There is a hot topic that has aroused heated discussions among netizens: Is it really embarrassing for parents to not have a car?
Let's take a look at the answers shared by netizens:
The world is changing so fast that sometimes even I, a person who doesn't like to use my brain, can feel that energy. Now, the car is not just a means of transportation, it seems to have become a small yardstick to measure a person's success.
When you walk down the street and watch those luxury cars come and go, you will inevitably think, "Oh, everyone drives such a good car, I don't have anything, doesn't it seem too cold?" ”
But let's think about it deeply, is this really that absolute? I think it's a two-pronged thing.
On the one hand, there is the vision of society. Indeed, some people will think that you are not successful enough if you don't have a car, and will even point fingers behind your back. But the question is, are these people necessarily right? Can their vision determine your value? I don't think so.
Everyone's definition of success is different, some people think that being rich and powerful is considered success, while others think that family happiness and good health are the most important things. So, don't let other people's opinions sway your mood, you have to make your own judgment.
At the other end is your own thoughts. Do you think not having a car is a problem yourself? If you think you can live well by squeezing the bus and riding a bicycle every day, then you don't have to follow the trend and buy a car.
After all, life is for oneself, not for others. If you feel that not having a car is inconvenient and affects the quality of life, then you should work hard to earn money to buy a car. But remember, don't bother for the sake of face, that will only make you more tired.
Besides, the current society advocates green travel, and environmental awareness is getting stronger and stronger. Sometimes taking the bus, subway or bicycle is not only convenient but also environmentally friendly.
If you look at those big cities, the traffic jams are like something, and sometimes it's better to have a car than not to have a car. And ah, the saved oil money can buy a few more catties of meat to eat!
Of course, I'm not encouraging people not to buy cars. If you can, buying a car can really improve the convenience of life. But you have to know that cars are only a part of life, not everything.
It doesn't represent your full worth and abilities. A person's value lies in his character, wisdom, and contribution to society, not in what car he drives.