The wave of online information is sweeping, wrapped in anxiety and hope, lapping the coastline of every family, who doesn't want children to find their own route in this vast ocean and ride the wind and waves? As a result, when a "navigator" appears on the online platform and points out the maze with humorous language, it seems to become a beacon in confusion, attracting the attention of countless parents and children, and he is one of the high-profile "navigators"
He with sharp views, down-to-earth cases, for countless families to answer the college entrance examination voluntary filling problems, like a compass, for parents to point out the direction, but also for the children to plan a seemingly shortcut to success, "listen to Zhang Xuefeng is right" has become the consensus of many families, when the first batch of ships according to the "navigation" route arrived at the destination, but found that the reality is far from expectations, people began to reflect: this "navigation boat", is it really reliable?
At the registration site of this year's national examination, the wails came and went, those who were once full of hope and chose to be popular "popular majors" students, but now they are confused and confused, they were surprised to find that those so-called "golden rice bowl" majors, now the competition is fierce beyond imagination, once regarded as the "iron rice bowl" civil service examination, the registration threshold is also rising, and many positions are even closed to undergraduates
Parents who once believed that "learning mathematics, physics and chemistry well, and not being afraid to go all over the world" have also begun to doubt their choices, and they have watched their children struggle in the crowded job market, but they are unable to do anything, and they were once confident and determined, but now they have turned into deep regret and self-blame
The aura of "hot majors" is gradually fading in the face of cruel reality, revealing its original appearance, the job market demand is unpredictable, like the turbulent waves, and those who blindly follow the "hot" ships can only be ruthlessly slapped on the beach in the end
Zhang Xuefeng's advice is not without merit, and his experience and insight do provide a reference for many families, but parents ignore an important issue: every child is an individual, they have different interests, strengths and dreams, and blindly following the "hot" while ignoring the child's personality and potential will only lead them further and further down the wrong path
It is never a simple choice, but a long marathon, parents should start from their children's interests, guide them to explore, to discover, and find the direction that really suits them, rather than imposing their own wishes on their children and making them a tool to realize their dreams
The rise of emerging industries and the continuous progress of science and technology provide a broad space for the development of these majors
Parents should change their mindset and no longer regard "popular majors" as their only goal, but encourage their children's diversified development, cultivate their learning ability, critical thinking and problem-solving skills, so that they can face future challenges calmly
In addition to professional knowledge, practical experience is equally important, and encouraging children to actively participate in social practice, volunteer service, and internship projects, so that they can exercise themselves in a real social environment, will become a valuable asset on their future career development path
Don't let the "hot major" become a shackle that restricts children's development, and don't let anxiety and confusion blind parents' eyes, every child is a shining star, as long as you find a suitable position for yourself, you can shine brightly
Let's work together to create a more open, inclusive and full of opportunities for children, so that they can grow up in exploration, gain in practice, and finally become the helmsman of their own life and sail to their own sea of stars!
Zhang Xuefeng's popularity is precisely to grasp the parents' desire for "shortcuts" psychology, he in a simple and direct way, the complex professional choice problem, summed up the complex professional choice problem, into several seemingly clear paths, life choices are never black and white single choice questions, but full of unknown and challenging adventure journey
Those students and parents who lamented the registration for the national examination, perhaps a few years ago, also confidently filled in the "popular major" into the college entrance examination volunteer form, as long as they chose "popular", they chose success, but the reality gave them a slap in the face
The job market is changing rapidly, and the concepts of "hot" and "unpopular" are constantly changing
Blindly following the "hot" is like driving a ship without a compass on the rough sea, you can only go with the flow, and eventually lose your way, and those who can really ride the wind and waves in the workplace are often those who have clear goals, firm beliefs and excellent skills
Instead of being obsessed with "popular majors", parents should focus more on cultivating their children's core competitiveness, such as learning ability, critical thinking, problem-solving skills, communication skills, and teamwork skills...... These are the foundations of children's future society
Don't put your children in the future, imprisoned in the cage of "popular majors", the stage of life is broad and colorful, and everyone has the opportunity to find their own place and perform a wonderful life
Instead of pursuing "popularity", it is better to pursue "suitability", each child is a unique individual, they have different personalities, specialties, interests and hobbies.
Parents should let go of anxiety and use a more rational and open mind to accompany their children to grow up, help them understand themselves, find their true passion for their careers, and work hard for them
In addition to professional knowledge, social practice is equally important, encourage children to go out of the classroom, actively participate in social practice, volunteer service, internship projects, so that they can exercise themselves in a real social environment.
Don't let your children become "nerds" who can only read, and don't let them become "machines" who can only take exams, encourage them to develop their own interests and hobbies, cultivate their strengths, and let them have a colorful life in addition to studying
Hobbies are the motivation for children's learning and a part of their future life
Parents should believe that every child is a seed, and as long as they are provided with the right soil, sunlight and rain, they can take root and sprout.
Don't use the ruler of "popular majors" to measure your child's future, every child is unique and should be full of infinite possibilities
Let's work together to create a more open, inclusive and full of opportunities for children, so that they can grow up in exploration, gain in practice, and finally become the helmsman of their own life and sail to their own sea of stars!