#秋日生活打卡季#
Text/Han Xueli
Pine nuts fall on the chessboard - the things of the world, you have to let go, you have to be patient
This is true, Jiang Hanxing nodded, I hope that sometimes it may not be useful to be close to Zhu Zhechi, anyway, look at you, he shook his head, what is affected by me.
Tang Tao immediately said, why not, even the boss said, this bargaining ability is completely your apprentice, Occasionally, he also plays a little bit extraordinarily, the influence is there, but the form of expression may be different, the point is that he pointed with his fingers, the point is that there is a number here, don't suffer, don't have to be public, it's not about talking about small things, don't worry about big things, big things are the key.
Jiang Hanxing's mobile phone rang, and his expression was different immediately, Qingyao, I know I know, I'm going back, I'm sure I'll be home before ten o'clock now, no problem, okay, okay, I'll go back in a while, what about you, don't wait for me, go to sleep first, aren't you a little cold. Well, listen to your mother and go to bed early.
Qiao Ting cared, Qingyao had a cold.
Jiang Hanxing said, isn't it, when I was in the summer camp, I was still worried, but as a result, I came back, maybe I was relaxed, this is a cold, this child learns something, it's really troublesome, except for dancing, a little talent, other aspects, it's really sad.
Qiao Ting said to him, you are so demanding, is it a little success for people to dance, it is too successful, otherwise Mr. Wu, the music and beauty director of the provincial station, can you give a chance like this, okay, our Qingyao could have relied on appearance, but it depends on ability, it is quite powerful, you are not allowed to say that she is not good or that is not good, we are very good.
Okay, very good, the smile on Jiang Hanxing's face could not be hidden, that is my daughter, he looked at Qiao Ting, do you love us Qingyao more, or Mingzhu.
What is the problem, Qiao Ting is strange, you are so interesting, what kind of inexplicable problem is this, children are all loved, but Qingyao is different, she was born with me, can it be the same, and my own children have this treatment.
Jiang Hanxing is happy to say this, this is okay, don't be biased, like the new and hate the old, you can be righteous to me, you can't be good to my daughter, you can't see the better and more special, so you don't take care of us Qingyao.
Qiao Ting smiled, you, it's really interesting, some affection is piled up by time, more important than anything else. Jiang Hanxing asked rhetorically, it was more important than blood relationship.
Qiao Ting was stunned for a moment, this, this, sure, didn't you say that biological relatives are not as good as raising relatives, besides, why should you compare this, what is comparable, you can tie for the first place, don't you persuade people, you persuade Mike, why do you want to compare with your brother-in-law, people are father and son nature, except for He Shao, isn't it the second in He Yuan, what's wrong with the second, right, people can't be too serious.
She felt a little messy, in short, I don't understand what you mean, anyway, for me, Qingyao is different, because she is the first child I held in my arms as soon as I was born, I feel that she is very close, as if she is a part of me, may be a testimony of my youth, and I found that life is really wonderful, you actually have such a beautiful daughter, I was very surprised at the time, how is it possible, your daughter is so beautiful, so cute.
The joy and love on her face came from the bottom of her heart, Jiang Hanxing nodded, of course that is my daughter, why can't my daughter be particularly beautiful, am I ugly, let's say to Uncle Ke, my eyebrows and eyes are very good-looking, that is, my temperament is weaker, I belong to the natural beauty type.
As soon as these words came out, except for himself, Tang Tao and Qiao Ting both smiled and bent over, Tang Tao sighed, you are born beautiful, yes, born beautiful, this is it, such a coke, he sighed, come on, you can make people so happy all day long, I have to be with you all day long, you are too good, my family Qiao Ting, but I haven't been so happy for a few days. Or are you amazing.
Pine nuts fall on the chessboard - work is work, help is help, you can't take work to help
Qiao Ting was also very happy, that is, I was a little bored just now, and my mood was a little affected.
She didn't say it, Jiang Hanxing also knew that it was because of Zhang Huixiang's matter, he pretended not to know, you, don't be so hypocritical all day long, have something to say, don't make a fuss about nothing, how important people's emotions are, don't be pretentious, is it a child now, in the adult world, nothing less hypocritical, I don't like your petty bourgeoisie, entertainment is still good, there is no need to worry, I don't know how old I am, I have nothing to do to look in the mirror, you know that I don't know if I am in my thirties, okay, I'm going to run four.
