Many times, we swallow a lot of bitter water for the sake of that broken face and in order not to tear our faces apart from the atmosphere.
Think about it carefully, are these Raushzi's entertainment really worth it?
When you meet those three kinds of people, you can break it if you can, and don't be soft.
People live for a lifetime, and they have to have a little courage to kick those bad people out of life in time.
In doing so, you won't have anything to lose, but you'll make more room for yourself and usher in a burst of refreshment.
For middle-aged people, especially those who are too busy to touch the ground, we don't need to please anyone, and there is no need to wronged ourselves to cater to others.
01
People of bad character.
In reality, some people are always happy to spend time with friends, especially middle-aged people who have a lot of money and some spare money.
When you have more time and nothing to do, you will inevitably get together with friends to drink and brag, which can certainly kill the loneliness.
But if the friends are those who are drunk and meat friends with bad conduct, the consequences are not so good.
You see that they are drunk and dreaming of death every day, and they never leave their hands to smoke and drink, and slowly they are easy to become contaminated with these bad habits.
For example, I have a friend who follows a group of people who only know how to eat, drink and have fun all day long, but after a few years, his body collapsed and his family also had problems.
At first, I thought these things were very exciting, but as a result, after playing for a long time, I realized that I couldn't even find someone who could face myself in life.
At the end of the day, some things do seem happy, but those unethical behaviors can also cause you headaches.
People, don't patronize the bustle in front of you, learn to stay away from those who will drag you down, otherwise you will always suffer.
02
An acquaintance who is very resentful.
Some people retire and spend their days trying to help others out, only to end up with a mess of their lives.
In reality, the most important thing is to guard one's own one-third of an acre.
You're not a savior, and you can't solve so many other people's troubles.
If you always sympathize with those who are not doing well, and listen to them pour bitter water, most likely you will end up being exhausted by annoyance and making you feel bad.
For example, there is an old neighbor who comes over every once in a while and tells you about the mess in her house, what son is disobedient, and his wife is not considerate.
At first, you think it's good to comfort her, but gradually, she treats you as her emotional trash can and talks to you whenever she meets people.
As for you, it doesn't matter if you help persuade or not, but you end up with a bunch of negative energy in your heart, and your life is occupied by these bad things.
People, when you retire, you should let yourself live a clean life, and don't associate with any kind of acquaintances and relatives.
Those who are always full of resentment, it is better to stay away, so as not to let their bad things ruin your good mood.
03
Junk relatives.
Some relatives are more annoying than flies.
Usually pretending to be strangers, without even a greeting, but when they need money, the phone calls come one after another as if they don't want money, crying poor, sick, begging for help, and the words are more bitter than Coptis chinensis.
You say, is this a relative of you, or a wronged leader?
These people usually pretend to be high-minded, but when something happens, they can come up with all kinds of reasons to trouble you.
If you really follow their wishes and get used to them getting an inch, then you will really become a soft persimmon in their eyes.
If you don't get angry, they will treat you as a sick cat and think you are weak and bullied, and they can come up and bite at any time.
The reality is so cold, don't think that a family can have one heart, some relatives dismantle your platform behind your back, and secretly step on your feet, which is not soft at all.
You think that saving face for them is to be generous, but in fact, you are adding to your own blockage.
Dealing with this kind of person will only put all your good mood into it.
If you don't see their true colors in time and draw a line early, you will have to endure their endless tossing and turning in the future.
Let my words come into your heart
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