Yueyue's story is embarrassing. This child has lacked maternal love since he was a child, and when he grows up, he is rebellious and willful, which can be described as a typical "bear child". But when you think about it, Yueyue's growth trajectory is not the epitome of many families?
Speaking of which, Zhou Rong is also a poor person. In order to pursue love, she gave up the privileged life in the big city and followed Feng Huacheng to the remote Guizhou to become a rural teacher. Who would have expected that in the end, the bamboo basket was empty, not only lost his job, but also lost his daughter's supervision. By the time she came to her senses and wanted to make amends, it was already too late.
What does that old saying come about? "The love of parents for their children is far-reaching. Zhou Rong obviously failed to do this. She devoted herself to her career and threw her daughter to relatives to take care of, but Yueyue lacked a sense of closeness to her since she was a child. In adolescence, the relationship between the two dropped to a freezing point.
The fact that Yue Yue ran to France with her biological father can be said to be a straw that broke the camel's back. In order to find her daughter, Zhou Rong did not hesitate to leave her job and husband behind and went to a foreign country alone. Who knew that this would be 12 years, delaying all the good youth abroad.
After returning to China, how can Zhou Rong still have the scenery of the year? used to be a young and promising associate professor, but now it is difficult to find a position as an ordinary teacher. Fortunately, Cai Xiaoguang will not give up, otherwise I really don't know how to get through this difficult period.
Besides, Yueyue has lacked discipline since she was a child, and she has gone her own way when she grows up. In order to find a rich man to marry, he did not hesitate to be a junior, causing a storm in the city. This kind of willful behavior regardless of the consequences has brought a lot of trouble to the Zhou family.
But then again, Yueyue was able to return to the family later, and it can be regarded as a little growth. She took the initiative to invite her family to travel abroad, held a calligraphy exhibition for Zhou Bingyi, and even lent money to relatives to buy a house. These actions may be to make up for the damage caused to the family.
Zhou Rong was able to publish novels in her later years, which can be regarded as fulfilling her literary dream. She and Cai Xiaoguang went to remote mountainous areas to teach, which reflects the sense of social responsibility of intellectuals. Such an ending can be regarded as a relatively happy end to her bumpy life.
Looking back on the story of Zhou Rong and Yueyue, people can't help but sigh: parent-child relationship is really a profound knowledge! Parents want their children to be productive, and material support alone is not enough. Companionship and guidance are the most important "investments" in cultivating children.
Zhou Rong's experience tells us: no matter how busy you are, you must find time to spend with your children; No matter how far you go, keep in touch with your child. Otherwise, when there is a problem in the relationship, it will be difficult to recover.
For a "bear child" like Yueyue, we can't blindly blame. Her rebellion is, to some extent, also a sign of insecurity. If you can get enough love from an early age, maybe you won't go astray.
This story also tells us that there is no road in vain in life, and every step counts. Although Zhou Rong was delayed for 12 years, she finally found the value of her life. Although Yueyue took a lot of detours, she finally returned to her family.
Life is like a marathon, it doesn't matter how fast you run, the key is to persevere. As long as you don't give up, there will always be a bright day. Isn't the story of Zhou Rong and Yueyue the best proof?
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