In the final analysis, the truly blessed people are smart people, they know best the influence of the environment on people, and they will never foolishly go to the wrong place.
They know how to pick a place, choose an environment, know where to go and where not to touch.
If you step on a thunderbolt and enter the wrong circle, the result will be pulled into the water by the mess around you, and you will be covered in mud.
Smart people know how to avoid those three places, but make themselves more lucky, which is really not blowing.
01
Where energy and money are consumed, do not go.
Blessed people often know how to protect themselves, know how to save energy and money, and leave these things for their future and family.
And those who indulge in various meals and social occasions every day may have a good income, but after a meal, their energy is drained and their wallets are deflated.
In reality, there are occasions where not only money is consumed, but also spirit.
Those occasions full of contradictions and intrigues will only make people tired.
Instead of making the effort to participate in those social interactions, it is better to keep your blessings and avoid going to those places that consume your body and mind.
After all, I didn't have a few connections, but I spent a lot of money, and I couldn't save any savings in the end.
A truly wise person knows how to spend his energy and money wisely.
02
Where the quality is not high, go less.
The interaction between people does not need to be blindly accommodating, but also needs to be screened.
A truly blessed person will not trap himself in those low-quality circles.
There are always people around you who speak vulgarly, have a short temper, and do things out of proportion, and mixing with these people will only make you tired enough.
Instead of bothering to cater to it, simply stay away.
Take our circle of friends as an example, some people are not afraid to speak meat and vegetarian food, and their thinking is narrow-minded, and it is not worth your energy to waste energy to accommodate.
Instead of wasting patience with these people, it is better to spend your time with those who are more worthy.
Between people, there are high and low quality, and there are big and small patterns.
A person who really knows how to live knows where to go and who to make friends with, and those who lower their quality of life will go a little less, and life will be comfortable.
It is wise to stay away selectively, leaving your mind to those who are truly worthy.
03
Where too much pleasure is not to go.
My colleague Lao Wang originally did a good job in the company, with a stable income and a happy family life.
But since he became obsessed with hanging out with a group of fox friends and dog friends, he ran to those singing and dancing fields every day, drinking and playing cards all day long, and he didn't care much about his family.
At first, he thought that this was called enjoying life, but after a long time, his body could not bear it, his waist bag was empty, and he had frequent problems at work.
In the end, his originally decent life was completely ruined by himself.
If he had learned moderation earlier, it would be okay to relax once in a while, but he shouldn't let these pleasures become the whole of life.
And those who know how to control themselves can always stabilize themselves in the face of all kinds of temptations and not be dragged into the water.
They seldom go out of places where people lose themselves, because they know that a place of excessive pleasure is like a bottomless pit, and once you fall into it, it is difficult to get out.
People live a lifetime, not to live in the pleasure in front of them, but to make themselves happy for a longer time.
Over-indulging in immediate pleasures will not only drag down the body, but also easily attract people with ulterior motives to take advantage of it.
At that time, it will only be you who will suffer.
Let my words come into your heart
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