still had to date me.
With the help of the program team, Xi Mengyao gradually changed her opinion of the younger brother of her best friend in front of her, and she gradually tore off this label to He Youjun and replaced it with the man in front of her.
At that time, Xi Mengyao fell unexpectedly in the Victoria's Secret show, and the voice of the outside world was not very good to her, so when Xi Mengyao was recording Lian Zong, her mood was not very high, and it could even be said to be low.
In the show date, in order to relieve the pressure on Xi Mengyao at that time, he went bungee jumping with Xi Mengyao.
Xi Mengyao, who was not afraid, was still hesitant when facing a hundred meters in the air, and said that he would not let He Youjun jump.
But in order to encourage her not to be knocked down by the predicament in front of her, He Youjun resolutely jumped down.
and said "Xiao Ming, everything will be OK", and told Xi Mengyao that everything would be fine.
I remember that He Chaolian also said in a show before that as a child of a gambling king, it is not allowed to do extreme sports or other dangerous things.
He Youjun's jump, she understood: he is not his best friend's younger brother, he is a man who can be trusted.
2. Running towards happiness
Through this show, Xi Mengyao found that she gradually had a heartfelt feeling for He Youjun, and the two gradually recognized each other in the advancement of the show.
Soon after, He Youjun proposed to Xi Mengyao with the theme of "Mario Breaks Through to Save the Peach Blossom Princess".
The marriage proposal that was once felt by the public to be "full of earthy flavor", and the proposal that was "ridiculed by the whole network", was more and more deliberate.
Because He Youjun's English name is Mario, he said
Why is there this design, because Mario is short, the princess is tall and thin, just the two of us, Mario saved the peach blossom princess, so he specially asked Xi Mengyao to wear a pink skirt to propose.
At the proposal scene, He Youjun, who didn't know which hand to wear the ring, asked his mommy loudly at the scene which one he should wear.
Many netizens said that He Youjun is such a mother, and he has to ask his mother which hand he wears.
But many people don't know He Youjun's intentions, he wants to tell everyone: This marriage is approved by my mother and our whole family. is also to tell Xi Mengyao, you are with me, you can rest assured.
He Youjun's mother Liang Anqi actually didn't approve of the daughter-in-law in front of her very much.
When He Youjun told his mother Xi Mengyao about this person, Liang Anqi didn't take her seriously.
But later, seeing that He Youjun insisted on marrying, he began to look at Xi Mengyao with the standard of a daughter-in-law.
In the program, He Youjun said:
His mother made a background investigation of Xi Mengyao, and asked his mother's friends in Shanghai, saying that he would test it out in one night of mahjong, and he could see what kind of person she was, and his mother felt that Xi Mengyao was first patient and had high emotional intelligence, so she gradually recognized this daughter-in-law.
3. Happy life
It is said that falling in love and getting married are two different things, and to see whether a man is good or not, we must look at his performance after marriage.
But He Youjun told Xi Mengyao with his actions, whether it is before or after marriage, I love you the same.
After marriage, Xi Mengyao gave birth to a boy, when the child was just full moon, it happened to be the 98th birthday of the gambling king, and the gambling king also used his "Shen" character to the eldest grandson, implying the continuation of life.
After marriage, the husband and wife went on a travel variety show, and the two of them were relatively young in age in the variety show, but Xi Mengyao showed a high emotional intelligence side.
The program team organized guests to eat around a table, and Xi Mengyao saw that there were no chopsticks on the table, so she immediately said to He Youjun: Go and divide the chopsticks, he didn't refute it, and quickly went to get it.
When He Youjun spoke, Xi Mengyao would also quietly remind him to stand up and speak.
seems to be reminding in front of everyone and embarrassing He Youjun, but in fact, it is because He Youjun is not familiar with human affairs.
So Xi Mengyao asked him to divide the dishes and chopsticks because the two of them were the youngest in it, and they couldn't let someone older than him share the dishes and chopsticks;
He was asked to stand up and speak because most of the people who ate at that time were elders and villagers, and sitting and speaking was a leader, and standing up and speaking was a sign of respect for others.
When they met for the first time and went to visit Yu Qian and his wife, the two of them went with gifts
Before leaving, he found that when he first came, Yu Qian poured himself tea and did not finish it.
So Xi Mengyao quickly picked up the cup and drank it all, and He Youjun next to him learned that Xi Mengyao also drank it all.
He didn't know why Xi Mengyao would do this for a cup of tea, but he knew that it was absolutely right to listen to his wife.
Because his father once said, "Listen to your wife, you will be developed, listen early, develop early"
epilogue
Seeing the happy photo of Xi Mengyao and He Youjun's family of four, I have to think of a word that has become more popular recently: "Those who love their wives are prosperous, and those who lose their wives are not rich".
He Youjun has never belittled his wife arrogantly because of his identity, but surrounded and maintained this small family with love. As for Xi Mengyao, with her high emotional intelligence and sophistication, she has won the approval of her mother-in-law and the respect of her husband.
In this relationship, two people are absolutely equal and absolutely respectful. I also hope that the two can still be happy in the future.