Qiao Ting doesn't follow, it doesn't work, I'm still half a month, it's only my birthday, it's only thirty-one, how are you, what is running four, it's too hateful, thirty is just right, Jiang Hanxing snorted, come on, what can we talk about in our hometown, on the age of nothing, you are thirty early, whether you can succeed or not, it is really hypocritical.
He glanced at Tang Tao, it's all what you're used to, I can say it, women are used to eating and drinking, and they are not used to hypocrisy.
Qiao Ting snorted, I won't talk to you anymore, it's not in shape, I'm going to the car, if you have something, say it quickly, my family Qingyao is still waiting for you to go home, don't let her wait.
Seeing that she really got into the car, Jiang Hanxing said, okay, now I know that I can see people's eyes, and I have grown a little.
Tang Tao didn't understand, you really had something to do with me, he didn't understand, why did he hide from her.
Jiang Hanxing is helpless, Zhang Huixiang's matter, Xiang Huilan is really okay, bring Zhang Huixiang over today, I guess I want her or that Sun Ning from your Wenhui Academy to help, it is estimated that the workshop is not as profitable as sales, which and where, the workshop is stable, where is the sales stable, this woman, it is really, what about me, I found a reason, let her go over to give a cup of tea to the customers of our Yuanyun Office Building, she probably didn't meet them, your sales manager, it is estimated that it is powerful, and sent people away, you, knock on Qiao Ting, She promised me about this, I care, she doesn't interfere, I manage it much more normally than her, some things, can't be provoked, some people, not only sympathy can solve the problem, sometimes, can't make people have expectations of you, otherwise, everyone will be disappointed, the world is too much, she just doesn't understand, sometimes too sympathetic.
Tang Tao thanked him, thanked Lao Jiang, our family is this, that's it, it's good, but sometimes I don't know the scale, okay, let you bother.
He glanced at Jiang Hanxing, don't worry, you will always be the most trustworthy person for her, and I can't compare to this layer, not to mention others, between people, blood relations are not as good as the love in the world.
Jiang Hanxing's eyes lit up, each other, you know I know, there are some things, just don't say it, anyway, he smiled, making her feel a little indebted to me in her heart, that's good, I don't want her to be nice to me, I want to be nice to my daughter, He Hui, he shook his head, now he knows how to make money, but sometimes, he sighed, women still have to study, otherwise they are not qualified to be mothers.
These words made Tang Tao frown, okay, sister-in-law to the child, one hundred and one, which study class will not follow, the piano is better than your daughter, accompany yourself to accompany the reading, it's too good, such a mother, where to find, don't be too picky, manage the child, one person and one law, all for the good of the child.
This Jiang Hanxing admitted, he nodded, he was worried about it, he was attentive, that is, he shook his head, forget it, it's hard to say, I don't have much say at home now, fortunately, my daughter is facing me, people, you can't make mistakes, sometimes, when you make a mistake, you can't be justified, your heart is empty, I have to do something good to succeed, pleasing my wife is the biggest problem, she doesn't want to eat or wear.
Tang Tao said, buy flowers, women like it, didn't you teach me.
Jiang Hanxing nodded, okay, I'll go first, let's get a hundred roses.
Tang Tao got into the car, and Qiao Ting immediately said, what are you plotting.
Tang Taole, touching Qiao Ting's hair, conspiring, what kind of word is this, it is not accurate, is it a discussion or a study, he wants to please Sister Hui, ask me what I think, and decided to buy flowers, a hundred roses.
Qiao Ting wondered, why, what bad things did he. Such a weak heart.
Tang Tao was surprised, the woman's thinking was really strange, not because she was doing something bad, or because of last year, he himself sometimes felt uneasy.
Qiao Ting nodded, it was really rare, when he was still uneasy, he really improved.
She didn't think so, thinking about his ugly face at that time, it was really infuriating, that is, he was lucky, his wife was too virtuous, and he warmly welcomed the prodigal son to turn back, and he really didn't bother him, forget it, people with good luck can't be compared.
Pine nuts fall on the chessboard - the world is the greatest, if it is this standard and that rule, it is too aggrieved
I thought I had fooled Qiao Ting, but I didn't expect that when she entered the house, she soaked her feet according to the rules, and the daily newspaper was simpler, I felt that she ran to eat with Sun Ning and other things like this, which had nothing to do with work, needless to mention, not every daily newspaper, there was any important work to report, and I turned off the computer, so I remembered something, no, Tang Tao, sometimes she called Seventh Brother, sometimes called her name, saying that it was the name that was the most real, really, Tang Tao didn't know, but she was too lazy to correct her sometimes self-righteousness.
No way, you lied to me.
Tang Tao wondered, how did he lie to you, what did he want to lie to you.
Qiao Ting didn't follow, come on, if you and Brother Jiang mention how to coax Sister Hui, then there is no need to send me away, and, I want to think about it, the time you spend is not just this, besides, he sighed at most, how to coax a woman, he is better than any other, where will he ask you, you are much more honest than him. He doesn't need to ask you that.
This last sentence, Tang Tao listened to it comfortably, that is, how honest I am, yes, but this is equivalent to agreeing, this kind of thing, Jiang Hanxing has no need to send Qiao Ting away, and he nags him about this, he shook his head, you, now it is much more troublesome than before, and the progress is very fast, it seems that I can educate people better than Lao Jiang.
Qiao Ting snorted, less stinky and beautiful, that's a good education for Uncle Xiang, you, forget it, okay, you honestly tell you two what to calculate, don't let you deceive people, you can't do it for me, for me I don't mean you can lie to me, these two concepts, can't I hear the truth, am I so stupid.
Okay, there is a cost to deceiving people, there is a problem of integrity, Tang Tao said, okay, too lazy to lie to you, you can't guess that you are stupid, okay, nothing, just mention Zhang Huixiang's matter, he knows that Zhang Huixiang came over today, that is his territory, he knows that it is normal, right, what he means, help people can't raise a person's expectations, so easy to disappoint both parties in the end, it is best that everyone has a distance, both sides know the proportion, do not embarrass everyone, what about you, he feels, you are easy to be emotional, will make the other party increase expectations, In this regard, your friend Xiang Huilan is the most emotional, and has the most no boundaries between workplace and life, so he is quite a kind person, I estimate that Ma Qianli may have an opinion, you look at his expression today, I feel that he seems to be a little disappointed in Xiang Huilan.
This, Qiao Ting thought about it, it seemed that Qiao Ting's words, Ma Qianli mentioned to Huilan, it was originally called Huilan, but today, it was called Xiang Huilan several times, it seemed to be an unconscious sense of distance, but later it became Huilan.
I feel that Ma Qianli only admits to Huilan's kindness, and doesn't admit anything else, kindness, it's a virtue, but Jiang Hanxing yelled with Qiao Ting N years ago, don't mention kindness to me, that's the heart, not the result, the result is kindness without ability, it's nothing to look for trouble, not to find trouble for yourself, or to find trouble for others, if you don't have the ability, what kind of kindness do you take, just rely on a mouth, just rely on Zhang San's trouble, give Li Si to solve it, you open your mouth in the middle, you put on a big hat, it's too cheap, do things, Use your brain.
At that time, of course Qiao Ting wanted to refute, you are erasing the original intention, you are using consequentialism, Jiang Hanxing immediately said, what's wrong with consequentialism, do bad things with good intentions, isn't that a bad thing, because of good intentions, bad things become good things, I ask you, is it important to do bad things with good intentions, or is it important to do good things with bad intentions, of course, this is a bit extreme, I just mean, do you want that result to be a good thing, or don't care about the result, Qiao Ting didn't know how to reply at that time.
Anyway, at that time, she didn't accept Jiang Hanxing's point of view, she felt that kindness was the most important, and the result was not important, but later found out that the result was important, the result was not important, it seemed that it couldn't be landed, she was a pragmatist in the end, and found in reality that solving problems was too important, and she could understand now that kindness must be able to be blessed, otherwise, it would be just a sentence, and it really seemed to be just a sentence. A word becomes a virtue, as if it is a little light.
Pine nuts fall on the chessboard - don't care about small things, big things are the focus
Qiao Ting's face was confused, Tang Tao shook his head, okay, Lao Jiang said, he solved this matter much more reliable than you normally, do you think that this matter is operated by himself, since Zhang Huixiang is the old man of Yuanxing, then for sure, Jiang Hanxing greeted the boss, otherwise, the winery can't be so easy to talk to, you also mentioned it, the salary is higher than others, and the probationary period is turned into a regular, and there are twenty more points, is that his face, it has to be Lao Gu to come forward, what kind of person is Lao Gu, to balance between the Chen family and the boss, He knows too much what communication is and what is reporting, so he refuses to operate it himself, in case the people of the Chen family find out that something is wrong, Lao Gu needs someone to endorse, he must have mentioned it to the boss, so the current plan is nodded by the boss.
Do you think Jiang Hanxing can owe such a big favor, he refuses, he must be righteous, but righteous, not to carry the thunder himself, this favor, can he owe so much, so, you don't have to care, don't let you interfere now, it is estimated that it is the meaning of the boss, I am afraid that you will be emotional, but make mistakes, you must know that helping people has to help the idea, so that a person has too high expectations, that is a pit person, and he will complain.
I started to want to say that it was impossible, but after thinking about it, yes, what kind of person is Director Gu, a cautious person, such a person, it is impossible to violate the rules so much, give Zhang Huixiang such a special treatment, such a thing, even if Jiang Hanxing has some money to take away the cost of the hotel, but there is still a difference in treatment in the factory, and the regular employees only take care of the food, and they have not passed the probation period, and they only take care of the living, but now they are in charge of eating and living, at least they are treated as regular employees.
She had to nod, you are right, yes, the boss nodded, otherwise, Director Gu would not have been able to operate like this, Brother Jiang indeed, he does not owe such a big favor, his words, the favor in the workplace, is even more of a debt, not necessarily when to pay interest, how can there be a free lunch, okay, this is what the boss meant, I wondered, does the boss not believe that I can solve it rationally.
Tang Tao shook his head, are you rational, if you want to be rational, you won't ask this question, if you want to be rational, you won't question Lao Jiang is more normal than you, sophisticated, can you compare him, he knew Zhang Huixiang better than you back then, and now you know better than you what family problems are, ninety-nine people think that they should be divorced, the person involved may feel that whoever lets him divorce is to pit him, do you understand these better than him, forget it, you, have a preset position, do you think that in marriage, women pay more and suffer greatly, I admit it, This is the general phenomenon.
But specifically personally, you said that Ma Qianli and Zhao Yan's affairs, we all know it, we all know the details, they are in love, we have all witnessed, can you say, is it all Ma Qianli's fault, even if he mentions divorce, do you feel that he is a scumbag, this is not the same nature as Lao Jiang's last year, Ma Qianli is a little bit of care for Xiang Huilan's first love, but people have no other ideas, he and Zhao Yan's affairs, can't all rely on him, I always scolded him for being irresponsible, but it doesn't mean that I think he has many mistakes, at some levels, or Zhao Yan has many problems, I don't look like I'm married, I'm obviously a mother, but I don't know my role and I don't have a sense of family.
This example is given, it is a special reality, Qiao Ting wants to refute it, but think about it, it can't be said that Zhao Yan has little responsibility, Zhao Yan is a bit of a mother's daughter, and she listens to her mother for everything, as if she doesn't need to think, as long as her mother gives instructions, she is responsible for executing it, this is really not like a mother.
She nodded, okay, you will give an example, but, but Zhao Yan still paid more, this can't be denied.
Tang Tao said, you see you take the responsibility of paying, this is an abnormal way of communication, people and you say responsibility, you mention pay, one yard counts as a yard, you can't replace responsibility with pay.
Qiao Ting honestly admitted, you are right, I am a little obsessed, okay, I admit it, objectively speaking, Zhao Yan is more responsible, however, Ma Qianli's evasive personality has exacerbated this consequence, a mother's treasure girl, when she meets an evasive Ma Qianli, it has become a cold war greater than communication, okay, you barely convinced me, Zhang Huixiang's matter, if it is the boss's intention, let Brother Jiang intervene, I can't say anything, I really can't question the boss's decision. It's like you won't question Uncle Xiang's decision.